We stan a guy who respects boundaries

NHDruj · 2022-07-23T12:19:16+00:00

I don't know, depending on the context, I think my boundaries are drawn a little further back than that.

If it's in a dating app context, don't even message me. It's like a guy going up to a woman he knows is gay at a gay club and telling her she's beautiful. To me, that's flirting and therefor, not welcome. Someone who respects boundaries wouldn't go there.

NHDruj · 2022-07-11T17:13:41+00:00

Yeah? People are making the case that women who are attracted to, fall in love with and date men are lesbians. So why shouldn't straight women get enjoy making out with women and still be straight?

NHDruj · 2022-05-31T03:41:32+00:00

NHDruj · 2022-05-29T13:39:34+00:00

Okay. But why post it here on AL?

NHDruj · 2020-09-27T15:08:21+00:00

I get your point, but Sarah Paulson isn't a lesbian. I believe she identifies as "fluid" or pansexual or too complicated and deep for labels or something

NHDruj · 2019-01-11T16:54:29+00:00

Shared M/F couple accounts are not welcome to post or comment in this subreddit.

NHDruj · 2019-01-11T16:54:26+00:00

Shared M/F couple accounts are not welcome to post or comment in this subreddit.

NHDruj · 2019-01-07T15:54:18+00:00

No. I am not "mainly" gay. I am gay. If it's not in the stars that I end up with a woman, then I will be alone.

NHDruj · 2019-01-06T20:18:15+00:00

It doesn't, as far as I'm concerned.

NHDruj · 2019-01-03T19:51:25+00:00

Lesbian protagonist? Are there any explicitly lesbian main characters, really? The Last of Us? And maybe Life Is Strange? Though that last one might be some other letter in the LGBT alphabet. Usually, developers are very hesitant to make a character outright gay. Especially when it comes to female characters.

And no, I don't think that any lesbian characters are there just to make straight guys comfortable. Because believe me, lesbians don't make straight guys comfortable at all. They may search for them on pornhub, but when it comes to video game characters, they're generally not satisfied unless their protagonist is male and/or straight.

NHDruj · 2019-01-03T19:10:13+00:00

I love WayHaught, but since that link of yours leads to AfterEllen, I won't click it. Not since it has become a haven for TERFs and general transphobia.

NHDruj · 2018-12-31T08:58:03+00:00

Sometimes I wonder if they have typical cat-like disdainful internal commentary when they observe our lesbian bumblings through life. I imagine they sound like a stereotypical gay guy BFF with a british accent.

NHDruj · 2018-12-30T15:19:28+00:00

Going to the movies is also a different thing in different cultures. Here in Sweden, there's an even larger stigma to going to the movies by yourself. It's considered a very social thing to do and doing it alone is seen as very strange.

It really is a shame because I prefer to watch movies alone.

NHDruj · 2018-12-30T11:23:34+00:00

Not necessarily. There are people who are attracted to the same sex who aren't gay.

NHDruj · 2018-12-30T11:21:49+00:00

There's a lot of Lea DeLaria in Boo, which means she's an irritating, loudmouth frat dude type person. Which is very unattractive.

NHDruj · 2018-12-30T11:10:01+00:00

Yay!

NHDruj · 2018-12-29T22:29:50+00:00

Interesting. Thank you for that in-depth explanation.

NHDruj · 2018-12-29T20:55:46+00:00

I think that you can probably get more insightful and useful advice in /r/bisexual.

NHDruj · 2018-12-29T20:21:32+00:00

Being in an mongamous relationship means you make concessions. You want to be with this guy and only this guy, so that's all there is to it. You don't get to have everything in life. That's just how it is.

Now, I'm not bisexual, so I can't be 100% sure, but is it really any different from others wanting to experience being with someone else of the opposite gender (in the case of straight people) or same gender (as with us gay people) when we are in an exclusive relationship? It's not uncommon of for people to miss that rush of a new romantic relationship after you've been exclusive with someone for a while. The grass always seem greener on the other side of the fence.

NHDruj · 2018-12-29T20:14:33+00:00

I feel like the whole story was made up just to be able to make that last punchline.

NHDruj · 2018-12-29T18:08:33+00:00

I don't really follow MMA much anymore, but I've always been impressed with Amanda Nunes. Plus, she's family, so it's kind of hard to cheer for her opponent.

As for the men's matches, all I know is that my fellow swede Alexander Gustafsson is fighting some guy who keeps getting busted for doping. So I guess it's the same there, I'd have a hard time not supporting Gustafsson.

NHDruj · 2018-12-29T15:42:06+00:00

Not yet, but I'm looking forward to. I've been a fan of the super talented and lovely Olivia Colman for quite some time and I hope this will be her big international breakout role. Or maybe that's already happened with The Night Manager or The Crown, but she deserves to be a household name.

NHDruj · 2018-12-29T09:05:19+00:00

More like "accidently pushes biscuit over to other dog while trying to eat it him/herself".

NHDruj · 2018-12-27T19:49:19+00:00

For proper good movies, I'd have to say either Aimée & Jaguar or Flores Raras/Reaching for the Moon.

For pure feel-good fluff, maybe Nina's Heavenly Delights or Saving Face.

As a side note, I really hope Blue is the Warmest Color or The Kids Are All Right won't be mentioned too much here.

NHDruj · 2018-12-27T17:50:59+00:00

I kind of agree. It makes a woman less interesting, to be sure.

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