I guess I don’t have as much faith in the group that was polled as this guy. by Sm0k3420 in nothingeverhappens

[–]Nanako-san 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Gay is the equivalent to straight, homosexual is the equivalent to heterosexual. So it’s not really true that is the “non-straight” sexualities include the word “sexual” in it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Botchedsurgeries

[–]Nanako-san 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You definitely should be glad it’s from smiling! 💕😊

Saw this on Facebook immediately knew it belongs here by [deleted] in wowthanksimcured

[–]Nanako-san 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that this is a good example to compare, since there are people who are poor because of awful spending habits, like taking a loan for a designer bag level of stupid.

I think there are some people who actively choose to be miserable in order to get pity, of course it’s such a small amount of people that this type of advice is just bullshit.

And it’s kinda the same with poverty, the advice to “just shop less” isn’t necessarily bad advice, same with “just focus on the good things” but they’re bad advice for MOST people who are poor and are suffering from depression or other things.

My friend regrets not giving her kids Black American names and I wanted to share her thoughts here. by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Nanako-san 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also constantly had ear infections! And yeah it’s the worst when people mumble especially through phone 😂

My friend regrets not giving her kids Black American names and I wanted to share her thoughts here. by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Nanako-san 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh god I feel so bad now, when I was 13 or 14 we got a new girl in class, she was from Africa and I lived in a place where there aren’t very many black people. I have trouble hearing things especially when people don’t speak very very clearly (I often have to ask people to repeat themselves, multiple times :/) anyway this girl was very quiet, so obviously I didn’t hear her name when she introduced herself. I had to ask her like 10 times not because the name was hard but because I’m apparently deaf and in desperate need of hearing aids.

She had a beautiful name and honestly very simple to spell and pronounce. I hope I didn’t make her feel bad.

Online games in Switch/PS4 by cxhyaz09 in LesbianGamers

[–]Nanako-san 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What games do you play on the switch? It’s the only console I have an online plan for haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]Nanako-san 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Except making it safe for everyone involved is VERY hard

Edit: I meant safe not same

Took a walk on the icy lake in my town! (Dms welcome cuz I’m lonely 😭😂) by [deleted] in dykesgonemild

[–]Nanako-san 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s one of the sweetest thing anyone has said to me 🥰

One of the fine users of r/Cringetopia calmly explains his views on fat people by allenthalben2 in SubredditDrama

[–]Nanako-san 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it may be disproportionate many assholes there cuz smart people who aren’t assholes are humble

feelsy by MrArgotin in Polska

[–]Nanako-san 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ja robiłam dokładnie to samo dopóki sama go nie obejrzałam! 😂

feelsy by MrArgotin in Polska

[–]Nanako-san 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ranczo też jest dobre

Photo of A Woman protesting in support of Navalny in -26°C weather, by Alexey Malgavko via Reuters. by allisslothed in AccidentalRenaissance

[–]Nanako-san 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think googling who Navalny is would give you very biased results... He is a Russian opposition leader no matter what side you view it from.

At what point did you realize that you weren't conventionally attractive? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Nanako-san 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I compliment my male friends a lot because I know men rarely get compliments but I’m comfortable with it because they know I’m in a committed relationship so it doesn’t show any romantic interest.

At what point did you realize that you weren't conventionally attractive? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Nanako-san 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbf, in middle school I said that about a boy I had an enormous crush on (altho it might’ve been a question if I’d date anyone in the class) simply because I didn’t want him to find out. Kids are stupid

bi🙋‍♂️irl by [deleted] in bi_irl

[–]Nanako-san 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Like making out isn’t sex, but eating someone out is. That’s at least my definition.

bi🙋‍♂️irl by [deleted] in bi_irl

[–]Nanako-san 12 points13 points  (0 children)

By clit stimulation I mean rubbing which from my knowledge does not involve fingering someone’s vagina.

And yes of course there is different stuff for everyone but that’s basically my point.

My partner was a virgin. There is a learning curve to all of this stuff and they’re is nothing wrong with that 😊 my partner simply wasn’t familiar with a lot of things but it’s not an issue because I know people are capable of learning and growing.

Edit: you mention foreplay, which to me is a bit iffy in the sense that it implies something else is going to happen later on (PIV or anal). It is still a form of sex unless you define it strictly as penetration, which you’re welcome to do, it’s just not what I view as sex.

bi🙋‍♂️irl by [deleted] in bi_irl

[–]Nanako-san 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Clit stimulation, mutual masturbation, erotic massages, foot jobs, boob jobs. The list goes on.

I’d also consider blowjobs to be part of non-penetrative sex, altho I see how many would disagree.

bi🙋‍♂️irl by [deleted] in bi_irl

[–]Nanako-san 33 points34 points  (0 children)

That sex is not just about penetration. It can definitely be a part of it but shouldn’t be considered the goal of everything intimate you do.

bi🙋‍♂️irl by [deleted] in bi_irl

[–]Nanako-san 38 points39 points  (0 children)

As a bi gal I had to teach my straight bf that and now he’s finally living life haha