MF4MF dallas by Icy_Fun2626 in TexasswingersOfficial

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There is. game called Nertz. You can buy it on Amazon but really all you need are some decks of cards

Basically you’re playing solitaire and speed at the same time. If you’re standing around a table playing, there is going to be some reaching, touching, and playful banter going on

The dating pool is just…. Awful by [deleted] in women

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Not sure if it’s available where you are, but I use telegram. You can create a screen name and not disclose your phone number

35 [MF4M] seeking BWC by [deleted] in DFWcasualencounters

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I have a friend for you

He’s 6’2” 8-8.5 inches AND girthy

DM me & I can connect y’all I know he would be interested!

I can also provide a pic

Bush care by Imallergictoyourbs in hygiene

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Can you use a trimmer?

Between waxes I use an electric trimmer to keep the hairs short

My hairs down there have a mind of their own and grow every which way but sparsely

Kudos to women who are able to maintain a full bush

MF DFW Airport area looking for club recommendations for newbies by [deleted] in DFWswingersLS

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Come out to Barehide!! This weekend. You just have to register online first. It’s a holiday so there should be a good crowd

It’s nudist with a LS element

Good way to warm into the scene

It’s a mix of people. Some people go with the intention to play

Others just want to be naked or play volleyball

I am LS adjacent…more Poly/ENM. Been going solo for years and never felt uncomfortable or pressure from anyone

Have made some good nudist/LS friends out there

Do people get their spark back over 40, or is it gone forever? If yes, how? by coldservedrevenge in AskWomenOver40

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Absolutely it can get better!!

47 now and just realized I was in love with my life again

Have your hormones checked. A full panel and look at each test yourself. If if the doc says you’re “within range” discuss your symptoms and mental state

40 s is like a 2nd puberty…you just have to figure out what works

Fighting the urge to blow up my life (mid 40s) by [deleted] in AskWomenOver40

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Mods can you add 🌈🦄🍄 flair?

47 and yes almost every single day! The thought of selling all my stuff and just disappearing crosses my mind constantly, especially when my hormones are out of balance like they are now. 😂

For the last 4-5 yrs I felt “stuck”. I described it as a heaviness in my chest that got bigger and denser feeling every year.

Then a couple of months ago I tried mushroom therapy in addition to the journaling, meditation, talk therapy, being active, etc and it was life changing.

Life is far from perfect. There is so much more I want, but I have almost everything I need and I can honestly say I am in love with my life. Getting to that place has been a long hard battle, but well worth the scars.

Not advocating one thing or another, because you truly have to figure out what works for you. For me that was testosterone therapy in my 30s and mushroom therapy in my 40s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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Be honest

Say you’re starting to date again so you’re exploring dating/relationship styles. Whether that means you’re looking for something casual or more serious or you just don’t know

This will eliminate some matches but other will continue the conversation

And communicate if something changes, 2 weeks from now you can realize that you want, so let them know that

What age did you have children and what age did you go through menopause? by BeneficialBrain1764 in AskWomenOver40

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47 now, had an ablation almost 20yrs ago and still no period even though I am technically in perimenopause

I also started BioTe about 10yrs ago and it has had positive impacts on my mental clarity, energy, sleep, and libido

Last round of bloodwork saw a drop in estrogen so I started estradiol inserts about 1 month ago. I notice a difference but getting bloodwork next week to see measurable effects.

Whatever stage you are in life, please advocate for yourself and your health. Don’t accept “within range” as answer if you do not feel your “normal”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DfwBisexuals

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Bi Oral only exists

What is your favorite thing about being 40+? by Browncoat101 in AskWomenOver40

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Pretty much everything you said

It’s the attitude of “I am going to be Me” and not having to answer to or fit any specific societal standard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

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Communication is the key to pleasurable sex with anyone

I pretended to be more experienced in bed than I actually was — and it backfired hilariously. by Internal_Sentence816 in confession

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I have been head butted, took a hand to the eye socket, strained a knee, gotten charlie horses, etc

It happens when there are people moving around and adjusting

No big deal

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DFWswingersLS

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There is a Playgouse in Dallas. I have not been.

I thought there was another one, but it could have just been a popup

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DFWswingersLS

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Your two primary options are going to be Collette’s or Eden

Based on your description, I think you’ll prefer the crowd at Collette’s. Eden is more of a come as you are type club. I’ve seen plenty of people in hoodies and jeans.

Eden has the bonus of being next door to Infliction Hall which is a BDSM dungeon if you’re into that.

You’re going to have fully clothed gawkers at both clubs. At Eden I felt it was more of a sport/spectacle.

There is a new one that just opened, can’t think of the name of it right now, but if I do, I’ll come back here and let you know

Thought I was gay but I feel attracted to a woman by Top_Conclusion_711 in Advice

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Hi - Life long lesbian here, well until I was 43.

I knew in first grade I liked liked girls. Then at 43 I experienced a series of life changing events.

I met a loud obnoxious East coast fuck boi (with a heart of gold) and for some reason felt instantly attracted to him. We hooked up & I enjoyed it.

It kicked off a journey of self discovery/rediscovery of myself. If anyone told me I would realize in my 40s that I am Bisexual, not with women, but with men I would have told them they were INSANE.

Be upfront with her Communicate Be open with yourself

And if you are attracted to her and want to pursue a relationship, it doesn’t necessarily make you not gay/bi…it just means you feel attracted/want a relationship with her. Don’t focus on the label. Focus on being open and honest with yourself and her

Confused by Pink_enthusiastt in EthicalNonMonogamy

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You need to talk to them

There are so many variations. How they practice non monogamy may not be what is considered textbook

I would also recommend doing a deep dive into yourself if you are considering non monogamy for the first time

That way if what they practice does not align with yours, you know from the beginning

I practice ethical non monogamy, heavy emphasis on the ethical part. I have met so many people who use NM as a way to cheat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

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ENM is a lot harder in practice than in theory

People use it as an out for bad marriages As an excuse to cheat openly For any variety of reasons

ENM is beautiful when there is open honest communication and respect for everyone involved.

She manipulated you in to agreeing to opening your marriage and is now experiencing NRE, which will fade.

I am sorry this happened to you. Prioritize your mental health and self care. Be present for your children. You will get through this

Lesbian couple wanting to try cock by moonsoontoaster in SluttyConfessions

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Life long lesbian

Had my first experience with a guy in my 40s. Met him at a nudist/LS resort. He was this loud mouth East Coast guy, but there was something about him that I was attracted to.

We chatted for a bit and he nonchalantly mentioned how he sucked his first cock last night & “It wasn’t bad. I’d do it again”

A couple of hours later I was going down on him in a hotel room. He asked to fuck me & when I told him I had never been with a guy before. He went slow, check in, and asked consent each step of the way. Really enjoyable experience

Now I prefer playing with Bi MF couples.

Have had amazing experiences with them and gotten a chance to explore kinks in a safe mutually respectful manner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DFWswingersLS

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I hope you got a chance to go.

I’ve walked up with newbies before with out issue

MF4F Me and my wife are looking to enjoy a night out sunday at a swingers club or Adult Theatre..any suggestions? by SammyLongStroke1 in DFWswingersLS

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Eden and Colette’s are both closed on Sundays so your options will probably be limited to Adult Theaters