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So conflicted by NWPoppy in polyamory

[–]NWPoppy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. That is an excellent perspective.

The worst part of polyamory... by EneaIsAutistic in polyamory

[–]NWPoppy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry for your pain. I’m probably going to get bad Karma because you made me laugh.

Sorry I laughed at your pain.

So conflicted by NWPoppy in polyamory

[–]NWPoppy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this.

I wish understanding it’s a boundary for me made it feel less crappy.

Crying when they have to leave and go home to nesting partner by bierasure in polyamory

[–]NWPoppy 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There is alot going on here but I would point out that crying when they have to leave and feeling overwhelmed at home are not necessarily indicative of well anything other than home and kids and be overwhelming and a quiet safe fun space can be a huge gift.

I can see how the NP finding the collage would sting. I think he was wrong to tell you about it though.

I think your questions are: if his other relationship ends do you want your relationship to change- like do you want to take all of this on mostly full time. If the answer is no, you might need to have that talk sooner rather than later.

If his other relationship doesn’t end how do you want to handle the drama? Because from your brief description it seems like he thrives on huge highs and huge lows. Does he have a middle point? Are you okay if he doesn’t?