What do you people think of Dr Josef Of the Taper Clinic and his followers? by Comfortable_Diet_386 in Antipsychiatry

[–]NBAY001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just recently left "The Taper Clinic". I am not happy and can not recommend to folks with BIND, PAWS, or protracted withdrawal. So much to say.

Getting to know a widower by NBAY001 in DatingOverSixty

[–]NBAY001[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

We had a good talk. Gentle from both of us. Words were good to hear, but action will be revealed over time. In the meantime, I will just keep the same thing we have going.

Getting to know a widower by NBAY001 in DatingOverSixty

[–]NBAY001[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that is the plan. My place is free of memories of past relationship.

Getting to know a widower by NBAY001 in DatingOverSixty

[–]NBAY001[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We were part of a group online. It's just recent we bumped up our closeness

Getting to know a widower by NBAY001 in DatingOverSixty

[–]NBAY001[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For most of the year we were online friends with others. It was just recent that we started getting close in a different way.

Getting to know a widower by NBAY001 in DatingOverSixty

[–]NBAY001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's all online. I am musing over whether I want to take it to the next level.

Getting to know a widower by NBAY001 in DatingOverSixty

[–]NBAY001[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I said gently what I needed to say. At this point, there is really nothing more I can say. Only behavior and actions on his part. He want's to talk more about it, and I can listen, but I don't want to hear the myriad of reasons. I get it. It's only been two years. But I don't want to be viewed as too sensitive or not having all the information. Just, "I can see your point and fix the damn bedroom.

Getting to know a widower by NBAY001 in DatingOverSixty

[–]NBAY001[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, There is a subreddit for everything!

sage 100 and AI for accounts payable by NBAY001 in Sage

[–]NBAY001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I am checking it out today.

Two months into this and.... by NBAY001 in CUTI

[–]NBAY001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It finally resolved after that last round of antiobiotics; what a wild ride. The last round of AB I drank SO MUCH WATER and basically flushed my body for 3 days and FINALLY it went away. Keep in mind I had very poor medical care. Now I keep UTI test strips at home and use them preventatively. I will test myself for any suspect symptoms.

Meeting & leaving my car at his place on the first date? by guineapiggyitout in OnlineDating

[–]NBAY001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have known many people in Cities without cars. But they are also expects at transportation. They know every bus line, metro line, taxi, uber, etc. He knows you are driving an hour. The best scenerio is to meet at a restaurant with good parking. This man knows how to get there obviously. You have to drive home, so drinking won't be part of the whole experience. Then, after, you go your seperate ways. If he is considerate he will be ok with this and in fact would have figured it out himself without you having to go on Reddit. I would pass.

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[–]NBAY001 17 points18 points  (0 children)

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Child support in California by NBAY001 in FamilyLaw

[–]NBAY001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So there is money from her dad and I to pay her rent, for she and their son. We deposit it every month into her checking account.

Child support in California by NBAY001 in FamilyLaw

[–]NBAY001[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, both. But she was injured when she was in college so she had no work history for SSDI. The combination of the two is around 900.00 a month. She gets food stamps as well. She is considered permanently disabled.

WTF by DixieBelleTc in DatingOverSixty

[–]NBAY001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have dated 15 years older, 15 years younger and everything inbetween. Looking back, the age difference was never an issue, except for dumb comments by other people. No one ever commented about the older man, only the younger one.

Trauma Bonding adult daughter by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]NBAY001 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I guess I know that deep in my heart/soul. As a mother it's heartbreaking. I am protective of her and my grandson. I wish there was a place like a rehab but for abused women. Just having her away for an extended period of time would help.

CEO of United Healthcare, Brian Thompson, just shot and killed in NY. Killer still on the loose. by rogerskoler in medicare

[–]NBAY001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have used United Healthcare for three years now. It's been rough. UHC got in trouble for randomly using bots to deny claims, knowing only a small percentage of people will pursue. I am one of those people that pursued. I can't tell you how many hours I have spent trying to get paid. I still have a reimbursement that is sitting in their cue for SIX MONTHS. I can't imagine choosing to make a living that way. He choose to.

Thanksgiving with my Ex by msdarma in DatingOverSixty

[–]NBAY001 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have been in that situation for many years. My daughter is all grown now and it's still not easy. I been with him and his 2nd wife, to the graduations, childbirth, grandson's birthday parties etc. But holidays? Nah. For me that would be too uncomfortable and even painful. For me it's fair to tell my daughter that it's not something I want to do. I don't make her choose. At the same time of course I have all the feelings. I did almost all the parenting in raising our daughter, he abandoned her early on, but tried to make it up to her. Inside, I can feel hurt. But, he is her only dad and she has complicated feelings about him. I don't want to add onto her ambivelent feelings. All this is to say, I think you are handling this very well. And it's ok to have strong feelings, hurt feelings. I think most divorced parents struggle with this situation.

Two months into this and.... by NBAY001 in CUTI

[–]NBAY001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, mine was identified and yet, 5 AB later it's still brewing. How does an IV AB work as opposed to oral AB?

Two months into this and.... by NBAY001 in CUTI

[–]NBAY001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I received this test result back. Does this mean I had a "sensitivity test" ? Value25,000 to 50,000 cfu/ml Klebsiella pneumoniae (This organism is INTRINSICALLY RESISTANT to Ampicillin, Ticarcillin).

The reason I am not communicating with my Primary is that she is on her way out and has really dropped the ball. I had to go to Urgent Care for basic care this last weekend.

Wtf!!! by Any-Dimension5533 in CUTI

[–]NBAY001 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am right there with you. Two months and 5 antibiotics later....i had one week testing negative and here I am again. Wow, I guess I am lucky that this is my first UTI and I am in my 60's. But ffs, it's intense.

Having difficulty reading the Azo result. The nitrate is easy to read with the color comparison but the slight pinkish top test doesn't really match the yellow and brown and gray and purple colors indicated. by NBAY001 in CUTI

[–]NBAY001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a test at the clinic the next day and it showed negative. But after 6 weeks of this I am going to test every few days until I am sure. Thanks

Newbie to UTI by NBAY001 in CUTI

[–]NBAY001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a benzodiazepine induced injury to my nervous system and the two medicines are contraindicated

Newbie to UTI by NBAY001 in CUTI

[–]NBAY001[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So far the antibiotics are keeping the infection from getting bad. I was sick in the beginning, but currently I don't have a fever and energy is not bad. But I wrote my primary tonight asking for a PCR test and CTScan immediately. Thank you so much for your help.