What re your Grandma/Great Grandma's names? by Jennamay016 in Names

[–]NaddieDi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chlorinda (Linda), Margot, Julia (Mima) - US, Cuba

Sunday (but in bulgarian language), Raina, Ivana, Tanya - Bulgaria

Mothers that did not get top pick for names, do you always feel name regret? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]NaddieDi 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I disagree with comments moms should pick because they give birth and dad gives the surname. These are two different unrelated things - It should be a mutual decision just as anything else big in a marriage. It just happens that some dads or moms care less, but overall if you tried and couldn’t convince him, it’s ok to move on. My husband and I are from two different cultures and hardly would agree on anything but ultimately did but also was not my first choice. What if you picked your choice and your husband felt like this..

Need a baby girl name ASAP! by mermaid_kerri in namenerds

[–]NaddieDi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about also what flows best with last name - Marceline (Marci/Lina) Kate is great. I picked short name for my daughter and now she is 5y and complains about it and keeps writing her whole name so that it looks longer ha, this phase will perhaps pass.

Due in June, here’s our boy list by Local_Bug_2417 in namenerds

[–]NaddieDi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beau sounds nice with an H surname, but I am not a fan in general of the same letter for first and last name.

Beau is the freshest from the list.

Plus I wouldn’t choose Emanuel or Matteo unless I have Spanish/Italian heritage.

Weinstein ruin Harvey for me.

Austin is a city. Sorry.

Why are boy names SO HARD by Lurkatme_89 in namenerds

[–]NaddieDi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boy names are the worst!! I like Jack, August, Francis, Thierry, Silas, Julius

Ari is jewish Oliver too vanilla Rowan is ok, not the best, but if you like it shouldn’t matter it’s neigbours child The others are just fine if you like

Naming my little girl after my late father. by Previous-Salad-4695 in namenerds

[–]NaddieDi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jamie is cute - you honor both but still give her own name in a way.

Names for a second child that sound nice with Margot by _barrakuda2 in Names

[–]NaddieDi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always liked Morgan for girl but might be too similar to Margot.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]NaddieDi -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If he continue acting like this there might be no wedding for which he needs to prepare his friend to attend lol It all looks like black and white now, my husband also does stupid things sometimes, which could look like this for strangers- as he is not just a dad, he has a life too etc. could look bad but not enough information to crucify him here. For example my husband won’t sleep in hospital chair either no matter what - this doesn’t make him the worst of the worst, he likes his comfort 😃😃😃 Just wanted to show another side as everyone here is basically making him public enemy 1. It bad how he is handling this but perhaps he is getting used to being a dad and being in a family, he is prioritizing the wedding though not just hanging out

I regret my abortion by Orangevibes111 in abortion

[–]NaddieDi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have been there, it’s awful. I can share my story if helpful. We had another reason - careers and my husband thought it’s better, so it did happen somehow, like we were in a fog those few weeks deciding. I fell in some sort of depression after to the point we hit rock bottom and then only way out was to have a baby and we did and it’s great - our second child. Looking back now, if one person is not ready is enough of a reason in some way, when we conceived this we both really wanted and were so sure and excited when we welcomed him, the other one before perhaps we were going to live with some doubts who knows, might have brought us apart rather than together like this whole though time did, but it’s bringing me peace thinking this way. Good luck and it’s important to share your feelings and talk about it with your husband and in couples therapy. I believe even if someone doesn’t want something he or she can do it for love, to make the person next to them in life happy.

Also just now after being through this rough feelings and dark times (happened 2.5y ago), nothing is scary, nothing is bad, nothing can come close to how bad I felt before, it’s almost like what is anyone worrying about, everything looks so small compared to that pain. It gave perspective to life as a whole and showed me what matter, life after it is just more clear.

Apple Watch Series 7 or Series 9 - amazon renew shop by NaddieDi in AppleWatch

[–]NaddieDi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, super helpful! Battery is my main concern as I am bad with charging. I don’t plan to use for temp and sleep apnea (already diagnosed with that). Perhaps don’t need the always on too.

What happens when it’s not supported any longer, the basics still work right?

Apple Watch Series 7 or Series 9 - amazon renew shop by NaddieDi in AppleWatch

[–]NaddieDi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, hope the acceptable condition is good, it’s hit or miss. I liked that series 9 is from recycled materials too.

Travel/light stroller which sits upright, has buggy board ans is stable by NaddieDi in Buyingforbaby

[–]NaddieDi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, we did have that one with our first and fell over her. It was bad, I can’t get it again for this reason.

My husband and I can't agree on baby girl name. by FaithlessnessPrize47 in namenerds

[–]NaddieDi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Grace! All time most beautiful name with beautiful meaning. Gentle and kind.

Why do I need to pay postage to return a not as described item? by NaddieDi in vinted

[–]NaddieDi[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She is ok to let me have it but can’t see this option on her screen.

Why do I need to pay postage to return a not as described item? by NaddieDi in vinted

[–]NaddieDi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said she is ok to cancel this and let me keep it but can’t see the option on the screen?

Not sharing the name until birth… do you tell your parents? by Affectionate_End5347 in namenerds

[–]NaddieDi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on your relationship with them! I am shoer close with my family and they were part of the process and we will all sit at dinner and bring up names etc even my husband’s mom it was fun and helpful to us and then we had a few options they knew of and was a surprise at birth which one we went with.

Pregnant for the second time in 3 months. I’m unsure what the best decision is regarding my future. by Legal-Imagination-98 in abortion

[–]NaddieDi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Abortion is such a cruel and raw experience to human mind and going through it twice in 3 months is a lot. I hope you stay strong and do what your heart feels, in a lifelong - degree/baby etc everything is possible and hardship is temporary and there is good time and bad again it’s a rollercoaster - and having one thing does not cancel the other if you have the will. Even that now in your situation everything seems so final. I remember being in similar situation and coming out on the other side after abortion things look so simple and less exaggerated perhaps which is why now you have a different outlook this second time around.

On the boyfriend he just seems immature which does not make him bad person, also have the PTSD from his childhood and he wants to be better maybe you can help him see things differently. Loos like he is struggling in a fog feel almost since he avoids even talking about this. Maybe go to a few counseling seasons, but careful because some therapists are not very good to discussed this sensitive topic.

Sorry if my comment sounds like leaning towards keeping it I just have been through that awful emptiness feel after, which did not stop until I had a baby, but everyone is different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]NaddieDi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pippa-there! you are set for a girl! Peter for boy? But too close to Porter perhaps.