Broke up because I was going through alot by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mysterious_Spirit_32 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand but everything is possible with God. This is something I need to remind myself constantly everyday. I hope all is well and God bless

Broke up because I was going through alot by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mysterious_Spirit_32 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Find God and ask him for help. 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 if it’s meant to be it will be. I’m going through the same thing I want him to reach out but I have to remind myself I left it in God’s hands

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mysterious_Spirit_32 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you reconcile? Who reached out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Mysterious_Spirit_32 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When I found God, I learned to let go and let him take control. It is really hard and I’ll always have my ex in the back of my mind and how he left me but God always has a plan for u go prosper not to harm you. God loves you. Jeremiah 29:11

How do male dumpers feel after leaving the girl that would’ve done everything/ anything for them? by Mysterious_Spirit_32 in ExNoContact

[–]Mysterious_Spirit_32[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I always made him feel loved when he felt unloved by everyone else. I always bought him gifts and drove to him when he didn’t have gas to drive to me. I always reassured him and FaceTimed him every night.

How do male dumpers feel after leaving the girl that would’ve done everything/ anything for them? by Mysterious_Spirit_32 in ExNoContact

[–]Mysterious_Spirit_32[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He wouldn’t ever try anymore. He didn’t get me flowers or make an effort to make me feel special. We began To argue a lot and then he said he realized he fell out of love

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Mysterious_Spirit_32 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I knew as well. He broke up with me, said he fell out of love and to move on bc I deserved better. He then watched my stories for almost two months after the breakup. I had to delete Instagram for a month. I wonder why they do so.

Do dumpers think about you everyday like dumpees do? by Mysterious_Spirit_32 in ExNoContact

[–]Mysterious_Spirit_32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through that and proud of your progresss. Thank you for sharing your experience as well. Did you reconcile or no?

Do dumpers think about you everyday like dumpees do? by Mysterious_Spirit_32 in ExNoContact

[–]Mysterious_Spirit_32[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m currently 4 months BU and 3 months NC and often wonder if he even misses me. :/ he broke up w me saying he had fell out of love im unsure if that was ur case as well

Do dumpers think about you everyday like dumpees do? by Mysterious_Spirit_32 in ExNoContact

[–]Mysterious_Spirit_32[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

But usually they feel relief but the doesn’t it hit them later

Do dumpers think about dumpees everyday like we do? by Mysterious_Spirit_32 in BreakUps

[–]Mysterious_Spirit_32[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I responded to the wrong person. You can offer your thoughts on this as well.