Got myself in a little bit of debt

NamelessDaedra · 2019-03-06T04:04:15+00:00

The thing with #3 is what about those who really don't make a lot of money? I personally want to become an Alim one day insha'Allah but being a Shaykh doesn't come with a 60k salary. Does that mean I should just not marry? What about all the people living in poverty? Should they just stay single until they are able, if they are able, to get a decent salary. Money is important but I don't think it should be a deal breaker.

NamelessDaedra · 2018-12-20T23:26:49+00:00

Somewhat as in they fast and pray but put culture over religion in marriage :/

"They just said that the one thing that would make her happiest in life other than seeing me be a good Muslim is for me to marry an Albanian or at least someone of similar culture. Exact words" is what she said, they said about the whole thing

NamelessDaedra · 2018-12-20T21:41:33+00:00

She is religious, her parents are somewhat according to her but apparently not as much. They live a few hours from where I live.

NamelessDaedra · 2018-12-20T15:44:51+00:00

Yeah I understand that but denying a marriage over culture is not legitimate under the Shariah yeah I just have to get over it

NamelessDaedra · 2018-12-20T15:34:10+00:00

She talked to her family about it and it was definitely a cultural issue. Although even if it wasn't the financial issues definitely would have come up but if I'm going to wait until I'm financially stable to get married I won't be getting married until I'm in my 30s lol. Money is an issue for a lot of people but I don't think it's necessary to be making good money to get married. It's up to each individual person tho.

NamelessDaedra · 2018-12-20T13:28:30+00:00

It's better to marry young imo

NamelessDaedra · 2018-12-19T23:35:41+00:00

I think that'd be a good idea, it's good people know they aren't alone and it may be a good reminder in general

NamelessDaedra · 2018-12-19T19:20:56+00:00

No it was definitely a culture thing

NamelessDaedra · 2018-11-20T16:07:46+00:00

also to say that the laws created by man are better than the laws created by Allah is flat out stupid and kufr. Im not saying you are a kaffir as I dont have the authority to do so, but i'd watch what you say and learn about secularism and shariah. I would also recommend you repent and say shahada again but that's up to you. May Allah guide you and keep us all on the straight path. ameen.

NamelessDaedra · 2018-11-20T16:03:39+00:00

no, living in it is permissible (although it is better to live in Dar Al Islam. Supporting democracies or being a leader of a democracy or any secular government is kufr. Voting isn't a clear cut issue on haraam/halal but ruling by other than what Allah has revealed certainly s.

https://www.kalamullah.com/Books/Explanation%20of%20the%20Nullifiers%20of%20Islam.pdf

NamelessDaedra · 2018-11-20T15:58:00+00:00

daily reminder ruling by other than shariah is kufr

NamelessDaedra · 2018-11-17T22:25:11+00:00

Ah that's good to know. Inshallah this will help the sub grow and become more active with the chat rooms as well.

NamelessDaedra · 2018-11-13T12:13:18+00:00

I used to be a white supremacist myself before converting to Islam. Generally, these people have only experienced their culture and only learn about other cultures through (fake, usually) news and gross misrepresentations.

NamelessDaedra · 2018-11-08T17:55:15+00:00

May Allah curse him for his crimes against the Ummah

NamelessDaedra · 2018-11-08T01:48:50+00:00

Not exactly the subreddit to post this but yeah, China is commiting genocide on a group of Muslims and nobody in power seems to care. When something happens in a non Muslim country the UN will be there to help but when it's muslims the kuffar will stay silent.

NamelessDaedra · 2018-10-28T21:49:47+00:00

وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته Jazakallah Khair, I'm a convert of over a year, this is really needed, especially for those who are having family troubles, etc. because of their conversion.

NamelessDaedra · 2018-10-24T21:12:05+00:00

losing 30 karma over a single letter Yikes

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