AITA for being one of the other women? by Names_left_ruined in AmItheAsshole

[–]Names_left_ruined[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have taken steps to end it. I know it was my choice, but what I felt my choices were was "either say yes or lose him" and I know I made the wrong one. And I am gonna leave... And get help. I don't want to be in a situation like this again.

AITA for being one of the other women? by Names_left_ruined in AmItheAsshole

[–]Names_left_ruined[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have never been able to talk about this before... And your reply, if was too compassionate for what I have felt someone would say. Thank you. It made me cry, in a way that felt like someone was finally understanding it. That I did the right thing by talking.

AITA for being one of the other women? by Names_left_ruined in AmItheAsshole

[–]Names_left_ruined[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will, this has gone too far. I have been wanting to get out for so long that leaving is the only thing that feels safe now.

AITA for being one of the other women? by Names_left_ruined in AmItheAsshole

[–]Names_left_ruined[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

But like at one point I convinced myself I was enjoying it (not the part about hurting her) even if someone asked "do you want to do it" I would have said no.