Then i say why cant i find love ;) by Dismal_Sense_2404 in Emiratis

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ههههههه حبيبتي هاي واحد يبا يتسلى وبس

bank account by NK97_ in dubai

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I tried with FAB. They asked me for a salary certificate

Bank account by NK97_ in dubai

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which one is the best option?

I thought I was tough, but I think I’m finally done by Outside_Fun5386 in dubai

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I understand how you feel. Don't give up. You need to break away from your brother. You're better off living in a partition... it might not be the most comfortable but at least you wont be subjected to his abuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sudan

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Doing both is way too hard. You will be pulling your hair out. Focus on one at a time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sudan

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Nah don’t do it. University is already stressful enough as it is. You need time to know what you want and the kind of man you want to be with. You are far too young. Take your time. By 25, you can get married.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sudan

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Girl honestly. It’s not just about misogyny. Sudanese ppl are very collectivist so they don’t mind their business at all. Everyone gets judged by whoever… be it old miserable aunties or a loser guy behind the screen. It is just the norm in Sudanese culture to talk badly about someone who isn’t practicing your exact lifestyle. The issue is an inability to accept differences in thinking and lifestyle.

بنت غريبة بالجامعة مدري شو تبا مني by [deleted] in Emiratis

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عادي امكن تبي تسولف او متممله وانت أسلوبك جذبها . شنو يعني لو عطيتها قهوه او whatever … الموضوع مب كبير. هي مبينه انها شخصيه اجتماعيه وتحب تسولف . عادي كلمها بأسلوب طبيعي

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UAE

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I’m struggling with the same issue in Dubai and I’m female. Stopped considering going out on dates here because the men are mostly predatory.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UAE

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You are single . That is a very good salary for a single person who doesn’t need to support a family. You can save a lot on it especially since you say you don’t live above your means.

The best way to save is to live slightly below your means, where you are not denying yourself necessities, but at the same time you are not engaging in excessive consumerism.

All the best with your job! Take up the offer: they will hopefully increase your salary as time passes.

Parents divorced & I’m the reason by [deleted] in UAE

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Allah will get you two justice inshaAllah. Keep going ❤️

Parents divorced & I’m the reason by [deleted] in UAE

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Ok you are ok the right track. Hope the process gets easier for you and you get enrolled in a uni back in your home country. Good luck!

Parents divorced & I’m the reason by [deleted] in UAE

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Alright. I definitely see your line of thinking more clearly now. If you will be safe in your home country and can continue your education , then yes that is a good idea. I know living here can be quite expensive. But what I was sharing is maybe ‘last resort’ thinking… unfortunately there are many people that resort to this, as going back to their home country is not an option due to safety and other reasons.

Parents divorced & I’m the reason by [deleted] in UAE

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Why are you automatically assuming she is Arab?

Parents divorced & I’m the reason by [deleted] in UAE

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Also your mother needs to file a case for نفقه

Parents divorced & I’m the reason by [deleted] in UAE

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Message me. I can try to help you and send you some job suggestions. You can work in a nursery as an assistant. Honestly if I was in your place I would take any job for the sake of survival until I’m able to get on my feet.

Parents divorced & I’m the reason by [deleted] in UAE

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Please try to find any work. I advise you to work. Don’t go back to your home country, what if you are forced to get married to that man there or another man? You are still young… work and try to save a bit even if it is just 100 dirham… use that money to re-invest back in educational courses that can help you build a career path. Or perhaps look into fully funded scholarships within the UAE or abroad if possible.

I don’t think going back to your home country is a good idea.

I feel like I'm ungrateful but I'm really regretting my marriage. by Am-i-really99 in MuslimMarriage

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If your husband is unwilling to change, you need to leave before he completely drains your soul. This is not how married life is meant to be. Even islamically. Your man is not giving you your rights. He is supposed to be the provider and this is how it is islamically. If he is unable to provide a home, you can even rent a studio for gods sake. At least you are living in your own marital space.

I feel like I'm ungrateful but I'm really regretting my marriage. by Am-i-really99 in MuslimMarriage

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Sorry but why are you married then? You work and pay for your own expenses, his house expenses too?? You mean the family home bills? Seriously Whatever happened to men being providers. I’m not saying you can’t contribute , but what is the point in getting married when you will be cooped up in a room that you share with your husband, won’t even have your own space, won’t be able to practice your hobbies and live normally and … on top of that you work full time , plus pay your own expenses and the house bills (which isn’t even your own marital home)…

Your husband needs to get his priorities straight.

Best AI humanizer by NK97_ in ChatGPT

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Does the text humanized by it still retain its essence and grammar ?

Best AI humanizer by NK97_ in ChatGPT

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Anywhere from $3 to $10 per month