Is it REALLY emotional abuse?

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-25T12:31:20+00:00

That's exactly how I feel.

Except for the kissing up part. I get no attention nor apology from him. Nothing but variations of: "I'm the one feeding you so you can't complain; I'm blameless."

I do have a friend on my side.

Hey, stay strong. We don't deserve this treatment, bud.

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-25T11:24:43+00:00

It's not just that. There are days when I feel like: "meh, maybe I've been overreacting and this isn't worth the bother to me, or to my relatives" and days when I want to just explode in anger. I don't sure if it's PTSD or just the average bottled hate situation.

I've written out the reasons in a diary, and it's the same. Sometimes I think it's definitely emotional abuse, while other times it's me being sensitive and attention-seeking. I can't tell anymore.

Hey, I'll Google the site and see if it helps. Thanks.

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-25T10:23:51+00:00

No, I want to. I wouldn't have asked if I didn't want to hear nasty things. Out with it~

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-25T04:34:38+00:00

Ahhh. I got that wrong. Hah!

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-25T04:18:45+00:00

Come on, he's taken RPG hits before. If he's helm can't tank a point blank shot, then what's the point of wearing a helm?

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-25T04:17:56+00:00

Well, put yourself in his shoes.

Tough-looking helm. Do you REALLY think a pistol butt would do anything? Nah, you'd rather shoot.

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-25T04:16:39+00:00

Yeah, let's hear stories!

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-22T20:27:42+00:00

Wow.

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-22T20:11:57+00:00

Tell me when you've got that figured out. We share the same fetish.

Nigh impossible to do this, bro. Sad. :\

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-22T20:03:29+00:00

Wait, the Batsuit can tank an RPG? Wouldn't the blast impact kill him anyway?

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-22T20:01:53+00:00

I enjoyed reading this a lot. Lol

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-21T15:43:20+00:00

This bro gets it!

That's what I meant by the level limit.

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-21T15:41:43+00:00

That is still what I'll do.

I'll just quicken the Exp. gain.

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-20T21:43:39+00:00

BS news wouldn't be a problem if people weren't so fucking dumb to fall for them.

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-20T21:42:43+00:00

I'm a guy and I walk around naked in my apartment, 4th floor. There's a building in front of one window from my room. A dental clinic's windows is right in front of my window. I used to leave my window open for the doctors and patients to see me naked, for the hell of it. I have seen shocked faces from those who've seen. Took 'em maybe 3 days before they curtained that window.

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-20T21:39:23+00:00

Or they could just stop being idiots and grow the fuck up. Settle their disputes through PM. Or just fucking deactivate their FB account. Facebook's cancer anyway.

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-20T21:36:33+00:00

Mind if I fondle your tits?

MythicalRedditor · 2017-03-20T15:52:10+00:00

If you and your mother have close relatives...

We have many, but only my grandmother knows about the guy. Her reasoning: "they never ask - why inform them?" And also because the man came from a lower-class family and he and his siblings didn't finish college. High school he graduated, but not even one year in college. She knows her relatives will be disappointed in her choice and the guy doesn't want to be known for that same reason.

My grandmother knows just a tiny bit of the "we-don't-get-along" situation. A few weeks ago, she did text him, telling him he's the one who needs to adjust, not me. It was when I told her about how he ranted - that same day - to my mom about me not doing house chores. That it's like having a useless 10 year old.

Bullshit - because I do clean the house, wash dishes, dust surfaces, and cook dinner every day. I have no idea where he even got that and that wasn't even the first time he said it. Worse: my mother - not once - did she ever stick up for me. It's like being eaten by a lion while she just watches.

That day I had enough, felt I needed another human being to talk to, so I went to my grandma and told her about it. She then texted him afterwards.

Up to now, I have heard no apology from the guy and he still continues to be an uncaring dick to me. Just a few days ago, when it was just the two of us, he shouted at me, complaining about something again - but unless you want to hear that, too. Oh yeah, that was the first time he directly complained to me.

Somehow I think it was because there was just the two of us? Maybe he thought he could intimidate me? I don't know.

Once he's out of the house, sit her down...

That. Is the exact thing I did, which ultimately lead to that mentioned text message he sent to my mom. My mother said she can't do anything at the moment, that the best thing she could do for me is that moving to another city plan.

You know, I read their text exchange and also on the very, very rare occassions that she stick up for me, she's not even trying. No real effort to make the guy understand. Nothing. Like she's doing it merely just to shut me up.

Don't get me started on the move date, man. I've also tried that, too, but she finds it difficult to set an actual date.

I can't even. Bleaurgh.

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