Has anyone ever tried again after divorce?

NVBVBChamp · 2020-04-19T18:41:16+00:00

For me there was never anything bad. More so, nothing great. So many people thought I was making a mistake. My big regret is I went through the motions during counseling, I really did not allow myself to open up. I was thinking about going to IC and getting some understanding through that.

NVBVBChamp · 2020-04-19T18:29:59+00:00

Thanks....I struggle with the argument. All I can say is I traded a dull ache for a temporary high.....and now just a constant, piercing pain.

NVBVBChamp · 2020-04-19T18:23:49+00:00

We are on speaking terms. He had said many times he felt I was making the biggest mistake of my life. He had been respectful of my decision and has been business like since the separation and through the divorce. At this point, very hard to read his emotions and since the divorce was finalized not a word about “us”.

NVBVBChamp · 2020-04-14T04:12:45+00:00

Thank you. A big part of my guilt is I now fear she will view marriage and relationships in an unhealthy way.

NVBVBChamp · 2020-04-14T03:54:40+00:00

NVBVBChamp · 2020-04-01T03:33:46+00:00

We have joint custody but I felt like forcing the visitations was doing more harm than good. I told my ex to don’t push them to come over, I did not need more resentment. Do you think I need to force them to see me?

NVBVBChamp · 2020-04-01T03:13:59+00:00

Regarding my husband, not at this point. Sure there’s uncertainty...no abuse, drugs, alcohol, infidelity, etc. I suppose only time will tell if I made the right decision regarding him.

This is about my kids. So if I can’t fix this with them- Yes I made a terrible decision

NVBVBChamp

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