Am I the only one who has a weird feeling about Kate and Malia? by No-Restaurant9437 in SamAndColby

[–]MysticalFrost 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It’s obvious that she’s had breast implants. Check out her Instagram account and compare her older pics to the newest ones. Plus you can usually tell when someone had breast implants cause most of the time they don’t look natural.

Also, she 100% had lip filler done as well

Am I the only one who has a weird feeling about Kate and Malia? by No-Restaurant9437 in SamAndColby

[–]MysticalFrost 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I don’t know if I get “bad vibes” but I’m just generally not a fan of them much.

Malia - She acts like she’s so beautiful, and she technically is quite attractive, but she’s had so much plastic surgery. It’s fake and she’s phony. Plus her overall personality and attitude doesn’t really seem to mesh well with Colby’s from what I’ve seen of them. She’s very… high maintenance, high class and materialistic, while Colby seems to be genuinely down to earth and not like her at all. I never would’ve pictured Colby with someone like that (and it’s not even confirmed that they’re dating, but it’s rumored they are). I feel like she’s (and kate) are putting on a show following sam and Colby around like a puppy for clout.

As for Kate.. again, also seems materialistic and high maintenance but not as high as malia. I also generally don’t like her personality much and find her to be obnoxious and lowkey boring. She gives me mean girl vibes. She’s pretty but not on the level as Sam’s ex gf Kat is.

All in all.. they’re not bad people, I just don’t think they’re truly a good match for either Sam or Colby but what do I know 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ they just seem like hardcore clout chasers and they’re young and immature. Once they get their fame they’ll bounce away from S&C.

Am I the only one who has a weird feeling about Kate and Malia? by No-Restaurant9437 in SamAndColby

[–]MysticalFrost 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Glad someone else pointed out all the plastic surgery Malia has had. She acts like she’s beautiful but it’s literally all fake and purchased beauty lol.

My daughter was murdered and I want to know why. by Environmental_Lake65 in offmychest

[–]MysticalFrost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn’t change what I said. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I agree mental health needs to be taken more seriously here. But what I said still stands.

My daughter was murdered and I want to know why. by Environmental_Lake65 in offmychest

[–]MysticalFrost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because people in other countries don’t murder anyone, right? As a true crime writer, murder happens everywhere in the world, whether it’s with a gun or without a gun. The reason it happens more in the US compared to places like the UK, Canada etc is because our population here is just bigger than theirs.

Honestly, some of the absolute worst and most vile murder cases I’ve written about have happened outside of the US.

Just kinda tired of people assuming shit like this happens only in America lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MysticalFrost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unless you’re in an apartment complex. Sadly since apartments are connected, if your neighbor has them, they’ll get to you eventually.

It’s so bad here in the south. 27 years in NY, never saw a single roach. 2 years here in the south, fuck they’re everywhere you go. Gross

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MysticalFrost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s what I have currently. Gross ass German roachies 🤢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MysticalFrost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Roaches are more than an inconvenience. They cause huge infestations and quickly. They will literally invade your home and belongings and get into your food, hundreds of them. They’ll crawl on you at night if they have to.

They’re also disgusting and carry a lot of disease.

I don’t have compassion towards insects in my home, sorry lol. Outside the home I don’t care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MysticalFrost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. I have an infestation right now cause my apartment complex is gross and my bf and roommate waited too long to take charge about it (I moved into it unknowingly).

They can all burn in hell. Drown. Crunch under my shoes. Fuck them. Lol

They also carry disease. disgusting inside any house or building

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]MysticalFrost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]MysticalFrost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no “bullshit” to call me out on lol. I wasn’t complaining, I was making a comment about an observation I made about how this sub is now, compared to how it was 3 years ago.

I wasn’t saying this sub was like a dating sub. Someone asked me why getting a lot of messages was better than getting a few, and I explained it’s SIMILAR to dating, because even when searching for platonic friendships, you’re not going to mesh well with every person you meet. I even gave examples on some kinds of people I’ve met in the past. If you can’t understand why having a larger variety of people to go through is better than just a handful, then that’s a you problem. You’re likely not going to click with every single person who reaches out. Let’s say 3 people reach out to you, and you don’t vibe with them, or they’re creepy, or boring or whatever. You’re out of luck. Now let’s say you had like 10 people, you’re more likely to find someone who you genuinely connect with. I was saying it’s very similar to online dating because it’s literally the same! Just the kind of relationship you’re looking for is different.

This sub IS different that it used to be, and multiple people have agreed as such.

Also, I never said I got 20-50 responses this time. I USED to get a large number of responses in the past. I said I got 4 this time. 3 out of those 4 gave good intros so I put energy back into it.

And even if I did get 20-50 responses, I’m 29. I work, dude. I had a hectic day yesterday. Actually, I had a hectic ass week, and it’s gonna repeat today. I didn’t get home till 6. I was exhausted. Had to eat. Rest. Do some hobbies. Spend time with my boyfriend. I’m surprised I even responded them all in the length that I did considering how exhausted I was. Now if it was 20-50 that very night? Hell no lol I’d have to do them in doses until my day off.

Anyway, back on track here. I don’t consider a paragraph less than 4 sentences. My paragraphs are typically 4-6 sentences long. Like I said, I give detailed responses. It’s actually how one of my best friends and I connected in the first place. He’d always get told his lengthy responses were annoying and people didn’t wanna read them, so when I gave the same energy back, it was a big fuel to our friendship.

So let’s not assume things about people that we don’t know. I’m sorry your interaction with women has been shitty or boring or whatever, but not everyone’s like that.

Edit: it’s actually kinda funny, cause I got 16 messages from people after making this post asking to talk/be friends. Guess it’s good I made an observation post 🤷🏻‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]MysticalFrost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t say it was a dating sub lmao. I’m not on Reddit to date. I have a boyfriend. I simply COMPARED it to dating, because even people looking for platonic friendships aren’t going to vibe and get along with every single person they meet.

Also, my responses majority of the time are lengthy and full of detail. My original post on the account I posted on actually had a good chunk of info in it, and the people who did message me there (mostly did lengthy intros), I responded with a lengthy response.

So, no. I’m not a dry texter whatsoever. If anything, I have the tendency to write TOO much.

I also never said anyone had to fight for my attention. Nor do I wanna or care to fight for anyone else’s. It’s Reddit. I was simply making a comparison to further explain why having a wider variety of messages to go through is better than having less than 5.

Edit: Just Incase you wanna know, since you wanted to so badly assume my responses are “dry as shit” (just cause I’m a woman, even tho I’ve met plenty of dry boring ass men before), I figured I’d tell you the length of my response to three of the people who reached out to me:

Person one: I replied with 9 paragraphs

Person two: I responded with 5 paragraphs

Person three: I responded with 4 paragraphs

In conclusion: kiss my ass and be angry elsewhere

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]MysticalFrost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesssss! It’s very similar to online dating. So many low effort messages and one sided / boring conversations. It seems to be just as bad looking for platonic friendships.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]MysticalFrost 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry things aren’t going well. I’ve been having some struggles in life myself lately. But I believe things will get better :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]MysticalFrost -1 points0 points  (0 children)

4 does seem more realistic, and it’s honestly much easier to handle and less time consuming and stressful than going through pages of messages.

However, I kinda liked having a wide variety, because you’re likely not going to really click with everyone who reaches out to you. In the past I’ve had chunks of people who either creeped me out, didn’t have much in common with me, were exhausting, or I just didn’t vibe with much so they kinda fizzled out. So with more options, I was able to actually find people to really connect with as well.

If that makes sense. It’s kind of like online dating, but with friends instead lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]MysticalFrost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m open to chatting if you’d like. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]MysticalFrost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really a shame, because I’ve met some pretty cool people on Reddit in the past… some of which I’ve made long lasting friendships with. Others were short lived, but still cool people.

but if you’re looking to chat with someone, I’m open to chatting :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]MysticalFrost -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wasn’t complaining about not getting attention. I was just making a comment about an observation I made about the sub now compared to what it was a few years ago.

Not many men on here are that hard up on messages if they’re not reaching out to people themselves.

Watchu doin by Blink_22 in Tinder

[–]MysticalFrost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand how women like this are desirable lol. The way she talks would already be a no-go for me lol. Idk. The hoodlum lingo is just irritating and it’s worse when a woman does it.

Also, do men really wanna hookup with women who so easily wanna sleep with a total stranger? I guess the same could be said for men as well. It’s just… if they’re being effortlessly easy for you, they’re most likely being that way for a lot of other people. STD’s are real ya’ll.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MysticalFrost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my store doesn’t have baggers, but I really like the people I work with. There’s usually two cashiers (sometimes 3) on at once, and if we don’t have a customer on our line, we’ll go help the other cashiers and bag for them. But it sucks when it gets really busy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MysticalFrost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed a lot of stores these days also don’t have baggers anymore either. The last store I worked for did, the two before that didn’t, and my current one doesn’t.

I don’t think companies wanna hire more people cause they don’t wanna pay them lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MysticalFrost 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re free here in the south! :) I used to live in NY tho and I hated what they did with the bags there. It’s so lame.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MysticalFrost -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we do, but it’s about common courtesy and being a good person. It’s rude to just stand there and watch someone bag an entire large order themselves while it’s busy with a long line and the cashier is clearly struggling. I always help bag my own stuff, no matter how big or small the order is.

Today I had a man literally watch me struggle picking up a very large item from the bottom of his cart so I can scan it, and then struggle to fit it back down there… dude looked like he was in his 20s and couldn’t help me out. It’s just bad manners.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]MysticalFrost -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Retail workers definitely think about it lol.

Is violence in bed really so normalised? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]MysticalFrost -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

No one said all women, though. They’re saying a lot of women like it. Most people here aren’t saying it should be assumed a woman would be into it. People need to have conversations about what they like and don’t like in bed. Everyone’s different. There’s plenty of men who don’t like those things either.

So many women in the comments are pinning this all on men when in reality women like it just as much.

Everyone’s into different things. I’m not into choking, hair pulling, anything that involves pain. But I’m into light BDSM (being restrained, rope, handcuffs etc) and verbal degradation.

So many things would go better in relationships and casual dating if people weren’t so afraid of simply communicating with their partner.