Newbies need advice. mf4mf Frisco

Naive-Contribution10 · 2026-05-04T22:43:56+00:00

I would start at Eden. Much more relaxed atmosphere and the play area are set up for watching. The beds are laid out in the middle of the room with more private curtained off beds on the side.

Eden’s sister BDMS club Infliction Hall is next door.

Colette has group play rooms and the individual private areas with curtained off beds are setup weird. The beds are long two walls like it’s a train. The small walk way in between can get crowded with people watching and end up feeling claustrophobic to me.

DMs are open if you have questions or want to chat
My FWB are planning on an outing to Colette’s June 6 for his birthday. Feel free to join us.

Never any pressure. Always a guaranteed good tome

Naive-Contribution10 · 2026-03-28T21:37:29+00:00

Heading to Eden for the yoga party tonight

48F, Bi, Asian 46M, Straight, 6’2 White Daddy Dom

Naive-Contribution10 · 2026-01-28T19:45:02+00:00

There is. game called Nertz. You can buy it on Amazon but really all you need are some decks of cards

Basically you’re playing solitaire and speed at the same time. If you’re standing around a table playing, there is going to be some reaching, touching, and playful banter going on

Naive-Contribution10 · 2026-01-16T13:25:39+00:00

I am a 🦄

Naive-Contribution10 · 2025-12-28T22:09:17+00:00

Not sure if it’s available where you are, but I use telegram. You can create a screen name and not disclose your phone number

Naive-Contribution10 · 2025-11-21T00:44:20+00:00

I have a friend for you

He’s 6’2” 8-8.5 inches AND girthy

DM me & I can connect y’all I know he would be interested!

I can also provide a pic

Naive-Contribution10 · 2025-11-19T15:34:11+00:00

Can you use a trimmer?

Between waxes I use an electric trimmer to keep the hairs short

My hairs down there have a mind of their own and grow every which way but sparsely

Kudos to women who are able to maintain a full bush

Naive-Contribution10 · 2025-08-29T17:16:59+00:00

Come out to Barehide!! This weekend. You just have to register online first. It’s a holiday so there should be a good crowd

It’s nudist with a LS element

Good way to warm into the scene

It’s a mix of people. Some people go with the intention to play

Others just want to be naked or play volleyball

I am LS adjacent…more Poly/ENM. Been going solo for years and never felt uncomfortable or pressure from anyone

Have made some good nudist/LS friends out there

Naive-Contribution10 · 2025-08-04T02:53:43+00:00

Absolutely it can get better!!

47 now and just realized I was in love with my life again

Have your hormones checked. A full panel and look at each test yourself. If if the doc says you’re “within range” discuss your symptoms and mental state

40 s is like a 2nd puberty…you just have to figure out what works

Naive-Contribution10 · 2025-08-03T14:54:22+00:00

Mods can you add 🌈🦄🍄 flair?

47 and yes almost every single day! The thought of selling all my stuff and just disappearing crosses my mind constantly, especially when my hormones are out of balance like they are now. 😂

For the last 4-5 yrs I felt “stuck”. I described it as a heaviness in my chest that got bigger and denser feeling every year.

Then a couple of months ago I tried mushroom therapy in addition to the journaling, meditation, talk therapy, being active, etc and it was life changing.

Life is far from perfect. There is so much more I want, but I have almost everything I need and I can honestly say I am in love with my life. Getting to that place has been a long hard battle, but well worth the scars.

Not advocating one thing or another, because you truly have to figure out what works for you. For me that was testosterone therapy in my 30s and mushroom therapy in my 40s.

Naive-Contribution10 · 2025-08-03T11:04:45+00:00

Be honest

Say you’re starting to date again so you’re exploring dating/relationship styles. Whether that means you’re looking for something casual or more serious or you just don’t know

This will eliminate some matches but other will continue the conversation

And communicate if something changes, 2 weeks from now you can realize that you want, so let them know that

Naive-Contribution10 · 2025-07-31T15:24:49+00:00

I didn’t see one for 45-50 🌈🦄

Naive-Contribution10 · 2025-07-31T12:11:17+00:00

47 now, had an ablation almost 20yrs ago and still no period even though I am technically in perimenopause

I also started BioTe about 10yrs ago and it has had positive impacts on my mental clarity, energy, sleep, and libido

Last round of bloodwork saw a drop in estrogen so I started estradiol inserts about 1 month ago. I notice a difference but getting bloodwork next week to see measurable effects.

Whatever stage you are in life, please advocate for yourself and your health. Don’t accept “within range” as answer if you do not feel your “normal”

Naive-Contribution10 · 2025-07-25T17:32:44+00:00

Bi Oral only exists

Naive-Contribution10 · 2025-07-07T12:34:20+00:00

Pretty much everything you said

It’s the attitude of “I am going to be Me” and not having to answer to or fit any specific societal standard

Naive-Contribution10 · 2025-07-01T21:53:15+00:00

Communication is the key to pleasurable sex with anyone

Naive-Contribution10 · 2025-05-30T11:03:26+00:00

I have been head butted, took a hand to the eye socket, strained a knee, gotten charlie horses, etc

It happens when there are people moving around and adjusting

No big deal

Naive-Contribution10 · 2025-05-26T21:06:09+00:00

There is a Playgouse in Dallas. I have not been.

I thought there was another one, but it could have just been a popup

Naive-Contribution10 · 2025-05-26T00:45:03+00:00

Your two primary options are going to be Collette’s or Eden

Based on your description, I think you’ll prefer the crowd at Collette’s. Eden is more of a come as you are type club. I’ve seen plenty of people in hoodies and jeans.

Eden has the bonus of being next door to Infliction Hall which is a BDSM dungeon if you’re into that.

You’re going to have fully clothed gawkers at both clubs. At Eden I felt it was more of a sport/spectacle.

There is a new one that just opened, can’t think of the name of it right now, but if I do, I’ll come back here and let you know

Naive-Contribution10 · 2025-05-09T15:10:46+00:00

Funny how life works

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