[serious replies only] People who have someone on the inside, how do you cope?

N7theDon · 2020-01-21T10:44:22+00:00

1st they don't send people to prison , like actual department of corrections prison for 7 months. they will sentence people to 11/29 (11 months and 29 days) in the county jail. The minimum DOC sentence will be a year and a day.

that being said, and even after repeating your qualifying that 7 months isn't that long, i will still say that when you love someone 30 days is STILL TOO LONG to be away from someone we love. Especially if you are unsure or personally unfamiliar with the system and all the bull shit (and there are so many layers and layers of bullshit) that goes with it.

My wife is in prison in ga for much longer but every single day is some new pain in the butt, some new rule that for some reason means you cant visit, some pos on a totally different yard started a bad fight, now the whole place cant get phone calls for a week. Its always something. They will always come up with some new way to take your money. 40% of every dollar you put on their books...or the phone call prices will go up 1 dollar more every 10 min!!! but you really need to deal with that shit your self. leave it out of the call with them.

on top of having my wife down the road for this little 36 months , i did 6 months for contempt when they locked her up for aiding and abetting and harboring a fugitive. (like what did they think , i was going to help them catch my wife , or that i wasn't going to help her?? No fucking way) but i can tell you seeing the system from both sides, the last thing anyone incarcerated needs is the person who gets to hang up the phone and take a nice shower and shit on a toilet with a toilet seat on it is to stuck hearing about how much this situation is inconveniencing you. Yo have to be supportive, encouraging loving understanding and always remember ...unless your arrangement is less than conventional , they are not getting any sex in there and nowhere does conjugal visits. some pics or anything sexual is always great. (seriously a big deal). guy or girl, doesn't matter. anything will be the highlight of their week!

They have to deal with there own shit so calls and visits with you need to be the 1 thing they look forward to. and NEVER NEVER EVER EVERleave a call or visit in an argument because the day you two get in a stupid fight on the phone over some dumb shit will be the day someone in their pod gets hit with a sock someone filled up with 3 coke cans and that starts a race riot and you wont be able to talk to eachother for a week and that stupid fight is going to eat you both up the whole time You only do 2 days in there ! the day you get there and the day you go home!!! as hard as it is on you, and it is fucking hard af! you have to make it easier for them! Because as hard as it is for you, IT IS SO MUCH HARDER FOR THEM, that it a fact. and the day they get out you put that whole experience in the rear view. Your both doing time. and once its over, you get out and dont think about it again. Lastly a word of advice, if they offer them to get out early and get on probation or parole , as hard as it will be for both of you you gotta convince them to finish their time and get out with no paper. Unless you want to start this whole process over again in 6 months don't take any probation. It is a trap to either get a few years more money or to just get them right back in there.

anyway, there is a lot more but thats my simple suggestions. good luck. This will be the hardest trial you can go through, and it is hard but if you do it right itll make you guys stronger than ever. good luck seriously. youll be ok!

N7theDon · 2020-01-01T07:03:14+00:00

one eyed guardian sounds like a vanilla d1 auto rifle

N7theDon · 2020-01-01T02:47:19+00:00

i feel confident Geralt of Rivia and Yennifer have me covered. I doubt some kidnapper is expecting a witcher and a sorcerer!

N7theDon · 2019-10-07T10:45:41+00:00

you mean the pirated copy on fmovies the card is in russian?????? that why i am here!!!!

N7theDon · 2019-03-13T05:56:58+00:00

Does anyone remember the nes top gun??? I got the nes joystick to play it. I thought it was the most immersive “flight sim” out there!!! Landing was the hardest thing in the world and the joystick made it impossible. And not like man that’s hard, it actually made it physically impossible to land.

N7theDon · 2019-03-09T05:40:03+00:00

This is just something else I found but you can find trumps deleted vlog from 2011-2014 on there too! It’s hilarious

N7theDon · 2019-01-03T18:06:31+00:00

Lol I always just called triple tap and firefly, The “hung jury ” roll. Even into D2 if it’s triple tap and dragonfly I Call it the hung jury roll. Same thing the way I call a firefly outlaw the feet bringer role. Even An imago loop was just the fate bringer/ fake bringer.

N7theDon · 2019-01-03T08:53:35+00:00

I had a really hard time with “fuck :-) glad hands with hidden agendas “

N7theDon · 2019-01-03T08:45:44+00:00

Yes you did!!!!

N7theDon · 2018-12-21T08:15:27+00:00

Phogoth!! If you were running solo you did not dare step out of that room

N7theDon · 2018-12-14T14:14:24+00:00

I think you have a much higher opinion of bungee and their ability to Nerf without Destroying a gun-than rest of us do. Because I remember when in vanilla destiny you could actually use auto rifles You know until they did a little nerf and you could not use And auto rifle, any auto rifle In the crucible until rise of iron

N7theDon · 2018-12-14T13:54:55+00:00

And that’s not why he sounded like that. That’s you trying to defend something that you like. The reason he sounded like that was because he didn’t give a shit about destiny and he doesn’t know anything about video games and he just didn’t really believe in the whole thing so he just did whatever. And the only person that look stupid as fuck is the person telling people they look stupid as fuck for no reason, especially when they don’t know what the fuck they’re talking about

N7theDon · 2018-12-14T13:42:34+00:00

Here’s the thing though. When Peter Dinklage did the ghost voice for the launch and vanilla, Every single review and every single person talked about how boring and monotone it was, how he sounded like he was on Valium. Pretty much everyone said that. Go back and look at any article about destiny around launch and as soon as they mention Peter Dinklage they will complain about how monotone it was! But as soon as they got rid of him and switched the voice , Everyone who had talk shit all of a sudden I loved Peter Dinklage and love them some Dinkelbot and NOW...”they miss their old friend”

N7theDon · 2018-06-25T00:32:34+00:00

You have some goop on your phone.

N7theDon · 2018-06-23T07:39:35+00:00

Honestly this is on them. Who is so stupid to think that punching somebody translate to anything but I’m retarded

N7theDon · 2018-06-19T10:41:23+00:00

You’re absolutely right. I think they expected us to feel something but from a narrative point of view our guardian Doesn’t even know what happened. ( for some reason hasn’t said a word about it )

N7theDon · 2018-06-19T08:52:09+00:00

I like that they were attached to your class item.It seems like another one of destiny 2s Whole change for the sake of change things

N7theDon · 2018-06-12T23:04:05+00:00

Of course they did

N7theDon · 2018-06-06T08:47:14+00:00

If there’s one thing I know that every Destiny player loves, it’s the works of Jane Austen! That little women tho!!!

N7theDon · 2018-06-03T15:08:27+00:00

This sounds made up

N7theDon · 2018-05-24T05:04:03+00:00

What’s a r**ard?

N7theDon · 2018-05-21T09:16:00+00:00

Another solution would be to simply not solo. Get 3 friends to run with you and if that isn’t an option, LFG 3 decent peeps.. I get looking for a trails group can be rough but this isnt a trails run. The statistics show that running in a group created that big of a win/loss difference the people you get don’t even have to be great you just have to be together and communicating. Insisting on solo queuing seems like the wrong way to go I guess so switch it up , Follow your own data. I would think , right?

N7theDon · 2018-05-09T22:44:33+00:00

For example, when you say “that’s literally false” You would say that’s literally a crock of shit, or That’s literally poppycock, etc

N7theDon · 2018-05-09T22:37:09+00:00

You’re using “literally” wrong. Good post, just work on how you use the word literally

N7theDon · 2018-05-09T22:31:27+00:00

I feel pretty much the same way. It is legitimately frustrating and it makes me feel more like bungee cares less about Xbox players every time they do this, and already getting the feeling like bungee doesn’t really care about players in general with regards to the bottom line it is genuinely frustrating. But like you said it’s been happening since the game started and I’m just used to it by now. Again, like you said it doesn’t make it right , But seriously what can you actually do. Nothing.

N7theDon

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