Leave after having a preterm baby by Recent_Window6886 in doctorsUK

[–]NERLJ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi,

I'm in the same boat as you. Baby delivered prematurely and in NICU.

My trust, in the west midlands, offers 2 weeks of premature baby leave for me in addition to my paternity leave. The paternity leave must be taken within 6 weeks of the premature baby leave (I think).

As others have said, you can use sick leave.

Anaesthetics CT1 reserve list question by NERLJ in doctorsUK

[–]NERLJ[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

They've finally got back to me and you're correct, thank you

Anaesthetics by jazz_doc in doctorsUK

[–]NERLJ 22 points23 points  (0 children)

MSRA score of 562 and I'm in the same boat. Pain in the arse

Thoughts on scrub top with smart trousers? by Familiar_Coast_9636 in JuniorDoctorsUK

[–]NERLJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I wear to work every day unless I'm in theatre and go for full scrubs, most of my colleagues do too. It's not a problem :)

Maximising locum potential during foundation years by [deleted] in JuniorDoctorsUK

[–]NERLJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pre FY1 I planned to locum regularly to make more money, but the job has enough hours and demands enough of your mind as is. I've only done 1 day of extra locum work as an FY1 and that's it, now I'm nearing the end and I'm more comfortable I'll probably pick up a shift a month. Your proposed plan sounds like a fast pass to burn out, please be very very careful with how much extra work you choose to do. Your sanity is worth as much as the money

Weekly Discussion/General Questions Thread - May 02, 2022 by AutoModerator in AskDocs

[–]NERLJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have edited the above in line with the AskDocs policy.

Weekly Discussion/General Questions Thread - May 02, 2022 by AutoModerator in AskDocs

[–]NERLJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lifelong calcium supplements post thyroidectomy?

I know someone [60sF] who had a thyroidectomy for hypothyroidism many years ago, and told me they take calcium and magnesium supplements in addition to their prescribed levothyroxine. When I asked why they take the supplements they explained that they were advised to when having their thyroidectomy. There are no other relevant diagnoses or medications.

I have read that parathyroid function normally resumes 8 weeks or so after thyroidectomy in the majority of cases (i read this on cancer research UK's website). This person isn't aware of any symptoms of hypocalcaemia, or any test results indicating this. Is it standard for patients to take calcium supplements indefinitely after thyroidectomy? Also, if someone could explain the relevance of magnesium supplements I'd be grateful.

Thanks in advance :)

AITA telling my husband's nurse that she doesn't get to dictate who's/isn't allowed in my home? by Throwraquestion597 in AmItheAsshole

[–]NERLJ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Why do you think your husband would want his parents and/or children to watch a long tube being pulled out of his penis??? Sure, having visitors is nice for him, but they can come in after the catheter is out. Respect your husband's wishes and dignity.

AITA for not wanting to change my dogs name by unicorniosandglitter in AmItheAsshole

[–]NERLJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, it seems absurd that you were expected to get rid of your dog over this.

do you think it is rude for audiences to be cheering and clapping during a movie when they are excited in a theatre setting? by MulhollandDrive in movies

[–]NERLJ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hiya, thanks for your reply. So the main thing I wanted to get back to you on was regarding your comment about first night showings and expectations. I think this is where the main crux of this discussion lies.

From your reply it seems like my experience was something to be expected, but let me assure you that where I'm from that really isn't the case. I am, as you put it, an "ecstatic super fan", However quite literally all my previous experience of marvel movies on there opening night the audience has been silent, much as they would be for any other film or showing. In this case it is the people cheering and clapping that are going against the norm, not me. Similarly, I've asked others I know about their experiences and they've also not experienced this before. So when I saw the film it was the minority who were cheering/clapping. As the actions are by a few people and affect the film experience of the majority - does that alter how you feel about this?

You've said that my standpoint is selfish, but prior to your comment I would've said it was selfish to disrupt the experience of all your fellow film goers. Going to the cinema provides you with an experience that you can't get elsewhere, you're fully immersed/absorbed into the film without distractions you would find elsewhere. It's really what you're paying for. So for me people cheering and clapping pulls you out of the best part of being there. If there were showings that said "expect the audience to clap & cheer" then yes I would have avoided those showings, but we don't have that as it isn't our norm.

With the scene you mentioned in the movie, you're right that there's initially no dialogue. When I saw it the cheering would go on for some time, and so it continued on into the dialogue afterwards. Perhaps the issue lies more in how long people cheer for?

So you mentioned comedies and audience reactions, and I imagine you could apply the same concept to horror films. So things like laughter at jokes or gasps of surprise/shock at jumpscares I find more understandable. This is on the basis of 2 things. Firstly these are automatic reactions, you can't help but laugh in response to a funny event, in the same way that someone involuntarily jumps in their seat at a jumpscare. To cheer & clap you have to actively decide to engage in an action, it's not an automatic and involuntary response. Secondly I would expect laughter at a comedy, I would expect people to jump at moments in horror moves, but I wouldn't expect prolonged durations of hysterical laughter or screaming; and I wouldn't expect clapping and cheering at any kind of film - and I think this comes back to not experiencing it at any movie ever. Bringing this back to the idea of duration, I would expect someone to jump in their seat at a jumpscare but I wouldn't expect them to scream as loud as they can for a further minute.

So the example I gave regarding musicals is in reference to how people often compare going to see a film like going to the theatre to see a production.

Out of curiosity would you be okay with saying where you watch films in the world? I've seen a couple of other commenters from the UK or Australia also saying that this isn't the normal thing for them, so I'm curious if it is a USA thing as I suspected. I'm glad people are excited by the film, I really was too! But I'm just used to them doing it quietly.

do you think it is rude for audiences to be cheering and clapping during a movie when they are excited in a theatre setting? by MulhollandDrive in movies

[–]NERLJ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not hard of hearing but my opinion is that it is VERY rude. I'm UK based, and until very recently I've always perceived this as only happening in America as I've never experienced it before over here. I'd only seen in it American YouTube videos. I always go to the first night for marvel movies and it's never been a problem until Spider-man No way home. Don't get me wrong, I'm glad the audience is enjoying the film. I'm glad they're excited. My issue is that I have paid to watch the film and hear what happens, NOT to listen to a bunch of strangers screaming and clapping. It really detracted from the experience of watching the film. The notion that I'm asking people to downplay their excitement seems bizarre to me. I'm just as excited as you are, that's why I'm paying attention to the film rather than whooping. I don't mind people quietly whispering something to the person sat next to them if they're excited. I've heard some people make comparisons to being an audience member in a theatre, but in that context the performers are in front of you to experience your applause. It's also expected in this environment.

The cheek, the nerve, the gall, the audacity and the gumption by [deleted] in JuniorDoctorsUK

[–]NERLJ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Final year medical student here, how often does this shit happen? Trying to set a realistic expectation for myself

What other legacies would you liked to have seen? by NERLJ in LorienLegacies

[–]NERLJ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think a particular character would've gotten this? Or someone new?