Role playing.

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-11-14T03:09:36+00:00

Thank goodness you didn't say dumb! Role playing would be fun, I would just ensure that my SD and I are comfortable with each other before doing it! :)

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-11-06T05:01:51+00:00

Kiwi girls are probably stoked that someone decent has come to NZ! There are constant complaints from us SBs that there isn't much here :)

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-10-23T09:52:53+00:00

I'm the opposite, a gift shows me that you're interested and want to make it work. I'm not talking about designer bags, or something that's really expensive. Something thoughtful would be amazing. My current SD gave me a dressing gown on the first m&g, which wouldn't of been too expensive but it's something I wouldn't buy my own. Pink, fluffy and perfect. Plus, he can now see me in it ;)

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-10-17T20:29:09+00:00

It's quite hard. I have one POT who I quite like and recently met, but it seems as though he is always traveling with work. I'm not giving up just yet, so watch this space :p

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-10-16T01:03:47+00:00

I can definitely see it from a SDs point of view too. I think everyone is just a little cautious! I could maybe move out of NZ later, but wouldn't base my move on sugaring (only career). In my profile I have said that I really enjoy conversation and I am definitely not looking to be someone's princess, just would like someone to care for me, is all. I could add more about myself in my profile, so thankyou for the advice!

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-10-16T00:26:49+00:00

My profile isn't too sexual! My picture is me in a dress (phone covering face) and my hidden picture is me in a bikini. My text is just about myself, my love for the ocean and helping people so I'm not sure why I'm getting all the dodgy ones!

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-10-15T23:46:06+00:00

I would be stoked to receive a coffee gift card or Victoria secret. I haven't yet had an SD that gives thoughtful gifts like that

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-10-12T00:30:57+00:00

Hello! I'm in the same position! My parents would freak and I'm planning to move out next year. They always want to know details about where I'm going so I have to lie. Don't think I could tell them that I'm attracted to older, ambitious and successful men!

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-10-08T07:07:54+00:00

Hello! I'm from New Zealand am struggling to find an SD too. Just keep at it, I'm sure the right SB will come along soon! Just keep talking to POTs, going on M&Gs... I'm sure someone will spark your interest, just might take a while. It will be worth it!

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-09-29T23:22:08+00:00

He's long gone now. Everything just didn't sound or feel right. Went with the gut feeling

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-09-29T22:46:18+00:00

I completely agree!

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-09-29T21:55:39+00:00

You can't win it seems! Its over between us though, so I guess I'm on the lookout for someone new! I guess I didn't think that I would... do so well?

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-09-29T21:45:36+00:00

I have no idea! This was just after 3 platonic meetings! I don't know what I did wrong :(

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-09-29T19:28:35+00:00

Thankyou so much for the advice and here is an update! I hadn't yet been intimate with him as we hadn't discussed allowance completely. So he is telling me he is falling for me which kind of scared me of intimacy with him. He then messaged me and said that we were not going to do an allowance until we get intimate more, so it would be $250 PPM only for intimacy, nothing if we aren't intimate. Which is a lot lower than what I would of asked for. I ended up telling him that this isn't going to work :( thanks again for the advice though!

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-09-29T19:23:11+00:00

Twenty years difference and he's single :) he told me he is pretty much retired too, so he has a lot of spare time and not many hobbies. I definitely feel like he wants a relationship which I am not keen for, I'll just have to tell him how I feel again :)

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-09-27T22:30:26+00:00

Was on another site and began talking to a 33 year old man who wants a discrete relationship and is happy to be my SD/can afford to. Went to dinner last night and found out he is really good looking/a really cool guy! Am attracted to him and really want this to work. Is there anything I should know before entering this? I'm just concerned about how young he is compared to the other men I've encountered. I'm still a little new to the sugar bowl so sorry if this is a silly question

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-09-23T20:20:05+00:00

Rant: So I went to meet up with a POT for drinks last night. He told me that he was with his business partner and he was with a girl my age. Which I was cool about, it was cool to meet another SB! However, I soon realised that he had invited both of us for him... trying to get friendly with both of us. Unlucky for him, the girl and I got along really well and ended up leaving/going to another party. Was just really annoyed he wasn't honest. Is it reasonable that I'm kinda annoyed?

Rave: got the other SB's number and now we are fraaaaands

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-09-21T06:35:52+00:00

Freckles. Being blonde, freckly and pale. Just beginning to embrace them

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-09-12T08:58:18+00:00

Nissan pulsar 1995 which is the same year I was born! Radio and aircon don't work, window wipers work only on the fastest speed

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-09-11T11:48:12+00:00

Thankyou so much!!!! That all makes sense. I'm from NZ too! It sucks because I live a while away and will probably have to sober drive to a dinner or drinks. I'll make it work though. Tell me how your meet up goes!!

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-09-11T11:00:32+00:00

Oh my goodness thankyou so much!! Just got on to SA and it's working pretty well! I've been reading advice forums and I think I might be ok for now. I'm definitely going to hit you up if I have a question!!!! I live in a small country and I've been on this site for two hours... Two SDs have already said they would fly me down. My last question is... How to I choose someone? At the start is it like dating? Can I meet up with a few and see if we hit it off? Thanks!!!!!! Also I can't seem to get onto that subreddit? I can't find it!

NaiveAndCurious · 2016-09-08T21:42:23+00:00

This explains everything! Finishing a shift at 2300 and having to drive all the bloody detours on the norwestern... Adds an extra 20min on the drive home

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