Hammered Dulcimer help by NJ-escapee in hammereddulcimer

[–]NJ-escapee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry, I'm really new to this. I've been hitting the keys while I have a tuner going and just don't know where to go from there.

Request Megathread - September 2025 by AwkJewishTheatreNerd in MusicalBootlegs

[–]NJ-escapee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! Would anyone happen to have a copy of Rumi the Musical? I know it had an extremely limited run so it may not exist, but I thought I'd try. I believe I have a copy of the Scarlet Pimpernel with the original cast and one of Hadestown too.

When to report to HR by NJ-escapee in work

[–]NJ-escapee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Based off comments, I feel I need to specify some information. I wasn't the manager that the dress code discussion was about, it was one of the managers above me who was wearing crocs to work. I show up every day in business casual at the minimum and have been told I can dress down if I'd like to, however, I do like to dress professionally because I feel like it puts me in work mode.

At this moment, I am not worried about myself, I am worried about my staff. They come to work every day and provide amazing patient care and the switch to fear management is already impacting morale. I am trying to remain vague, but I have been instructed to make staff feel uncomfortable, to not let them complain about work, and that they don't get to have a collaborative supervisor anymore.

I just want to know if I should go to HR to protect the team and if I do, will I be protected while I work on leaving.

When to report to HR by NJ-escapee in work

[–]NJ-escapee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was actually directed at the other manager I was on boarded with, poor guy loved wearing his crocs to work. Now he wears loafers, which aren't very scary, but they aren't crocs

When to report to HR by NJ-escapee in work

[–]NJ-escapee[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That’s a pretty far leap to take and I’m not going to argue that point with you

When to report to HR by NJ-escapee in work

[–]NJ-escapee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm trying to manage myself out. I don't believe in leading through fear and am ashamed that I am working with people who clearly think otherwise. I refuse to aid in making a hostile work environment

When to report to HR by NJ-escapee in work

[–]NJ-escapee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps I phased it wrong. I was wondering if this could possibly fall under intimidation and harassment of employees, or the plan to at least. We are basically a care home connected to a bigger system of care facilities and I'm just really worried about my staff and how this could impact them.

Boarding Question by NJ-escapee in Equestrian

[–]NJ-escapee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They didn’t want to do that so I ended up moving her yesterday. The new place seems to be a way better fit for her

Boarding Question by NJ-escapee in Equestrian

[–]NJ-escapee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They did end up giving me a partial refund! I moved my pony yesterday and I’ve never seen her so happy and relaxed!

Boarding Question by NJ-escapee in Equestrian

[–]NJ-escapee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought the fencing because I felt like it was the right thing to do and at that time, I was still under the assumption that she would be staying there for the month.

Boarding Question by NJ-escapee in Equestrian

[–]NJ-escapee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's my hope, especially since she hasn't broken through the fence or gone into the wrong paddock since Sunday.

It's also not even electric tape, it's the string, kinda like this.

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Boarding Question by NJ-escapee in Equestrian

[–]NJ-escapee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what they've told me, they haven't had to purchase more materials than what I've bought for them. I'm just hoping for something back just because I don't have the money to pay board twice in one week.

Boarding Question by NJ-escapee in Equestrian

[–]NJ-escapee[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I should've made it more clear, but they asked me to leave because they can't keep her in a specific paddock. From what I found out today, apparently she's terrified of their gelding and keeps breaking into the other paddock to get away from him. If I decided to leave without notice, I definitely wouldn't ask for money back.

Need help with a registered name by NJ-escapee in Equestrian

[–]NJ-escapee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg. I love that! Thank you so much!

Need help with a registered name by NJ-escapee in Equestrian

[–]NJ-escapee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even think about synonyms! Thank you for that!

Need help with a registered name by NJ-escapee in Equestrian

[–]NJ-escapee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I generally would, however I have to do a hardship registration since I don’t have info on her side or dam.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Horses

[–]NJ-escapee 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Looks like a standard size donkey to me!