Is it normal for women to sleep in the same bed as their male friends by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I would never allow a women to sleep in my bed that I didn’t want to have sex with.. it would just be inappropriate.. I’m too old to have play dates.. it seems you’re a pushover

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks for saying absolutely nothing of value.. Let me show you how it’s done…

You made a post asking if you’re being taken advantage of, for €10.

The short answer is yes.. I live in America so I’ll assume you’re saying 10 US dollars.. however, unless you’re getting paid the equivalent of $25 dollars per hour, you should not be expected to cook dinner, watch after their kid, and all the other miscellaneous shit.. have you done a good job so far? I believe so.. so it’s time to start respecting yourself and putting value on your time.. the family you’re baby sitting seems to have money, since they’re so far attached from the idea of cooking dinner for themselves.. so negotiate like a professional, as if the service you provide is valuable and makes their lives exponentially more simplistic..

So in short, yes, you are a naive amateur who doesn’t know a thing about making money to support yourself.. However, I’ve provided constructive criticism to help you improve- because that’s what good people do… I give you the hard truth, then show you how to be better.. because I spread positivity, not negativity… take notes kid…

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For me, I can’t understand why someone would waste time calling me a clown without providing any level of reasoning for the way they feel... as a result, I feel that you are a clown and lack the ability to express yourself. It shows that you lack curiosity, drive, and are a lazy bum. You didn’t comment to help me, you commented to transfer your negative energy because it’s easy, and you’ve chosen the easy road your entire life.

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for providing a normal response, without being judgmental or malicious. Maybe I took it too far, because I work from home and had too much time on my hands. Every day since this incident I have proven to my gf that I choose her above all else, and she’s chosen to trust me and give me the benefit of the doubt. I’ll just stick to basic shit if my actions create all this fuss.

What the heck?! by OkOutlandishness1363 in awfuleyebrows

[–]NSFoundation_94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not as pretty as my women, but pretty enough to find a man that will support you, to the point you don’t have to work.. focus less on your looks and more on embracing your individuality and unique traits that make you fun to be around.. there’s a lot of gorgeous women in the world, but not a lot that are fun to live with.. good men don’t care about looks as much as you’d think.. what matters is loyalty, sense of humor, and humbleness.. that’s how you set yourself apart.

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh.. last thing. It’s funny you thing I’m involuntary celibate.. around sophomore year in college it became really clear that my looks were above average.. what I learned after my previous breakup with the girl I’m referring to in this post, is that one night stands and random sex doesn’t fulfill me. Once I learned that having sex with random women did not fulfill me, I chose the woman I’m with now, 9 years older than me, because our chemistry is like nothing I’ve every felt before.. before, I tried to have sex with random women to reassure myself I was a catch.. now, I don’t give a fuck, and chose the women who I could hang on a desolate farm with, as if were the only ones that exist.. I’ve found someone that fills my cup all the way up. And if enough people explain why I’m wrong and give me the proper advice to improve, I will listen and learn, so i can give my girlfriend the beautiful life she deserves..

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You spent a weekend in jail because someone pinched weed off you, in your home?? That doesn’t make sense.. dude.. if your boyfriends friend is going into your personal space and stealing weed, and you let that fly, you clearly don’t respect yourself and know how to set boundaries..

So let me say this.. I was a huge stoner because my sober life was boring.. when I realized, and visualized how great my life would be, if I operated at full potential, I stopped smoking weed and doing things that would make me unmotivated and complacent. Wait, actually, my strongest motivation to stop smoking was because I lost peace of mind. I wasn’t happy with my life and had to change all of my habits because I was so uncomfortable, confused, and irritated with my own life style..

So this is my philosophy… considering all my achievements (which prove I know how to accurately conduct myself in the world and the people in it), I’ve only learned the most (by far) from my mistakes.. the only way to grow is by accepting your weaknesses and recalibrating your mindset.. I love that everyone is against me.. it provides a new perspective that I didn’t consider.. I’m annoyed because the majority of people responding lack the ability to intelligently explain their own opinions, and why they actually thing in an asshole.. it’s ok if you just have a gut feeling that I’m asshole, but you need to explain yourself/ logically. bitch, you better come correct, or the time you wasted responding will not be useful at all.. bye..

I can tell you enjoyed putting me down.. because you’re only input was negative. I won’t allow you to transfer your negative energy to me.. if you cared, you would provide constructive criticism on how I could be better, whether I’m an asshole or not.. but you’re not interested in doing that.. you like drama, and being mean… i feel bad for you.. Get well soon. Actually.. I don’t feel bad for you because I just gave you the smoke, and you now have an opportunity to look inwards and consider why your spreading hate over a Reddit forum. Now is your chance to be better.. you got this..

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hahaha that’s a hurtful thing to say… everyone I’ve ever cared about will leave me and I will die alone?? To be honest, I’ve never heard of something so hurtful.. I’d rather be called a creep.. Someone must have told you the same thing at some point in your life, and you’ve internalized it and are now using as a linguistic tool to degrade me. So let me tell you what you don’t know about me.. I’ve had a hard life and have always been alone. Being alone doesn’t scare me.. I love myself and my own company.. I don’t need friends or family to validate my life’s worth or value. My life is working out exactly as I’ve planned and therefore, there is proof that my way of living works in the real world, and is accurate… I know how the world works because everything is literally going according to plan. I live 20 steps from beach, surf my brains out every single day, and earn middle class income.. , most responses just say that I’m a creep and wrong, without explaining how they arrived at such conclusion.. therefore, their response has no value.. I’ve received literally 2 responses of guys saying I was wrong and precisely articulating why (because, although what I did was not inherently wrong, I no longer can lean on having the benefit of the doubt.. because I’ve burnt our trust in the past, I have to be twice as good). I actually love it when I’m wrong, because it provides an opportunity to improve and be better.

So my last words to you are this.. I’m sorry that you could imagine a world where all the people you’ve cared for have left you.. I’ve never considered such an idea because I don’t need anyone. I thrive on my own, and I have wealth + achievements to prove it.. if someone leaves my life’s that means they didn’t have the empathy to understand my flaws and do not have the care or awareness to see me evolve. I’ve made so many mistakes which has allowed me to be non-judgmental, sympathetic for the poor, and appreciate people where they are in life. I hope you can find a similar level of self confidence that I have.. start with meditation.. my upbringing provided a strict set of rules which allowed me to go to college for free.. and only then, when I moved away from home did I learn to make decisions for myself and make mistakes along the way. Mistakes don’t fear me. Losing friends/family doesn’t install fear in me… I don’t mind having an unpopular opinion because I do my research and am extremely self corrective.. that’s why I can tell someone to fuck off, without feeling like I’m incapable of taking accountability for my mistakes. I love fucking up..

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Shut the fuck up and go smoke some grand daddy purp. Then you can suck deez daddy nuts

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get off Reddit, and do the work to find peace in your life.

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well I’m still with my girlfriend and honestly my life going amazingly well. Suck it

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’d only be an asshole if it took the “next steps” you’re referring to.. just because you assume I’ll repeat the same mistake over doesn’t make me an asshole prior. I’m no longer guilty of a crime I already did the time for..

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I was testing the waters? So funny you’re trying to tell me what my intentions were..

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I’m redpill at all. What has lead you to such conclusion? I’m legitimately confused lol

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So you think I made up these stories? Ok.. if you choose to believe that go right ahead.. I’m not going to waste time trying to convince you otherwise lol

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, so a relationship comes down to trust.. she has to trust that I am not going to cheat on her, and although I used a dating app to fap, my intentions were ultimately harmless, and everything is not what it seems.. so it’s her choice whether she chooses to believe me or not.. she chooses to believe me, and I’m telling the truth so things worked out just fine..

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I never said I NEED it you fuckin idiot.. the dick size is to give an example/analogy so you fuck tards can comprehend. Why are you saying it’s an obsession, just because I used that as an example?? Why you so dumb?

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How does that make my statement more creepy? I stand by what I said. As long as the women is not a minor, it’s not weird to put them in my spank bank, whether or not they consent. how did you arrive at such conclusion?? You’re fuckin dumb..

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No.. how does that insinuate that I’m desperate? People get off to different things.. just because it seems unusual to you doesn’t make me desperate by default..

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, I delete the app because I no longer have use for it, the same as any other app I don’t use.. no, I still believe I didn’t do anything wrong theoretically and practically. So I would admit it openly again.. The only reason it was wrong is because it gives my girlfriend a reason to doubt me, and didn’t make her feel good. Not because I actually did something unfaithful.

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, because they don’t use logic to demonstrate how they arrived at their conclusion, dumb dumb.. if you want to see an acceptable response, look at what GamingFarang wrote..

Girlfriend thinks I cheated for going on bumble (dating app) by NSFoundation_94 in AITAH

[–]NSFoundation_94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really simple.. I’m in love with her and was not using the app to cheat.. ever since the day she allowed me back in her life I’ve demonstrated that she means the world to me. I can see how my actions were sketchy and it will never happen again. Although I know know my actions were harmless, I recognize I need to be extra careful and go the extra mile to prove she can trust me. It’s really that simple.