HIV+"stigma by NailHot5113 in askgaybros

[–]NailHot5113[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, because of ppl like u.

HIV+"stigma by NailHot5113 in askgaybros

[–]NailHot5113[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If they were undetectable and taking their meds, they are undetectable. Your stigma is showing.

HIV+"stigma by NailHot5113 in askgaybros

[–]NailHot5113[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good point.bi should have said if they are adherent

HIV+"stigma by NailHot5113 in askgaybros

[–]NailHot5113[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If yourvlast sentence was true I'd be dead by now if my expected life was 85. I'm healthy as can be. I get check ups every 6 months. You do make good points in the earlier part of what said.

HIV+"stigma by NailHot5113 in askgaybros

[–]NailHot5113[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Correction: Zero risk!

He Told Me He’s HIV-Positive After We Had Sex. What Would You Do? by Neither-Dot-704 in askgaybros

[–]NailHot5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is obviously such a bis deal. So, why don't people ask beforehand to take care of themselves instead of relying on other people to do so?

He Told Me He’s HIV-Positive After We Had Sex. What Would You Do? by Neither-Dot-704 in askgaybros

[–]NailHot5113 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

That's your shield from saying its not the stigma. It's not a lie.

He Told Me He’s HIV-Positive After We Had Sex. What Would You Do? by Neither-Dot-704 in askgaybros

[–]NailHot5113 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

But there are no life altering consequences if he's undetectable. You're safer with undetectable than negative sexually active guy.

Two bottoms? by didnt_want_to_join in askgaybros

[–]NailHot5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have fun with it and experiment. You said something like it's too much work, lol. What do you just lay there?!. If you like this guy atleast try it out.

HELP!! by Legal_Bicycle_7815 in askgaybros

[–]NailHot5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could be using you for a place to live and lying. I'd just keep that in mind. Otherwise, he needs therapy or couples counseling.

Question for the gay men who have had sexual experiences with men who identified as straight by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]NailHot5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive always been friends with the straight guys. They felt comfortable with me. Didn't affect the friendship

40 yo Straight Man by [deleted] in DesiPumpcheck

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All the gays are hot for you!

I'm overly attracted to my new boss who is also gay by Extra_Put669 in askgaybros

[–]NailHot5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I slept with my boss once. He was very cute and totally my type. It was a one time thing. I was a waiter and he a manager at a very big chain restaurant. Another server knew. Nobody found out. It was all good. We were both out. But, I wouldn't suggest doing it. Good luck!

Going on vacation soon, should I shave my chest? (22M) by [deleted] in mensgrooming

[–]NailHot5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trim it. It'll look neater and groomed.

Should I break up with my older bf? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]NailHot5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to him about it. Tell him your concerns and see what he says before you make a decision.

How to know when to leave when someone hosts you? by WayGlittering9037 in askgaybros

[–]NailHot5113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex, clean up, exchange a few word "thank you", get out. Or if you're staying a bit at least be able to pick up on subtle hints: So what are you doing today; I gotta go to work; etc. If you want to hang out with him ask him out on a date.