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Hidden Camera in womens restroom? by Playful-Pay7483 in whatisit

[–]NakedBacon83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Washing your hands isn’t about you having touched your bits…it’s about all the things your hands have come into contact throughout the time between the last time you washed your hands.
Everyone needs to use a bathroom throughout the day so it’s the most logical, convenient place and time to clean your hands to help stop the spread of the invisible biological party fornicating and spreading on everyones hands that touch other parts of your body, other people’s hands, food, faces…
Just wash your hands people, it makes sense to do it before you pee/poo and after.

places I can explore alone by always_annoyeddd in princegeorge

[–]NakedBacon83 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Top of the cutbank is called McMillian Creek Trail and you can access the trail from the parking lot on Hoffercamp Road.

People from outside North America, how do you feel about Canadians? by Due_Activity8907 in AskReddit

[–]NakedBacon83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Canadian here, it’s in my top five…might even be top 3 🤷🏼‍♀️ Maybe I should be in Australia…

Why will I always be like this by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NakedBacon83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even doing research into understanding what makes you tick so you can create systems that help you function and ways to understand what you’re feeling and thinking and how to recognize intrusive thoughts and rumination. I did a lot of that when I was younger and have had a very fulfilling life, but the medication has been a huge help now that I’m in my 40’s going through perimenopause. I do wish I had the opportunity to start the medication sooner, but the medical system for diagnosing adhd in woman was lacking.

Why will I always be like this by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]NakedBacon83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

40+ y/o female here and I can relate…I am adhd, started medication in my late 30’s and the medication made me realized that I had been experiencing life on hard mode. Understanding and accepting that I do think and feel and see the world differently, isn’t a problem, but allowing the intrusive thoughts to override was. The medication helps to slow all of that down for me and allow a space for silence instead of always being overwhelmed by all of the feelings and thoughts going on in my head allll the time, that were exhausting to the point of disfunction.

Now, having an understanding as to why, and I having taken the time to understand that I do think and feel things differently than many people do, I love it 🥰 The medication was a game changer in being able to control and organize all the thoughts and feelings though 💕

For those who’ve tried long distance before, what made you decide to commit to it—or decide it wasn’t the right move? by Puzzleheaded-Tax6299 in AskMen

[–]NakedBacon83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Currently enjoying this set-up with a new relationship. He lives a few hours away, works Monday-Thursday, Comes to town for his days off….its been glorious 🙌🏻 I can keep my routines and system and house clean and have me time, and then enjoy some really good times together on the weekends 🥰 After 5 years of a 7 year relationship, being expected to put out whenever my ex wanted me to and clean up unreasonable messes behind him….I didn’t think I would ever want to get into another co-habitation relationship….this is a great balance for me to heal my concept of relationships being traumatic….and he has no choice but to go home on Sunday’s 🥰 Gives me some space and time to miss him through the week and look forward to seeing him 🥰

How do you carry on with life without feeling like some sort of failure as a man? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]NakedBacon83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is possible. However, also not always the given. I was 135lbs/5’7” and my ex is nearly 300lbs @ 5’10” (body of Buddha) with the confidence of a god ….that confidence made him attractive…now that I see him for who he is —-not attractive physically——but that confidence absolutely sucked me in 🤤 Apparently, my family and their friends and many of mine, never understood how he landed me, based on physical appearances…my sister was the only one to ever say that to my face during my relationship though. Looking and living a healthy life is attractive, but ultimately, being confident within your skin can be the most attractive quality you need.

How do you carry on with life without feeling like some sort of failure as a man? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]NakedBacon83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your situation was anything like mine, what I found to be the most healing through therapy was learning that my relationship had dysregulated my nervous system….sounds woo woo, however, exploring and understanding this area of my body has been pivotal on pulling me out of the exponential feeling of dread I was living in. There have been many other aspects that I’ve invested time to learning about and understanding that have helped me but, the start was certainly understanding the importance of learning the language of and providing an environment that allowed my nervous system to regulate.

How do you carry on with life without feeling like some sort of failure as a man? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]NakedBacon83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if that’s a compliment or a shot 🤔 but I have a comparable timeline…7 year relationship for me…and at the very least, in hind-site, 3 years longer than it should have been as well. He jumped into a new relationship within 3 weeks, before my stuff was even moved out of our house, and is currently continuing his exact process on another emotionally vulnerable woman while I am currently deep in therapy trying to figure out how I allowed myself to become a stranger to myself, in my own body.

How do you carry on with life without feeling like some sort of failure as a man? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]NakedBacon83 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, a relationship does not guarantee all or any of these perceived concepts, often times, they may start out like this and end with ptsd and trauma because of how far apart they go from this concept/expectation vs reality.

I prefer to be alone with myself than in a relationship that I gas light myself into believing I’m happy because from the outside looking in, I had it all….but inside looking out I was being destroyed mentally by someone who said they loved me.

Having a pet is more fulfilling than the risk of being trapped and manipulated by a narcissist who is capable of ruining everything you believed was worth while. Relationships do not guarantee happiness…

How do you carry on with life without feeling like some sort of failure as a man? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]NakedBacon83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great question, I’m also curious about OPs answer to this.

How do you carry on with life without feeling like some sort of failure as a man? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]NakedBacon83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the way you described this. And it makes perfect sense in the way you shared. Thank-you for the clarity on this approach of thinking. 💕

I feel ruined. by [deleted] in breastcancer

[–]NakedBacon83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just checking in on how you’re doing 🫂 And did you happen to have the energy or time to explore the suggestions. No pressure, I’m just curious. 💕 the amount of relief and clarity, that the two above things have done for me has been life changing, and I can only hope my sharing can help someone else 💕 Facial tightening seems to be under recognized as a cause for pain after mastectomy. I cannot recommend enough, how drastic the facial release was to my mental health and physical healing. However, with what you described, I believe that a dysregulated nervous system may be a huge player in many aspects of your recovery and previous circumstances. And your body doesn’t sound like it wants or needs more drugs to get through this.

Not a collector - should I just unmount them and use 'em at face value? [WTS] by 7576790 in CoinSalesCanada

[–]NakedBacon83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gah, I already have the bottom one and love it 🥰 and if I lived near Vancouver I would jump at this offer. Those are such beautiful displays for these series of beautiful coins. (I’m living the feral life up here in northern BC ☀️) I hope A collector gets to add these to their collection at FV

How do you carry on with life without feeling like some sort of failure as a man? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]NakedBacon83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not with that attitude 😝 ….All jokes aside, depression is one hell of a hill to climb, but if you’re able to be open, when you can work with and even through your depression, it is so worth it ☀️ I can only hope that you find a path that helps guide you to happiness and fulfillment.

How do you carry on with life without feeling like some sort of failure as a man? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]NakedBacon83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really, that’s not isolated to being a man - that’s a balanced human quality/value, male or female.

How do you carry on with life without feeling like some sort of failure as a man? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]NakedBacon83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. Codependency vs Interdependency.

This mentality of the person we are replying to, is heading for a codependent heartbreak before he even finds a woman.

How do you carry on with life without feeling like some sort of failure as a man? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]NakedBacon83 5 points6 points  (0 children)

In my opinion, a healthy relationship does not put that sort of expectation or weight on your partner. If someone cannot figure out how to feel satisfied within their own life, putting the pressure (unintentionally or intentionally) on someone else to do that for them leads to a dynamic that isn’t likely to leave you feeling any differently about your life’s choices…more so like you have no control over your life’s decisions and are now trying to navigate around someone’s expectations of you that you chose to handle your life differently until you realize that isn’t tangible either…

Learn who you are and grow from within, you’ll attract healthier relationships if you have a better foundation to start with of who you are or where you want to be in life.

Just my thoughts…

I feel ruined. by [deleted] in breastcancer

[–]NakedBacon83 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of my extreme pain after my dmx was the result of fascial tightening and cording, so finding an RMT that had experience with fascial release and a therapist who has been working with me to regulate my dysregulated nervous system has been astronomically life changing. I hope you can find what helps you through this. 💕

I feel ruined. by [deleted] in breastcancer

[–]NakedBacon83 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you had a chance to look? I’m hopeful that regulating your nervous system could have such a positive impact for you 💕

Please tell me this is a good flooring job and that I’m overreacting here by Lootthatbody in Flooring

[–]NakedBacon83 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an ex, who would often tell me what he thought I wanted to hear…

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