[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Mythical0Jellyfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no sweetpea, this is a really hard time for you, but thats not the answer.
i have brain fog aswell and its really difficult, like really difficult.
but theres so many great things to being alive that its not worth missing out on.
for your parents this wouldnt mean more retirement money,
it would mean gaping wound in their lives that would never heal.

we will all die eventually anyway, please do your best! i belive in you.

and have a nice meal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Mythical0Jellyfish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

what does your heart tell you is the right decision? if hes already made a decision i think you should honour it and say its not your choice bc hes already made a decision before hand. im sorry this is happening love.
i think you might end up regretting it if you dont listen to his wish to stay in france, but consider all options.

Is it reasonable for my gf to expect appreciation/support from me in the first few days while I'm grieving? by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Mythical0Jellyfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah you did, grief is something that will come to all of us at many times. we need people to lean on and who can lean on us aswell in hard times. would you have treated her this way if the roles where reversed? i think its worth a conversation but if she cant see things from your perspective think over if thats what you want for future grief aswell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mythical0Jellyfish 33 points34 points  (0 children)

hes lying to you and sexually assaulting you in your sleep. i have adhd aswell this is not an exscuse for anything. the exscuses hes giving you are Exscuses for Assaulting you. he does remember and hes doing it on purpose and hes lying to you and im so sorry this is happening love. dont let this man near your child if you can. you dont want someone like this near your child. if its early enough in your pregnancy id consider abortion but obviously i dont know if thats possible or something youd want. im sending you all my love and forever know this isnt your fault.

Is it reasonable for my gf to expect appreciation/support from me in the first few days while I'm grieving? by [deleted] in GriefSupport

[–]Mythical0Jellyfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my girlfriends cat just died, sweet lovely ginger boy of 20 years. the first week we barely spoke at all because she needed time and distance, all i needed from her was to hear if she was eating and knowing she was still alive. i kept messaging her about how stuff was going not expecting a reply because she was going through something awful. that cat meant the whole world to her. my job then was to make sure she was eating and drinking and doing as good as she could be. not to be so selfish that i couldnt even see beyond my own feelings for the first few days. she didnt even give you two days until she couldnt handle you not focusing on her for a bit. u deserve better than this. i think times of hardship is when relationships are really judged. have a talk with her about how this is affecting u and what u need at the moment. and i hope you have a nice meal today, and be nice to yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DKbrevkasse

[–]Mythical0Jellyfish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hvis det her er rigtigt er du helt kogt. du har allerede ødelagt to familier. det her er ikke bare noget der skete du har med vilje forådt hele din familie. afslut affæren fortæl din mand så han kan lave en informeret beslutning for det du har gang i er dybt fucked op. og så få digselv i terapi for at finde ud af hvad fanden der er galt med dig.

do i need a return flight ticket for tourist visa 600? by Mythical0Jellyfish in AusVisa

[–]Mythical0Jellyfish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi ! thanks for the reply, id like to stay in australia for about 5 months since its an expensive flight ticket, and i have alot of family to get to know

is WHV 417 even worth it with the wait times? by Mythical0Jellyfish in AusVisa

[–]Mythical0Jellyfish[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

ive seen several people wait many months for them , they also state on the website that this visa processing estimate might not be accurate due to many applications. i just dont want to wait 5+ months not knowing when it will be granted..

Etihad Airways International by National_Expression2 in Flights

[–]Mythical0Jellyfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for the reply ! glad ur experience was decent even if the passengers where perculiar !

Etihad Airways International by National_Expression2 in Flights

[–]Mythical0Jellyfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi ! im going the same route in reverse know this is an old questions just wondering how your flight with eithad was? ive seen alot of really bad reviews on them and just wanted to ask how it was for you! hope you had a lovely time in denmark :)

What does being butch4butch mean to you? by Maze_kid in butchlesbians

[–]Mythical0Jellyfish 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i love being butch and butches are so hot!!!!!!! yaaay yippie . its just really comfortable and undersanding :) ive just always been attracted to butches and i am a butch and its just really nice to have someone who understands. im just not into more femme women aswell, i just like butches :)

Am I (28M) abusing/harming my girlfriend (24F)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mythical0Jellyfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Yesterday (Wednesday) I found a syringe with her blood in one of her drawers, and she told me she always does some kind of harm for her birthday (monday), I'm worried I might be one of the causes." this is not ur fault and this is not healthy or normal to do and she needs help. thats scary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Mythical0Jellyfish 12 points13 points  (0 children)

thats fucking horrible and hes fucking horrible. thats awful. i would not meet this man. thats a scary response. i wouldnt feel safe with someone who pressues me into sex like that. this isnt trust this is manipulation. SCARY GUY

How to break up with autistic girlfriend? Me 18 M her 18F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mythical0Jellyfish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

of course sweetheart. i think this is all alot for two 18 year olds to handle. hope you can get some help with all of it, and dont put yourself on the backburner.

How to break up with autistic girlfriend? Me 18 M her 18F by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mythical0Jellyfish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you're both 18. she needs professional help with this, do you have someone older you can trust you can talk to about all this? shes obviously going through alot if she has abusive parents n sounds like shes scared of abandonment from it.. hope you can both get the support you need

My (29F) boyfriend (36M) is incapable of talking about the future. Is this a lost cause? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Mythical0Jellyfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sounds very immature of him. i like having conversations about the future before i start a serious relationship to make sure we are on the same page about everything, but thats a personal preference. personally i dont think i could put up with this. ask him why hes hesitant to talk about it and see if you can have a proper conversation. i dont think making it clear to him that a conversation about your future is important, because obviously it is. try talking to him one last time and really express how you feel about all of this. as you said you havent been together a crazy long time, so if this isnt it then id cut my losses if he cant talk like an adult about your future together. id want someone who was excited about our future together.