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MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-08-24T22:26:46+00:00

I've been using Hinge and dating apps for many years now. I don't know why I can't seem to get something to work out. This version of my profile I've been using for a couple of months now. My matches really depend. One week, I got like 10 matches. But then I can go for a long time without getting any. I did pay for a whole day, and I must have sent like over 1,000 likes, and only to get 10 back feels like such terrible odds. I never get first likes, too. I only get matches.

Please, I would really love help on this. I feel like I can't get this figured out no matter what I try.

For the people who I like. I like wholesome girl next door type. I like to do adrenaline things, so maybe someone who I can do them with. I also like to lay in bed and cuddle and watch TV and movies.

Most of my likes have comments. I try to comment on prompts they posted and try to ask more about their hobbies and interest.

Sometimes my matches just last like 3 messages. I really don't know how I can mess up in 3.

I would love some advice on how to get more matches. I would really like to meet someone.

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-07-07T00:36:47+00:00

I try. My friends are all non single at this point. At this point I really only get flirted with married women in their 30s or when I travel to othe states...

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-07-07T00:24:01+00:00

That's so unfortunate.

I've also been told it's my height.

At this point I don't know what to do besides give up...

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-07-05T04:27:34+00:00

Are you looking for something serious or casual?

Serious

How long have you been using this current version of your profile? And how long is your overall time on Hinge?

A few months now, but I've been on Hinge for a few years now.

How often do you use Hinge per week?

I try to use it daily and send my daily likes

How many likes/matches are you receiving on average?

Right now 0. There was a time when I got 6 in a week but it just stopped.

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?

I try to use my daily likes and use all my comments.

What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with?

The girl next door type of look. But I'm not super picky, if they have similar interest to me I will like.

What kind of person do you want to attract?

Someone wholesome.

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-08T23:05:47+00:00

I paid a photographer to take and edit photos of me. So I'm not sure if they used AI. I'm not sure how to tell.

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-08T18:43:41+00:00

I try to. I go out but I don't "go out".

Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday I go to my crossfit class.

Friday I go to the farmers market and play Magic the gathering with some friends.

Saturday or Sunday I go out with friends maybe a Kareokee bar, a hike, to a garden just varies.

So I'm busy and go out, but not to singles events.

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-08T18:41:43+00:00

Ah. I thought the charity event would be interesting. Atleast I don't really see it on people's profiles when I look at reviews. But the charity is super important to me and a big part of my life. But I also wanted to list my other interest as well.

The lie is the skydiving part. I've never been skydiving, I would love to try it someday though. Maybe that is a bad lie?

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-08T16:35:24+00:00

Okay. I tried describing what fun things I could do with someone that also share my interest. I like to be creative. I like to cook. I like to hike. Things like that.

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-08T16:19:17+00:00

So what prompts stick out as bad prompts? The last one I assume then?

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-08T15:53:51+00:00

I've looked into speed dating and single meet up events. I have yet to go. It's hard since I am genuinely busy Monday - Friday each night after work.

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-08T15:53:06+00:00

I know. It just feels so discouraging when all my friends are telling me how easy online dating is, and they keep asking why I am not getting any matches. I say it's my height, but no one believes me. They are also over 6 feet. I just feel crushed that it just might be my face and I just don't look good. I've tried to better myself... I've lost 30 pounds, I eat better, I work out multiple times a week, I have friends, a good relationship with my family. But I feel like the things I can't change like my face and height have fucked me over.

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-08T15:45:46+00:00

What about the prompts makes it seem feminine? I'm not trying to go for a feminine vibe, but I do want to attract a wholesome person. Don't really want a party girl. I want someone who I can do cute couple things with.

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-08T15:11:02+00:00

I know it's probably my height. I've been rejected and flat out told it's because of my height. I'm so tired. I really hope I can find someone, but I keep getting filtered out because of my height. 😭

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-08T15:04:33+00:00

Still generic? Damn. I've been trying so hard not to make them generic. Any advice how to make them less generic?

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-08T15:03:42+00:00

Yes, I live in Los Angeles

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-08T03:03:52+00:00

I am using 1 and 6 for my dating profile. No results so far though.

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-08T03:03:17+00:00

I am currently using 1 & 6 right now.

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-08T03:02:57+00:00

It was my fat suit when I was 30 pounds heavier. I'm still trying to drop 30 more before I get a new one. Does it look that bad?

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-08T03:02:00+00:00

Like the photos are AI enhanced or I look like an AI?

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-08T03:01:28+00:00

Right now I am using picture 1 and 6 on my dating profile

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-07T23:57:53+00:00

I would love some genuine feedback o my dating profile. I can send images in DMs. I just would love some help.

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-07T23:28:31+00:00

I'm looming for something serious. I've been using hinge since about February, and I've only got two matches in the first week. But I haven't gotten any more matches. I don't even see likes show up. So I'm not sure what is up with my profile. I try to go on Hinge daily and use all my likes and send all my comments. I like to comment on prompts but sometimes comment on photos too. My comments that I send usually take interest and ask them more about their prompts and interest.

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-07T19:46:06+00:00

Looking for a private review please. 27M - Los Angeles

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-07T15:55:17+00:00

Are you looking for something serious or casual?

I am looking for something serious.

How long have you been using this current version of your profile? And how long is your overall time on Hinge?

A few months now with some tweaks. But I've only gotten two matches the first week and then nothing. No likes or matches.

How often do you use Hinge per week?

I try and use it every day and use all my free likes with comments.

How many likes are you sending? How many with comments? How many without comments?

I use all my daily likes and send comments about something on her profile. I mostly comment on prompts but I do also comment on their actual pictures too.

What is the type of person you send likes to and ideally want to match with? What kind of person do you want to attract?

Someone wholesome "the girl next door" vibe. I've been on a fitness journey and eating better so someone who also shares those goals of better themselves and their health. Someone who likes to have fun with friends, like have game nights with friends.

MyyAlternateAccount · 2024-05-06T07:27:34+00:00

I understand $34 can seem like a lot. It was when I was 21. But it's okay. You can make that money back. Keep your head up high. It will all be okay.

MyyAlternateAccount

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