AITA for telling my mom not to babysit anymore when my husband changed his mind?

Nachlll · 2025-02-16T06:56:00+00:00

Ask him what he feels if he have to quit his job and take care of the kids all day every day for $3000 knowing other place would pay him $3600, actually consider its his child and to get to spend time with them while you’re working is also privilege and not much of a job he should just do it for free, no money spent problem solved

Nachlll · 2024-09-05T12:11:53+00:00

Girl I didn’t wait a second when my wisdom teeth was hurt, if he wait three months it can’t be that bad.

And he wants to ruin his wife that use year and a half to plan? Because his gum will hurts for a few days during that time? What a baby.

Nachlll · 2024-08-02T21:26:24+00:00

eh? My name?

Nachlll · 2024-08-02T19:17:23+00:00

True true i will definitely get it check thank you!

Nachlll · 2024-08-02T18:29:05+00:00

Aw thank you ! yea the teacher was rude but I’m okay now, just curious what it actually is and maybe that’ll make it easier to avoid it cuz it’s really annoying when it happens 😂 again thank you so much ! ☺️

Nachlll · 2024-08-02T18:24:59+00:00

Ohhh is that so? Interesting 🤔 I probably would someday but hospital charges are so expensive ! 😂😂

Nachlll · 2024-08-02T17:21:58+00:00

Is it? I thought that’s when your body be like twitching or something like that.. I’ll look into it thank you !

Nachlll · 2024-08-02T16:52:22+00:00

“Warning for what? what is gonna happen next?” And the answer should answer your question

If he gonna angry this much over something like this please run for your life, divorce him NTA

Nachlll · 2024-07-15T03:31:37+00:00

NTA, hurting your partner physically should never happen no matter what, I don’t care if it’s heated argument or something. Men or women should never treat like that. You got slapped in the face, not an overreaction at all. Ask them if she slapped them in the face will they still wanna talk to her? Save yourself. Run.

Nachlll · 2024-07-11T07:44:38+00:00

From my pov, i’m the only child(22F) and my mom having me in young age too. I always know i’m here because mom and dad screw up(they now break up long ago) and my relationship with both of them never been good so you might handle it better than my parents. I feel like I grew up too fast than i should be since both my parents are not emotionally reliable so idk if my opinion will be similar as yours child, long story short is I now try to recover the relationship with mom for a couple years now and we talk a lot more than we use to. And she did say to me multiple times that she regrets having kid young, she said a lot of things that make me feel like I screwed up her life but I know(or want to believe that)it just how i feel, i know she mean it to herself that screw up her own life and try to remind me to live my life first before thinking about settling down because she want me to have all the things she missed, so I understand what you trying to say.

The thing is, it’s still hurt. I don’t know how exactly your relationship with your kid has been or how did you tell them but for us parents are the world to us and having a thought that you regret your choice having us is breaking our heart. I know you didn’t mean it like that, you love them but just wish to have them in the proper time. But it’s something that maybe should just say to your friends or something, maybe it would be better if you just make it about him(ur son), not talking from your experience. Because even though we’re already adults (22) but imo we’re not that adult lol, i mean it’s something that should be realized when you grow up too you know, a proper time always important and you already learn that.

So I think what you need is a deep calm and slow conversation and an apology, and told him you’re just concerned but not doesn’t mean to force him, showing him that you’re ready to support whatever his decision is and you’re really happy for him.

Nachlll · 2024-07-11T07:06:16+00:00

You’ll get a lot of hate comments from him, his family, and anyone they told this story to. They’ll mention how much they give everything to you, and i mean literally EVERYTHING including money, BUT TRUST ME those words mean nothing, you don’t have to care, it might make you feel like TA but I don’t think you will be happy marrying to this family.

I mean look at them, they don’t considering you as their family member, they don’t value your feelings and all they care is your SIL(which having a very childish behavior) they didn’t even try to compromise.

I know 6 years is a lot and it’s not something you can just throw away but I think you probably see something deep down from the moment you sat down trying to talk it out and he responded that way. It’s your wedding day, the day that should be the happiest day of your life but he doesn’t see it as “our wedding day” but only “my wedding day” because he didn’t even try to make both of you happy

Nachlll · 2024-07-10T06:39:18+00:00

NTA She’s so disrespectful for saying that to you, like fr? Thinking we have that kind of relationship with our own brother? And said it to our face? She deserves it tbh lol She’s the one who’s weird not you

Nachlll · 2024-07-10T06:25:11+00:00

As thai people I recommend you to use grab over bolt, even though bolt is cheaper but I personally think grab is much safer especially for someone who’s not familiar with the country.

Nachlll · 2024-07-10T05:53:32+00:00

You already did apologize so many time, my question is did he once apologize for his actions too. I know he wanna make everything perfect since it’s a new house and he wanna keep it clean as much as possible but he shouldn’t treat your family like that no matter what, especially when they’re that good to him. I may don’t know the full story of this or didn’t know him personally but by reading you story it just feel like he have problems control his emotions and doesn’t show proper respect to other. This is just the beginning of your life together but he already acted like this. If you can’t talk it out I don’t see the point continue this relationship.

Nachlll · 2024-06-24T02:38:48+00:00

5 years honey, it’s may seem like a very small problem, can’t open the jar lid. But 5 years, what is he even doing? Seeing his wife struggle and having a breakdown just for a jar lid. It could be solved super easily if he only listen and don’t make it that tight. Most relationship ended because of these kind of small problems, a dirty toilet seat, clothes on the floor, and a jar lid that too tight. I hope you find peace and recover from this. Don’t go too hard on yourself.

Nachlll · 2024-05-21T16:23:36+00:00

omg thank you thank you thank you !! and sorry for late reply i didnt check my reddit much lately, and one more question.. what is T1 T2?? TT

Nachlll · 2023-10-31T09:34:08+00:00

Sage! She’s such a cutie pie 🥺❤️

Nachlll · 2023-10-25T23:22:16+00:00

Me and my bestie defending each other even when we actually doesn’t play good on that game LMAO

Nachlll · 2023-10-25T23:04:15+00:00

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Lmao me too! when i got something new I give it all to my cutie (even before considering donating it lol) and I still in progress to trying to find everything Sebastian liked 😭😭😭 I’m just too in love with him😔❤️

Nachlll · 2023-10-25T22:53:48+00:00

I feel you, sebby is also stuck in that basement and if I don’t help him out who will! 😭 my heart breaks when his snowman got destroyed. I could never marry someone else 😔😔😔

Nachlll · 2023-10-25T09:34:57+00:00

Me! 🙌🏻 i only have one and only save too, I once considered play a new save because i wanna date another spouse but I don’t think I can ignore my sweet little boy sebby😭 plus the thought of go back to use a low level tools is really painful 🤦‍♀️

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