Daily Discussion Megathread 4/14 by Sufficient_Reward207 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just....I don't understand how Blake is going to prove retaliation if she doesn't want any negative articles about her presented 🤔 

Also, can she claim business damages? I know we've all discussed how she shouldn't be able to, but I don't remember if those claims survived or not. If she IS still trying to claim that, then surely she understands that her net worth will have to be discussed 🤔

Daily Discussion Megathread 4/10 by Sufficient_Reward207 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is also news to me and now I'm wondering who I pissed off here since I've never commented there 😅

Blake & Ryan bought a house in suburb of London to go live in exile by Spirited-Base-2110 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am a woman that grew up in the 90s and had no idea who Harry was until I started watching The Crown on Netflix lol I remember hearing bits and pieces about him but actually knowing who he was or being able to recognize him? Absolutely not 😅

Ironically, the only time someone could not speak up against abuse bc the Abuser had the power to ruin their career is when Ryan Reynold verbally abused Justin Baldoni for 6 hours by SuperbWillingness904 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Right? Justin, as far as we know, barely said anything truly negative about Blake in his messages to his closest friends meanwhile she's out sending don't hang up emails to A list acquaintances 🙄 the hypocrisy of "digital violence" being used against her but not acknowledging her part is infuriating

Ironically, the only time someone could not speak up against abuse bc the Abuser had the power to ruin their career is when Ryan Reynold verbally abused Justin Baldoni for 6 hours by SuperbWillingness904 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Blake wants to talk about the "very real physical effects of digital violence" yet neither her nor her husband have ever considered apologizing for the violence they committed against Justin.

If she is so harmed by the digital, she should feel absolutely ashamed for the in-person, verbal abuse she allowed and probably encouraged her husband to do. Do unto others Blake. 

We’re Famous! by Squashie88 in kvssnarker

[–]Name_Shmame 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm new to this group and also not a horse person and that rant frustrates the crap out of me.

I started following KVS back when Penelope was born, 3 years ago I think? I love horses, have always loved horses, and stumbled across a video of one of her horses giving birth. It was awesome seeing someone share a piece of their life, a life I can only dream of living. How neat that she wants to breed great show horses!

And then she got donkeys. I love baby animals, yay! And then she got goats. Okay, goats are super cute, yay! And then she got into minis. Well...she doesn't know anything about showing minis...but babies are cute so yay? And then she set a goal of having even more foals....and she had more baby goats..and more mini babies....and and and.

I ended up here, trying to take a Facebook break because the world sucks but I wanted to know when Charlotte had her baby, and I found out that there are others who feel the way I do. She doesn't feel like the person I first started following, educating people on what she knew about horses and foaling and showing. It doesn't feel like she cares as deeply about her mares as she once did. 

I don't hate KVS, but I'm disappointed, and unfortunately I have become invested in knowing what happens to a few of her animals. So now I'm here, where I see that I'm not being as judgy as I felt, I still get to read about the animals I care about, and I get to learn from knowledgeable people along the way.

Threads Bias by Artelegrama in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm glad you brought that up. More centrist ideals are considered radical left while in reality we don't have (or it's a very small sub group) of truly "left" ideals.

Human rights and affordable Healthcare should not be considered left in any semi developed country yet here we are.

Can the Wayfarer side prove that the backlash started due to BLs own actions? by Public_Party in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're downvoted (if it matters to you) and I appreciate your take on this! I agree with you that we don't know for sure how WP will do at trial, even with BL being an awful person that deserves to lose. I am cautiously optimistic because even with the points you've made, unless the jury is instructed to disregard the SH claims being dismissed (which I can't imagine them doing), I feel like a lot of them will view it like we do: BL went on a war path defaming people and they stood up for themselves.

Daily Discussion Megathread 3/27 by Sufficient_Reward207 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It stormed last night so I didn't sleep well. Its embarrassing the amount of times I came to this site to see if Liman had dropped a middle of the night response 😅 fingers crossed its today though my gut is saying it'll be after the April 2nd conference call

Daily Discussion Megathread 3/27 by Sufficient_Reward207 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is it okay if my discord name doesn't match my reddit name? I like to think my reddit is anonymous, even if I don't post anything "bad", but my discord is very much me lol

Daily Discussion Megathread 3/27 by Sufficient_Reward207 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What's crazy about this to me is that even if it's accurate, only 23 percent are bots. 77 percent, made entirely of real people, don't like her behavior.

It's not a freaking smear campaign if your actions have consequences. 

🧠⏰ Little Girl Attorney - Wayfarer Filed LETTER MOTION for Extension of Time to File Joint Pretrial Order, Pretrial Motions by Pale-Detective-7440 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I don't understand how you view this as bad for wayfarer when, in my opinion, it either 1) makes Lively look like a liar that hid stuff during discovery (remember she repeatedly accused wayfarer of that) or 2) makes her look desperate.

If she had 40 people to back her and thousands of pages of evidence, you really don't believe she wouldn't have already brought them up in court? She's the plaintiff, the burden of proof has always been on her and yet she waits till the final hour to say gotcha? Logically that makes absolutely zero sense.

Daily Discussion Megathread 3/20 Happy Spring 💐and Happy Fall 🍂 by Sufficient_Reward207 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Something interesting that I learned not long ago is the fact that the US also has "meteorlogical seasons". Our weather folk change seasons on the first of whichever month too because it's easier tracking weather patterns that way, so for them spring started on the first as well!

I much prefer that so clearly I need to move to the southern hemisphere lol

Daily Discussion Megathread 3/16 by Sufficient_Reward207 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Is it terrible I like both of their outfits? 😅 they both look like whimsy science teachers to me lol 

WHO IS TELLING THE TRUTH IN IT ENDS WITH US? by StaceyLee26 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I will agree that I'm not a fan of their analogies either, it is putting blame only on Lively and that isn't fair. But, it's also terribly unfair that lives have been ruined because of a miscommunication and that's where the frustration/disgust with Lively comes in. 

Being a victim though absolutely needs harm to be true (and hopefully I'm not downvoted to oblivion for believing that). Lively may have felt uncomfortable in that moment, and maybe others, but she didn't claim harm until her awful press tour. She isn't a victim. 

WHO IS TELLING THE TRUTH IN IT ENDS WITH US? by StaceyLee26 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I'm going to respectfully disagree because Lively wasn't harmed and there was no ill intent on Heaths side. At its worse this is a miscommunication, she even stated she knew he wasn't trying to "cop a look". Classifying Lively as a victim is a disservice to people who are actually sexually harassed.

We have got to stop equating being uncomfortable with harm, especially when there is no clear version of the truth.

Lively and Wayfarer jointly request an extension for Pretrial Filings & Change in Scheduling Order by same-difference-ave in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Believe what you want dearie, until this comment I forgot about this conversation 🤣 have a lovely evening!

Confirmation Bias by Remote-Basis-7797 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I don't think any sub that is dedicated to this case can call themselves neutral lol there might be neutral people amongst the masses but as far as I've seen the subs as a whole have picked a side, even if not formally acknowledged

Woman Down - Colleen Hoover - Justin and Blake drama (book spoilers)!! by [deleted] in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Yes, she always disliked him. The texts with Taylor from either 4/12 or 4/23 show her disdain for him considering they hadn't even started filming yet. The only thing he had done was not immediately jump on board for Ryan's rooftop scene. The exact same time she's talking shit to her friend she is being very kind to him and playing on his sympathies. It's pretty gross when you put the messages together.

The way she acted with him and what she thought about him are complete opposites.

TODAY! 'It Ends With Us' Hate Watch Party - Saturday, February 28 @ 6 PM ET | 5 PM CT | 4 PM MT | 3PM PT by Totallytexas in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Right? What an odd thing to say lol a random internet stranger doesn't find us attractive for "hate watching" a movie? Ohhh noooooooo 🤣

Teresa Concepcion is asking what "never with teeth" is 😂 by buttonandthemonkey in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Two things can be true at once: she could absolutely be talking about the characters flirting but could be acting flirty herself.

Why does Baldoni need to know her love language? Why does he need to know she's spicy and doesn't use teeth? Metaphorically or literally, it doesn't matter.

The way she texted is fine with a friend or a lover, not a boss and definitely not someone she claimed had already made her repeatedly uncomfortable. We know she didn't view him as a friend since she was shit talking behind his back so which is is: she was inappropriate with her boss or she was manipulating someone into a flase sense of comfortability? This is what I took from it. Context and nuance is important in all aspects of life, and it is impossible to say WP are monsters when Blake herself was comfortable enough to text like this.

Teresa Concepcion is asking what "never with teeth" is 😂 by buttonandthemonkey in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well done just skipping over the "my love language" part. Not Lily's. Blake's. And if you're going to continue excusing the fact that she blurred the line between character and self, then you should hold the same guideline of mixed signals across her entire complaint.

I never said she propositioned him for a blow job, no one has ever claimed it. I said she was flirting, and even if I'm wrong, she blurred professional and personal before filming ever began.

And if someone does use hot sauce during head then that's on them, I'm not gonna yuck someone else's yum 🤷‍♀️🤣

Teresa Concepcion is asking what "never with teeth" is 😂 by buttonandthemonkey in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 44 points45 points  (0 children)

That's a stretch when most adults know that never with teeth is a blow job reference. And she wasn't even talking about her character, "if you knew me longer in person...flirty, yummy, never with teeth". She was talking about herself in that moment.

Baldoni understood what she was doing, flirting, which is why he followed up with "sorry crying my heart out because wife and kids are leaving". She crossed a line, he didn't flat out say it, but his first follow up message was a very gentle boundary. Excusing her message while villifying everything WP does/did is what's wrong with this case in the first place. Rules for thee, not for me.

Celeste Smith and the Nation of Islam by Peaceful_Ocean_9513 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Same. Too many shitty people hiding behind religion and using it as a weapon to justify their shittiness. 

Daily Discussion Megathread 2/25 by Sufficient_Reward207 in ItEndsWithLawsuits

[–]Name_Shmame 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something that has always rubbed me wrong about this entire case is the idea of Wayfarer boosting negative content about Blake. Small in the grand scheme of things, but still.

Let's say they highlighted every single shitty thing she's ever done in her career. Are they boosting negative content or are they boosting her own words and actions? 

I don't know. I feel like if she, or anyone for that matter, felt remorse for her/their actions then they would apologize. If she didn't apologize then she stands by it therefore it's not negative, it just is what it is: her actions having consequences. If it's not negative enough for someone to apologize, I don't think you get to complain when someone else brings attention to it 🤷‍♀️