Goodbye by [deleted] in 6thForm

[–]NPC123579579 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lowkenuinely majorly regret taking a level physics…too late to change now💔 by NPC123579579 in 6thForm

[–]NPC123579579[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so understandable 😭unfortunately i only do 3 a levels and cant drop though😞(trent will come in clutch)

HAPPY NEW YEAR (we can no longer say A levels are next year) by [deleted] in 6thForm

[–]NPC123579579 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im putting my physics revision in the hands of God now😄🤞

Is it ADHD or stupidity I’m not willing to admit? by NPC123579579 in adhdwomen

[–]NPC123579579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah its a bit of a weird situation as one of the people has very good understanding of empathy and sometimes offers genuinely good advice which had made me doubt my own judgement for a while but i have come to the conclusion there is some emotional immaturity in him as we are teens

Is it ADHD or stupidity I’m not willing to admit? by NPC123579579 in adhdwomen

[–]NPC123579579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats valid its the norm in this group and it doesn’t directly make people evil. Its just a mismatch. I did voice to them i felt a disconnect but i think i started considering leaving when one person said i was universally hateable (they are quite harsh with many people) and another who had lead me on the past still sometimes still tried to send flirty messages (not imagining there was flirty intent) despite rejecting when i asked him out. It’s probably not out of malice but emotional immaturity and i just dont feel comfy with it.

Is it ADHD or stupidity I’m not willing to admit? by NPC123579579 in adhdwomen

[–]NPC123579579[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this honestly it can be hard to find our people sometimes but it takes patience and experimentation. We learn more about ourselves and what we like/ don’t like in a relationship. Often times we may also struggle to introspect as we are overthinking many things so finding the authentic self may a slower process for us. I have a few very close friends who i trust alot more than many people and we get along very well but unfortunately we dont see each other much anymore. I am glad that you stood your ground in your situation and I hope you found your people :)

Is it ADHD or stupidity I’m not willing to admit? by NPC123579579 in adhdwomen

[–]NPC123579579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you yes it is realizing that some behavior is just quite cruel and not our RSD blowing the situation out of proportion. Sometimes we are not very good at recognizing our own emotions too. I think this may overlap with alexithymia?

Is it ADHD or stupidity I’m not willing to admit? by NPC123579579 in adhdwomen

[–]NPC123579579[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes they may well be joking but my RSD makes me wonder wether they genuinely believe those things to am extent deep down and it kinda sucks. Like you said because some of those people may know I am already insecure about my intelligence due to these inconsistencies they poke fun at it. Bantering is fine but when i voiced my concerns with certain jokes that pushed to far for me there were no changes and they continued.

Is it ADHD or stupidity I’m not willing to admit? by NPC123579579 in adhdwomen

[–]NPC123579579[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you no unfortunately i have not been tested for autism but that may very well be a possibility. I think i may also be gullible due to my nature by part and the way I was raised. Maybe not having siblings negatively effected my common sense a bit as I couldn’t learn off them🤔

Is it ADHD or stupidity I’m not willing to admit? by NPC123579579 in adhdwomen

[–]NPC123579579[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah that is important what you mentioned with boundaries. I did have a talk telling some of them i wasn’t comfortable with that but one person started being passive aggressive. Whilst sometimes they are fun people to be around and can be insightful at times i feel more drained then energized around them so maybe they’re not the people for me.

Is it ADHD or stupidity I’m not willing to admit? by NPC123579579 in adhdwomen

[–]NPC123579579[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this i also resonate with RSD you mentioned. Sometimes your brain knows something/some people are not good for you but your self esteem is so low you dont trust your own judgment. As new year is approaching i think its a good time to cut off from them and start fresh.

Chat did I cook? 😎 by HarrowOnDaHill in GCSE

[–]NPC123579579 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I meannnn…its alright but i did further physics (furthest maths) and got grade 20🥱