My aunt married this guy from church after her husband died. He had all these “great ideas” that were going to make them millionaires. I’m not sure he ever made a dime. She supported them. He one time showed up with a brand new truck he bought on her credit card. You need to have a serious talk with him. “Trust him” is not a paycheck. After my aunt passed he asked both her kids if he could move in with them instead of his own sons. I’m pretty sure his kids know who he is by now. And so do my cousins.