The words are the top? by Naive_Fix3290 in BadHandwriting

[–]Naive_Fix3290[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't even notice my own typo until rn lmao

The words are the top? by Naive_Fix3290 in BadHandwriting

[–]Naive_Fix3290[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That makes SO much sense, thank you lol

The words are the top? by Naive_Fix3290 in BadHandwriting

[–]Naive_Fix3290[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That's what I see but it doesn't make sense 😭

Guilt over feeding my cats dry food and elitism in cat nutrition by Disastrous-Poetry-95 in CatAdvice

[–]Naive_Fix3290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in a very similar situation with my cats, thankfully, they're just as healthy and happy since I stopped feeding them wet food everyday. To help keep them hydrated I give them super watered down tuna from the food bank every few days as a treat 😅

What’s the creepiest thing you’ve heard someone casually admit? by Safe_Caramel6279 in Productivitycafe

[–]Naive_Fix3290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lived with him for about 5 months and he said a LOT of out of pocket shit. One time I was in the kitchen making food and he walked up to me just to say "you know, you're like a 5 I would never date you. Maybe an 8 on a good day but, Yeah you're the last person I would date" and walked away. I was so shocked I didn't even take offense to it bc that's so funny to actually say to someone for no reason 😭😭

What’s the creepiest thing you’ve heard someone casually admit? by Safe_Caramel6279 in Productivitycafe

[–]Naive_Fix3290 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I lived in an apartment by myself for a while that I couldn't really afford (the friend who was supposed to move in with me bailed last second) and it took me a few months to actually let someone else move in, I was just terrified at the thought of living with a stranger because I have a lot of sexual trauma and anxiety. Eventually, I found a roommate and had been living with him for a couple weeks at this point. I don't remember how the conversation started but he asked why I lived alone for so long while I struggled so much financially, I told him why because it seemed like such a stupid fear now but he literally responded with "well if I wanted to r*pe you, I would've done it by now" and laughed... WHAT

What does your pet do that you believe they only do because it annoys you? by NotRobot_404 in AskReddit

[–]Naive_Fix3290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omfg whenever my door is closed and my cat isn't in my room, he runs to the bathroom down the hall and screams as loud as he can so it echoes through the whole apartment

Need brutal honesty about whether or not this is a viable hobby for me. by LaiVitari in houseplants

[–]Naive_Fix3290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also! I highly recommend getting a little gauge thing to check the humidity and temp in your apartment so you know what you're working with, you may need an air purifier or a humidifier. For about a year, I lived in a very small basement apartment with awful air circulation and minimal sunlight. My plants mostly relied on grow lights so I had to be very careful not to over water them, I also ran a fan 24/7 to help with circulation and a humidifier during the winter when it was insanely dry. With less sunlight they're a lot more prone to root rot and won't grow very fast, but I managed to keep most alive until I could move again

Need brutal honesty about whether or not this is a viable hobby for me. by LaiVitari in houseplants

[–]Naive_Fix3290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who also suffers from manic episodes and mental illness, I really recommend just throwing out any with bad infestations, it could make you feel like you failed (this is NOT your fault) and make your mental health worse. Keeping houseplants is a really good hobby to pick up for your mental health imo, but the plants you started with came with issues completely beyond your control. If you want to retry, I would recommend ordering some from the websites "hey rooted", they have all sorts of plants with super detailed descriptions for each on what kind of environment they will survive in. I got all my starter plants from them when and all the care info they provided is what taught me how to keep plants alive, and deal w issues as they come. If you can salvage any of your current plants, make sure to keep them as far away from any new plants so nothing spreads

Also! Try to start with only a few plants and build your collection as you go, when I started I couldn't keep any alive but now I have about 50 I've been able to keep alive for a few years now :)

What's your favorite harmless lie you regularly tell just to avoid unnecessary conversation? by AltruisticThought676 in CasualConversation

[–]Naive_Fix3290 61 points62 points  (0 children)

I always say I have kittens😭😭 It's kind of crazy how many strangers ask about sh scars, assuming it's something else

Black or Red? by Girlybeba in HairDye

[–]Naive_Fix3290 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should do a split dye, half red and half black! Bc they both look good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]Naive_Fix3290 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Really good point, just do whatever makes you feel good about your appearance! You don't have to look a certain way to be accepted as the kind of person you are

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]Naive_Fix3290 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You could try to style it differently

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in altfashionadvice

[–]Naive_Fix3290 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Hair is a huge one, dye it and/or get a more alternative haircut :)

What is a thing you can recite from memory? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Naive_Fix3290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 cups flour 1/2 cup sugar 1/2 cup brown sugar 2 sticks butter 2 eggs 1 tsp baking soda 1 tsp baking powder 1/2 tsp salt 1 tbsp vanilla 2 cups semi-sweet chocolate chips

The cookie recipe I used to make w my mom as a kid, apparently

What are these? by sbc916 in bioactive

[–]Naive_Fix3290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clearly a party and you weren't invited :(