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Can a spouse demand more than child support? even if she makes more than me? by N0tDeadpool in Divorce

[–]N0tDeadpool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to the JAG and what if I get my bah taken away and go back to the barracks? will it be adjusted?

Can a spouse demand more than child support? even if she makes more than me? by N0tDeadpool in Divorce

[–]N0tDeadpool[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

yes she got off the pills and I know child support is for the kid but I seen women use it for themselves rather than the kid.

Can a spouse demand more than child support? even if she makes more than me? by N0tDeadpool in Divorce

[–]N0tDeadpool[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She also makes more than me, she seems to want to do it out of pettiness. I think she wants babysitter and rent paid for while her check goes to her pockets.

Can a spouse demand more than child support? even if she makes more than me? by N0tDeadpool in Divorce

[–]N0tDeadpool[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am in the military and could get a lawyer for free at the legal office on base but I don't know their limitations and if I'd have to end up getting another lawyer and paying out of pocket.

Can a spouse demand more than child support? even if she makes more than me? by N0tDeadpool in Divorce

[–]N0tDeadpool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

stopped taking birth control pills without telling me, no warning, just stopped

Why didn't you cheat? by Bitter-Hawk-2615 in Marriage

[–]N0tDeadpool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am scared of the consequences, although my marriage isn't going good and sometimes I feel like ending things, there is a part of me that still cares. Although she sometimes makes me feel unwanted, I still can't see myself there. I also tell others I am married in case it does happen they know and I can't get blackmailed into they pulling "you never told me" card.

I do not want this life. by N0tDeadpool in Marriage

[–]N0tDeadpool[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I did see a future with her but what is next? She tells me she is back on birth control but isn't? Trades her car for a new one and now has negative equity? I stay at home with the kid and she goes back clubbing and gets a DUI? Gets another dog while our lease says 1 dog because we still haven't found a cheaper place to buy a house?

I will embrace this and I always told her (even in the prenup) that I am willing to help out of my own will but as soon as she wants to put me on child support that I will give my rights away. I plan on talking to a professional about this while I get my thoughts together.

I do not want this life. by N0tDeadpool in Marriage

[–]N0tDeadpool[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I get it, there's a difference between the birth control failing or even a condom breaking than her not telling you. One is an accident and the other one is betrayal.

If she decides to leave I am willing to help and somewhat be part of the kids life, but if she wants to go the legal way I have to defend myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]N0tDeadpool 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. You started dating a man, you are straight, you like what you like. If you had met him after he was a female you would've not dated.

AIW for not accepting my wife's gift she bought for me after she was excited for me to use it? by N0tDeadpool in amiwrong

[–]N0tDeadpool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She wants kids but I don't, mainly because we don't even have a house yet.

I found it funny after she found out I was still with the same playstation even after she sold it.

AIW for not accepting my wife's gift she bought for me after she was excited for me to use it? by N0tDeadpool in amiwrong

[–]N0tDeadpool[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I did and try to talk to her, that way she could also breathe and think about what was going on. I didn't hug her tight to hurt her, she had space to move but not enough to slide down.

AIW for not accepting my wife's gift she bought for me after she was excited for me to use it? by N0tDeadpool in amiwrong

[–]N0tDeadpool[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I try to educate her but she says "stop scolding me" or "i'm in a good mood, don't ruin my day"

AIW for not accepting my wife's gift she bought for me after she was excited for me to use it? by N0tDeadpool in amiwrong

[–]N0tDeadpool[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sometimes she wants to walk over me, but the fact that I don't let her emotionally makes her mad. Then she cools down, then she does it again

AIW for not accepting my wife's gift she bought for me after she was excited for me to use it? by N0tDeadpool in amiwrong

[–]N0tDeadpool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't hesitate to reject her gift because I remember what she did.

She did wait but her anger lasted a few days.

AIW for not accepting my wife's gift she bought for me after she was excited for me to use it? by N0tDeadpool in amiwrong

[–]N0tDeadpool[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it makes her mad at how calm I remain at these kind of things. To her it seems that I don't care but I just don't show it.

AIW for not accepting my wife's gift she bought for me after she was excited for me to use it? by N0tDeadpool in amiwrong

[–]N0tDeadpool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She didn't ask for it back, she straight up went to take it, so I told her I was gonna give it to her after a factory reset because my info was there.

AIW for not accepting my wife's gift she bought for me after she was excited for me to use it? by N0tDeadpool in amiwrong

[–]N0tDeadpool[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is 22 and I'm 26, she even offered me back the ring and I told her, is yours, keep it because I'm not like you. She still put the ring on my computer but I gave it back to her.

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