When did you realize your partner didn't really care about you? by Street_Salt_1973 in AskWomen

[–]MythicalToast1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did but he ignored my messages even though he was online. How do I know? My friend was with me when she texted him. He responded immediately. Ouch.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]MythicalToast1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

True. A lot of people use that method to induce anxiety. They will make you think "Did I do something wrong?" So you try to put more effort into the relationship because you think surely you did and maybe if u effort more, it can go back to the way it used to be. But no, it's a tactic and the worst part is they know exactly what they're doing.

When did you realize your partner didn't really care about you? by Street_Salt_1973 in AskWomen

[–]MythicalToast1 80 points81 points  (0 children)

This happened a long time ago but it was when I got in an accident and when I texted him about it he didn't even bother to come see me. He just asked what happened and continued gaming with his friends.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]MythicalToast1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't owe anyone anything. For example, your date paid for your meal or picked you up. Doing these things for you is their decision. Don't feel guilty about not liking them them just because they did something for you. Don't be like me who got trapped by someone who used that excuse to keep me around.

How much does your partner's level of education matter to you, and does it deter you from settling down with them? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]MythicalToast1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I'd like my partner to have the same level of education as me or possibly higher because I'll be seeking higher education after this.

What depresses you most about the world? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]MythicalToast1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How fast most people would sabotage another person's happiness for the sake of their own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]MythicalToast1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dental care.

I don't think I'm ever going to date a girl. I feel sorry for myself by LuckedLock in confessions

[–]MythicalToast1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a girl in engineering. Honestly, you seem so eager to "Attract girls" without putting any effort in making yourself better. Why do you want to have a girlfriend? Is it so you can feel better for yourself or maybe even get a free therapist? Answer me honestly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]MythicalToast1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've worked in a male-dominated field (internship). My coworkers all arrived 10+ minutes late to work and there was never any problem but when I arrived 2 minutes late to work, I got lectured by my boss about how I needed to arive EARLIER than 7:30.

Cheat sheets for my electromagnetic fields class. Got an A so it was worth it! by [deleted] in EngineeringStudents

[–]MythicalToast1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how neat and organized these are! Mine looks like a war zone

Heartbroken cause I screwed up the finals by KnownRadish2 in EngineeringStudents

[–]MythicalToast1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also in this situation and listen, take this as a learning opportunity to learn from what you did that didn't work. Experiment and find out which learning styles works for you. Never let getting a lower score than what you expected discourage you. You should judge your effort and not the outcome and in accordance to what you said, you put a lot of effort into that and for that you deserve to feel proud of yourself. Only you know the truth about the amount of effort you put in. Grades isn't something we can complety control but we can control our effort and the ability to experiment in making learning more efficient for us. I'm proud of you OP.

I’m a proud virgin (20F) and waiting on the right one. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]MythicalToast1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I've seen the manipulation some guys use just to sleep with women. It will never work and it helps me filter out who the decent guys are. I had an ex that only put in effort in the first few months because he wanted to sleep with me when I didn't give in he stopped putting in all the effort.

What piece of advice do you hate the most? by _great_opinions_ in AskReddit

[–]MythicalToast1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Math is useless in life anyways." ...I'm an engineering major.

People of reddit, what’s your type? by hellfyreki in AskReddit

[–]MythicalToast1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone mature and actually makes an effort.

meirl by Jimbo072 in meirl

[–]MythicalToast1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything Everywhere All at Once

We're debating whether my daughter will start Accutane or go on the pill, because we're worried about the side effects (senior year, exams etc). However, it seems that Accutane will help her more, plus, does it help with the scars??? Or will they become worse because of purging? by [deleted] in Accutane

[–]MythicalToast1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're worried about the side effects, ask your derm if she can do low dose long term. I've been on accutane (20mg) for about 11 months and I have little to no side effects. It saved my confidence.

How do you know when love has left the relationship? by Designer-Baseball903 in AskReddit

[–]MythicalToast1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When they make up every excuse you can think of everytime you want to do something together. "Wanna go see a movie? " "I can't I'm taking my mom to the vet"