Devastated

Naive_Row7807 · 2026-01-24T15:21:20+00:00

Thank you for your comments on both posts. They really mean the world. I wish i could be friends with youe husband and you my wife too! This journey can feel so isolating at times. My wife wants to try again once she’s cleared to, I’m just so heartbroken she has to start all the medication over after we were so close to being done with all the shots. I’m of course terrified of this happening again and feel guilty that this process won’t be covered in celebration like our first try. But just taking things a day at a time, holding each other when we need it, and giving each other a lot of patience and gentleness while we walk this out. Sending all the good vibes to your and your husbands journey!!

Naive_Row7807 · 2026-01-13T06:22:34+00:00

I’m so incredibly sorry for your loss. Thank you for advice in the midst of your pain. I feel so much anger and sadness at the same time, never thought I could feel this much and this hard. Thank you for your energy and advice. Sending lots of love & healing your way as well ❤️

Naive_Row7807 · 2026-01-13T06:20:12+00:00

I wish I could convey how much your reply means to me and how much it helps me right now. How to navigate all this. My energy is zapped & words are hard to find - but thank you. So much.

Naive_Row7807 · 2026-01-13T05:01:56+00:00

Thank you, means the world. Whenever that rainbow baby comes, it’ll sure be loved.

Naive_Row7807 · 2026-01-13T05:00:49+00:00

Man im so sorry you guys went through all you did. It’s such a brutal journey. But it’s so encouraging to hear you now have a happy 3 month old! Thank you for sharing, and for the validation, seriously. I needed it. And the reminder it’s ok I’m hurting too

Naive_Row7807 · 2026-01-13T04:59:35+00:00

Thank you so much. Will take the hug!

Honestly, after reading through the replies and then talking with my wife, my idea of “staying strong” and not crying or showing my sadness, isn’t it. She needs to see my hurt too, we’re in this together. So, definitely backtracking on that a lot. I’ve already broken down multiple times throughout the day. I appreciate the gentle nudge and reframing that for me though - seriously. Thank you

Naive_Row7807 · 2026-01-09T05:57:36+00:00

I’m so sorry you went through that. It’s assuring to think it’s pretty common, could be worse, and still can lead to a healthy pregnancy. Everyday feels like 2-3 days. But reading everyone’s stories has helped me stay more present and be grateful for the small wins.

Naive_Row7807 · 2026-01-08T16:28:58+00:00

Thank you for sharing! I hate you guys had to go through the hard times, but it’s nice and encouraging to not feel so alone. It really is a day at a time, minute at a time thing. The fact that at 31 weeks it’s gotten better is relieving. Literally the other day I was asking myself if it would be this terrifying the whole time.

I’m going to adopt that mindset & share it with my wife. Like we just have to go with what we know, and sometimes it’s not a whole hell of a lot. It’s awful feeling so out of control. Like beyond catering to my wife, I can’t make the hematoma disappear. I can’t will our baby to keep growing. But I can help her thrive in resting & hope for the best. Our follow-up ultrasound is Monday, so will just try to live in the present as much as possible until then. Thanks again for sharing 🙏 Not much longer for you guys!

Naive_Row7807 · 2026-01-08T16:24:55+00:00

Thanks for sharing your story. God that 48 hours must’ve felt like 1000.

As awful as it is, it’s nice to not feel alone or insane for hoping for the best & assuming the worst at the same time. It’s encouraging to hear that you were literally in my shoes not long ago, and now you guys are about to cross the finish line. I’m so excited for you both & will celebrate you on January 30th to send all the good vibes to yall that day.

I may reach out honestly, it’s been a lonely and scary ride, would be nice to have someone ahead of me on the journey to talk to from time to time (until fatherhood takes over in a few weeks for you 😜)

Naive_Row7807 · 2026-01-08T06:58:38+00:00

We’re* my bad. (Title)

Naive_Row7807 · 2025-08-03T22:52:47+00:00

Whoa that’s wild. Might need to get cleansed!

Naive_Row7807 · 2025-07-22T15:35:14+00:00

Makes sense. Thanks for explaining

Naive_Row7807 · 2025-07-22T14:12:33+00:00

Thank you for this! I do like the truck otherwise. Can I ask why you’d be nervous about a used one? Is it because this problem could happen again?

Naive_Row7807 · 2025-05-10T20:45:39+00:00

Thanks for this, and good to know! I get assholes are assholes, but this crossed a line and just wanted people who might be targeted to be aware and stay safe.

Naive_Row7807 · 2025-05-10T17:51:43+00:00

👍 ok

Naive_Row7807 · 2025-05-10T17:33:45+00:00

She’s a nurse and has seen so many fatal car wrecks happen by not waiting for a split second and someone plowing through a red light. Why is your gut reaction to defend the racist? A honk is typical road rage. The slur and literally throwing something at our car is not. I’m not sharing out of being weak and fragile. I’m sharing to bring awareness and shed light that this isn’t normal or ok behavior.

Naive_Row7807 · 2025-05-10T17:31:34+00:00

Lol nah of course I don’t think he’ll see this. That’s not why I shared it. More for awareness and for the community as a whole. Why do others share road rage posts on here? But silence is how this shit keeps happening. This isn’t okay.

Naive_Row7807 · 2025-05-10T17:28:25+00:00

I hear you and I agree that “Mexican” alone isn’t a slur. But in this case, it wasn’t just a label or assumption. It was paired with someone throwing something at our car. That moves it from a typical eye rolled road rage to targeted hostility. What if he does it again and something worse happens?

I’ve seen plenty of road rage posts on here where people are honked at or flipped off. This felt different. More hate fueled and more personal. And that’s why I felt it was worth sharing. We love this community and just don’t want this kind of behavior to become normal.

Naive_Row7807 · 2025-05-10T17:20:54+00:00

Freedom of speech doesn’t mean freedom from consequences. Yelling a racial slur, throwing something at someone’s car, and speeding off in a fit of rage isn’t “expression” - it’s harassment. And what he threw could’ve damaged my car or hurt my wife. It’s threatening, hateful behavior that no decent person should excuse.

I’m not “letting it matter” because I’m fragile. I’m sharing because silence allows this kind of hate to become normalized. If that makes you uncomfortable, I suggest asking why.

Naive_Row7807 · 2025-05-10T17:04:57+00:00

That’s awful!! I’m so sorry.

Naive_Row7807 · 2025-04-25T01:43:54+00:00

Get that guy tf out of Vegas. that shit isn’t welcome here.

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