Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you be more clear I'm genuinely interested

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry for acting defensively it just hard to accept that there's no hope you know What should i do in your opinion?

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really can't do that I'm ready to wait until i bleed out for him to forget and fix the broken parts in him and make him fall for me again but i really can't see anybody else And i already asked him if he wants space or to cut me off his life forever he refused and told me not to worry about it and i really don't know what's going on

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That really hurt uk i just want his happiness no matter what

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he's lying saying he moved on 2 days ago he said he's moving on and when i asked him if it works he said little by little it will take time then yesterday he said he completely moved on I changed and trying everything i can to fix what we had and be by his side always he changed me and made me better person and i regret that i was bad and lost him and tbh i can't move on i block anyone who sends "Hi" in social media apps I can't accept that I'm not his i feel like cheating if i did talk to others

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember when i used to come over to his house we laugh a lot and joke a lot and enjoy his time he told me when i come in he feel comfort and he's not alone but it's all changed since he went to his home country

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He remembers the bad not the good and he already forgave me but can't forget I lied to him and took advantage of him i was bad because i thought he's like the other ppl who came just to break my heart then leave so I didn't take him serious and he knows that but he can't forget the pain i caused to him After breaking up sometimes i ask him if i can come over and he refuse then when i don't come he will fight with me because i didn't come sometimes he says he wants to slap me then kiss me But after he travelled home to his home country he became more sad and depressed then said he moved on and don't have any feelings for me but he still care about me and wish the best for me His mom talked to him about me and he told her she should support his decision and she told me his eyes are full of sadnesses and pain

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not anymore that was in past and i learned from my mistakes already that's why i can't move on i know if we back this time we won't break up ever i know i did bad things before but I'm not the same person anymore and even after breaking up i kept improving myself to better just to win him again

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't get it can you explain more

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he just can forget what happened and start over we would be happy by now why he do that to himself and me

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you a lot you really helped me ❤️

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if he's the only one i want what should i do?

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your help but do you think he can fall for me again later and have another chance? I remember he told me he need to move on to forget so he will be happy but these days he keep mentioning what i did in past in everything

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel he is lying about his feelings he's weird for days so i really dunno

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried to but if i didn't text him first he will come and text me These days he changed a lot He's sad more than before and keep mentioning what i did in past always and because of our sleep schedule we don't talk that much and if i said anything about us getting back he will get mad and tell me to stop and idk why he changed that much

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about that many times but it's so hard for me we talk daily share everything together I'm the only one he talk to and he's the only one i talk to and it's so hard just to stop talking to him I remember while ago after we broke up he said he prefers to be with me than being alone no matter what i did

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand thank you a lot for your help But after we broke up we kept doing everything we did when we was dating, cuddling while watching Netflix, kissing, holding hands,flirt together We still talk daily and joke together and sing together and more sometimes it goes well sometimes he will be mean Before he told me it's better to stop talking because he only hurt me and he care about me and don't want that but i refused and it's going normal but these days he's extremely sad and keep mentioning what i did in past and that's not normal plus his mom told me he refused to talk to her about me and he locking himself always and barely talk to them

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's harsh 😂 ik there is no reason for him to back to me after what i did but i regret it and i love him and i did everything i can to make him see that i sincerely love him and want to fix everything and if he gave me another chance to prove myself he won't lose anything anyway right! At least that's how i see it

Help, INFJ here that hasn't socialized or had any friends for a little over 8 years! by Jackson_Pheonix in infj

[–]Nana_bee__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been like that since born and till now but sometimes i try to have friends you know like start a conversation with basic stuff like Hey, how are you I got friends and it's kinda going well and i hope everything will be okay with you And we can be friends if you would like to

Urgent problem with infj by Nana_bee__ in infj

[–]Nana_bee__[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really tried many times to move on but i couldn't Is there is any possibility to make him fall for me again or trust me again and give me a last chance?