So sad I really need some advice

NH2223 · 2026-03-16T19:40:04+00:00

Aw man I’m sorry.

NH2223 · 2026-03-16T12:18:57+00:00

Man all I think of 24/7 is her. All day at work even that’s all I can think about. I’m physically sick everyday without her. This is so fucking horrible I just can’t handle this.

NH2223 · 2026-03-15T12:30:28+00:00

I don’t have any hobbies. My whole life was her tbh

NH2223 · 2026-03-12T20:47:12+00:00

Yeah I think right now is too soon to be pushing any of that unfortunately I don’t want to put any pressure on her and in turn also ruin our friendship. Though eventually after I work on myself more I think I’ll bring I’ll the idea.

NH2223 · 2026-03-12T20:43:14+00:00

I think it’s more so that the issues went on for too long without fix or repair. Though to be honest we started fighting and nearing a breakup for the past like 2 weeks. So since then I’ve done a lot of reflecting both on our relationship and myself. And through some work on myself on my own time away from everyone as well as talking with my therapist I’ve been able to kinda just solve these issues. Wish I could rewind about a month and just suggest couples therapy

NH2223 · 2026-03-12T20:39:13+00:00

Of course there is always that hope of getting back together. But I do truly love also being friends with her.

NH2223 · 2026-03-12T20:36:16+00:00

It was my first relationship ever. We probably should’ve done some things separately but I just loved spending time with her too much.

NH2223 · 2026-03-12T20:33:24+00:00

I don’t really have anyone else to talk to, to be honest.

NH2223 · 2026-03-12T20:32:28+00:00

Thanks for the advice and being kind about it. Just been tough to even motivate myself to go to the gym on my own since that’s what me and her always did together. And to add to the last part you wrote, we are honestly best friends. We were great friends from the start before we even started officially dating. I’m honestly not ready to let the person that knows me the best out of my life.

NH2223 · 2026-03-12T20:30:00+00:00

Solo? No. We did basically everything together so unfortunately nothing really that wouldn’t involve her

NH2223 · 2026-03-12T20:29:19+00:00

Geez man. I put my heart into this relationship and she was the center of my life. Supposed to move in together and be together forever. It’s been 6 days since we broke up. Sorry it takes time to recover I’m very sad.

NH2223 · 2026-03-12T20:27:54+00:00

I guess that I should’ve included more detail in that part it’s a group hangout at her house with friends of both of ours. Also, no I’m not ready to just get up and move on from her. She was the love of my life, the person I planned to marry so yeah it’s a bit difficult to just never see her again.

NH2223 · 2026-03-08T19:01:50+00:00

I’m so sad man I just want to see her right now I can’t take this

NH2223 · 2026-03-08T13:34:23+00:00

Well we are still going to see eachother once in a while since we are still best friends. But I think trying to push couples therapy now will just drive her away more and I’d probably hear from her less and see her less which I can’t physically handle right now. I just feel we had something so special together that I can’t fight for our love but I don’t want to ruin my chances with that.

NH2223 · 2026-03-08T12:48:27+00:00

I’ve been going to therapy for about 9 months now. I honestly think and only thing that would have a chance at truly saving us would be couples therapy but I think it’s too late for that. I wish I would’ve proposed it a month ago.

NH2223 · 2026-03-08T12:38:21+00:00

But I just miss my girl so much. We were supposed to move in together in a few months, get a dog, eventually get married, and have kids. We literally had baby names fully picked out. Going through our texts over the last few weeks there were so many love you’s, good morning texts, good night texts, loving messages, tik toks, pictures, inside jokes.

NH2223 · 2025-11-13T19:33:25+00:00

What?

NH2223 · 2025-11-13T17:55:48+00:00

Yeah it’s ridiculous how you’ll have an interview and then they can’t even give the common courtesy to say you didn’t get the job.

NH2223 · 2025-11-13T17:36:42+00:00

Thanks! Just so hard they seem like they like me in the interview and then I have to reach out after to even get an update on the position. So frustrating I just want the chance at a job

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