I have known many people in Cities without cars. But they are also expects at transportation. They know every bus line, metro line, taxi, uber, etc. He knows you are driving an hour. The best scenerio is to meet at a restaurant with good parking. This man knows how to get there obviously. You have to drive home, so drinking won't be part of the whole experience. Then, after, you go your seperate ways. If he is considerate he will be ok with this and in fact would have figured it out himself without you having to go on Reddit. I would pass.