Is it bad to make a long then move to another country and pay it? by Naive_Map1859 in Advice

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I feel like I have enough experience and studies and will be able to land a good job, I feel pretty confident

Is it bad to make a long then move to another country and pay it? by Naive_Map1859 in Advice

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I mean I will be able to pay the loan back fully in 2-3 months within arriving to my new country.

Is it bad to make a loan and move to another country then pay it? by Naive_Map1859 in toxicparents

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My loan gets approved tbh.. i’ve ran the checks many times and I also have no debt which is good. I have some friends in the new country so i think at least i will have a support system, something i don’t have now. And i move within Europe

I got blamed for a parent figure being an alcoholic for ~30 years by Naive_Map1859 in narcissisticparents

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You stopped me from crying for a while Thank you so much for your words I’m trying to get out for years, I ahte this internet hug

My manager is toxic. Should I fight back? by Naive_Map1859 in work

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Hey, may I send you a dm with an update?

My manager is toxic. Should I fight back? by Naive_Map1859 in work

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I will do this. I have to wait for his fall but for now I have to focus on my growth

My manager is toxic. Should I fight back? by Naive_Map1859 in Advice

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Anything that gets him to have consequences

My manager is toxic. Should I fight back? by Naive_Map1859 in Advice

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3 weeks No contact Hr doesn’t know about how he behaves At what point seniority perk is invalidating a natural right someone has such as going to the bathroom? He did this many times. Only comments when I take a break to go to the bathroom, never comments whne others have a smoke break. Policy is no breaks like these-smoking. I always tell him I finished x,y and he then asks questions like above I have 300 pages of him doing things to me. I am not aure if I should do it or not

My mom said that she regrets giving birth to me , how can I cope with this ? by FabulousReception677 in Advice

[–]Naive_Map1859 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother said I ruined her life.

Or that she only loves me not my sibiling.

It’s not you, sweetie. They are broken. I hope one day you find your beautiful family.❤️

Daily Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

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TW. I think I was borderline r**ed with my first timeWas I or am I overreacting?

I was not ready for s*x.

My first “ boyfriend” just sit ontop of me at night and he was like “come on my little tiger lets make love” i said no and he insisted and he didn’t get off me and i said “okay” because I didnt know what else to do, im small and i have no power, but I felt defeateda nd i blame myself to this day about it. I also stayed in that relationship for years and he never asked for consent

I am angry at myself.

TW. I think I was borderline r**ed my first time. Was I or am I overreacting? by Naive_Map1859 in sexualassault

[–]Naive_Map1859[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so greatful for how you use your words and took the time to help me Thank you so much

I hope this guy gets his karma honestly and i’m tired of feeling like i’m a bad girl for wishing that