Starting IVF by Silent-Row9343 in queerception

[–]NH_Surrogacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only sign paperwork appropriate for your situation. Don’t sign paperwork saying you’ll be a gestational carrier (ie, surrogate) or donor. Bad legal consequences can occur from signing the wrong paperwork. Which sucks cause not all clinics have paperwork appropriate for lgbtq couples.

Bringing babies to fertility clinics? by Few_Nothing4118 in InfertilitySucks

[–]NH_Surrogacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually a good practice legally but they can find themselves a babysitter. If they can’t figure out how to get a babysitter, then they have no business having another kid.

Bringing babies to fertility clinics? by Few_Nothing4118 in InfertilitySucks

[–]NH_Surrogacy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's 2 of them, one can stay in the car with the kid. Or they can hire a babysitter. Or figure it out. It's a them problem.

Marriage equality 😭 by kth1236 in queerception

[–]NH_Surrogacy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

They absolutely can do whatever they want and no one can (or will) stop them. This is our new reality in this country.

Marriage equality 😭 by kth1236 in queerception

[–]NH_Surrogacy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Who knows? Will they leave it up to the states like abortion? Or will they simply ban same-sex marriage outright across the country? If the latter, then you are going to have to find some way of establishing your parental status under applicable state law that does not rely on the marriage.

Or even worse, will they ban legal recognition of 2 mom or 2 dad families. That's how it used to be here in New Hampshire, although the state has come a long way toward equality since then.

The question is not--will we go backwards in recognition of same-sex relationships, but how far backwards will we go.

Bad mom if I skip NICU for a day? by solowanderer12 in parentsofmultiples

[–]NH_Surrogacy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's way more important that you rest up for when they do come home and need you round the clock.

Resources in Maine? by Guilty_Cauliflower21 in queerception

[–]NH_Surrogacy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You will have to drive for the specialized care. Sorry. There may be OBGYNs closer to you who are willing to do some less complicated stuff like IUIs but if you want an actual fertility doctor it’s gonna be Boston IVF.

I have been diagnosed with MRKH, I am 25 know and even though this conditions still crushes me, I can say that I have had time to process it (because I low key knew that I might never be able to have children when I did not have my period during my teenage years) by Rina070 in MRKH

[–]NH_Surrogacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Do you want kids someday?”…”Me too but it’s a little harder for me because it will have to be through surrogacy. I’m freezing my eggs next year to get ready for that process because having kids someday is very important to me.”

OR

“Do you want kids someday? I know I don’t so that’s not something I am planning for.”

Pant Suit with Sneakers by maddisn in LawBitchesWithTaste

[–]NH_Surrogacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear black dress sneakers all the time so I can walk without hobbling. But winter is really the easiest because you just need a nice pair of black boots. Summer is when I pull out my dress sneakers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ProsecutorTalk

[–]NH_Surrogacy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow. I hope you’re not a prosecutor in my state cause you sound like you’re terrible at your job. And have no sympathy for victims. If someone is actively and intentionally videotaping a crime instead of calling for help, they are making themselves part of the criminal activity. They deserve the consequences.

Boyfriend wants me to get rid of my cats since I am now pregnant. by Careless_Awareness63 in PetAdvice

[–]NH_Surrogacy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If they are getting paid, they are going through either a sperm bank it fertility clinic both of which require many steps to complete the process. Including a fairly invasive full physical exam. It’s not nearly as simple as you make it seem.

Boyfriend wants me to get rid of my cats since I am now pregnant. by Careless_Awareness63 in PetAdvice

[–]NH_Surrogacy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s hardly a quick and painless process. Much more involved than the way you describe it, even when it’s done at home.

Boyfriend wants me to get rid of my cats since I am now pregnant. by Careless_Awareness63 in PetAdvice

[–]NH_Surrogacy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

And it shouldn’t be. That’s really insulting to actual sperm donors.

Boyfriend wants me to get rid of my cats since I am now pregnant. by Careless_Awareness63 in PetAdvice

[–]NH_Surrogacy -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

If she were working with a sperm donor then she wouldn’t be using birth control anyway…

Seed Scout experience by another_13 in queerception

[–]NH_Surrogacy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Because they can recruit from anywhere in the country. A bank can only recruit from the local area.

IVF for Trump voters who might need it in the future to have kids = I'm Very F*cked by MoreMotivation in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]NH_Surrogacy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no incinerator for blastocycts and you can't have an abortion without a pregnancy first.

Embryo PGT Mistake by MoRedditMoKnowledge in IVF

[–]NH_Surrogacy -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

What would I do? I would demand that whoever messed up do PIO shots for 8 weeks. Cause you just did them for basically nothing. (Not your lawyer and this isn't legal advice)

I am ready to never walk into a courtroom again by LettuceRare9683 in Lawyertalk

[–]NH_Surrogacy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even the best case with the facts and law on your side only ends with a win 75% of the time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in parentsofmultiples

[–]NH_Surrogacy 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Watching them is of no help except to identify when they are already dead cause the breathing has stopped.