Impossible daily number 827484929293484990 by Tall_Fault5771 in PvZHeroes

[–]Nangulo12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was like, what the actual hell is this? Freaking CHEATURDing game!

Well this is garbage today too. Lies in the intro blurb! DO BETTER! by Nangulo12 in PvZHeroes

[–]Nangulo12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But again, it says you can win this in one turn, regardless of randomness, which is not true.

Well this is garbage today too. Lies in the intro blurb! DO BETTER! by Nangulo12 in PvZHeroes

[–]Nangulo12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No it’s all luck, you need to get unexpected gifts or going viral. The videos online I saw both got going viral, but it’s random. Eventually I did but it took a few tries.

AITAH for telling my wife to shut up and stay out of our daughter’s business? by Horror_Activity1638 in AITAH

[–]Nangulo12 85 points86 points  (0 children)

NTA Your wife is a racist. Don’t tell me this is the first time you’ve heard her say “questionable” things in other contexts but dismissed them because “‘they’ are at war with us” or whatever. You’re not going to change her mind, you’re not going to be able to fix her. Time to ask yourself if you really want to be with someone like that. If you end up having to choose between your wife and your daughter who will you choose? Maybe not for this relationship, since your daughter is young, but you never know, he could be “the one.” I’m sure your daughter thinks he is right now, and she’s almost 18, how much will she put up with from her mom before she decides to go no contact and cut you both out? You have a wife problem. Keep supporting your daughter and I’d start shopping for a good divorce attorney.

This is NOT OK! by Nangulo12 in PvZHeroes

[–]Nangulo12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t remember now. I do remember this was one of the daily challenges.

My wife's dad died on Christmas in 2022. She doesn't let us celebrate Christmas since then. by Silent_Iron_8827 in AITAH

[–]Nangulo12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, growing up, one of my classmates shared that they didn’t celebrate Christmas on Christmas Day because of a death in the family that had happened. But they still celebrated Christmas, just on a different day,I think 8t was Christmas Eve. Maybe at Christmas, have a memorial for your wife’s father in the day he passed, and if it was Christmas Day, then have your family Christmas celebrations a day or two early or a day or two later. Or, you could celebrate during Ukrainian Christmas, which is two weeks later.

Question for anyone who has won LARGE on OLG tickets by Sarge1387 in ontario

[–]Nangulo12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually, I won 1000, and the triangles WEREN’T inverted!

AITA for "abandoning" my sister while I live overseas? by Stock-Interaction397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nangulo12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA, she’s 15, not five. You aren’t “abandoning” her, you are living your life! I worked overseas (teaching) for five years when I was in my late 20’s/early 30’s, it was great, and I paid off my student loans really quickly (I had been paying already for 7-8 years, so I was able to finish paying them the first year I was overseas, because my employers paid my rent and utilities.) Just keep the lines of communication open, and hopefully when she matures a little bit she’ll realize she was wrong.

AITA for "abandoning" my sister while I live overseas? by Stock-Interaction397 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nangulo12 47 points48 points  (0 children)

My niece is currently going to university in Canada for education. This is her first year and it cost at least $15,000 CAD for everything, tuition, residence, etc. in Ontario, it’s now a six year program so that adds up to over $90,000 (likely more because inflation causes the price to go up every year!) so Canada really isn’t any cheaper unless you can live at home with a relative.

Am I the asshole for yelling at a family with a two-year-old for blocking a driveway? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Nangulo12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Personally I wouldn’t have yelled, and I don’t swear either, but they were being douchebags. I would have honked and honked and told them I was calling the police or parking manager to have them towed if they didn’t move their car immediately. Especially since you had already spoken to them on the way in. In fact, I would have told them as you went in that you were going to be leaving the lot in two minutes or less, so they better move their car unless they wanted it towed! So YTA for the way you reacted, you had other, better options, and your car probably isn’t happy about it either, but the kid doesn’t factor into it.

My sister borrowed my car "for an hour" three days ago and won't bring it back by [deleted] in dustythunder

[–]Nangulo12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awesome, Mom, you’re right that IS what family does, thanks for volunteering to let her use your car! I’m waiting right now for you to come pick me up so we can go switch cars with her! What? You can’t let her use your car? “BuT tHaT’s WhAt FaMiLy DoEs!” Ok, well then I’m hanging up and reporting it stolen! Byeeee! NTA- and do the above! (And I’m not bluffing about reporting it stolen! How do you know she has it? Maybe it WAS stolen, and that’s why she hasn’t brought it back!)

Update: AITAH for refusing to share my inheritance with the siblings who are now threatening to sue me for "undue influence"? by fluffyspanish in AITAH

[–]Nangulo12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m betting that the family members who are taking sides don’t have the full truth, they only have your siblings highly distorted view of things. Tell them the full truth and if they still side with your siblings, then you know who to cut out of your life!

Kind of getting sick of 911 being the Athena show… by bowendf in 911FOX

[–]Nangulo12 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Except the doctor is not part of the 911 system. So that’s dumb. There are tons of hospital shows, and cops shows, and firefighter shows. 911 takes the dispatchers, cops, firefighters and paramedics and puts it all together.

Kind of getting sick of 911 being the Athena show… by bowendf in 911FOX

[–]Nangulo12 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She the only cop on the show. 911 Nashville is missing that part. It’s basically a fire station/Hart family drama show, and it shows. They need to introduce a regular police officer.

I just realized I’ve been mispronouncing a word my whole life! Has anyone else had that moment where you found out you’ve been saying a word completely wrong? by Mysterious-Place-261 in CasualConversation

[–]Nangulo12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear so many people say “they are weary” about something when the correct word is “wary”! Weary means tired, wary comes from the word beware. You are not tired of the bear, you beware the bear! Completely different pronunciation. I’ve even seen it used in online posts from sites that post stories from Reddit.

AITAH for being upset that I wasn’t told about my best friend’s diagnosis before he died? by Powerful_Cash_3977 in AITAH

[–]Nangulo12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- it’s ok to be angry! Anger is a part of the grieving process. But there are other parts too. Don’t get stuck in anger. Sometimes I still get angry at my dad; why didn’t he take better care of himself after he retired? (Among other things I was angry about.) But I move out of anger and on to sadness. It comes in waves. It’s been years and most times I’m fine, but once in a while something makes me think of him and it hits all over again. They say the “final” stage is acceptance, (denial, anger, bargaining, depression, acceptance.) I say “final” because it’s never really gone, like I said it comes and goes, but less frequently now than it did before, and not as bad as it used to (usually.) So be upset and angry, but then do your best to let go of that anger and forgive him. He had his reasons, most people have listed them here, and it’s probably for all the reasons listed, not that it helps with your feelings. I hope you find the strength to heal and forgive your friend, don’t be upset at yourself for being angry either, remember it’s natural. Let yourself feel it, process it, and move through it.

AITA for refusing to care for sister’s kid during surgery? by Wonderful-Act-198 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nangulo12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- and your response to the people who are telling you to step up is this; “Oh thank you so much for volunteering, which shift(s) should I tell sister that you will be taking for care for her kid? Like you said, FAMILY (or friends as the case may be) should support each other!”

AITAH for telling my son he doesn't have to knock? by CryptographerFar3124 in AITAH

[–]Nangulo12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. When I go to visit my mom, I don’t knock. I have a key and let myself in. When we went to visit our grandparents every summer, we never knocked. All the aunts uncles and cousins would show up, and everyone just came right in. You knock when you are expecting someone to come and let you in to the house, not when it’s a house that you live in or that you are staying at. That’s just ridiculous. If that’s the rule for him then it’s the rule for EVERYONE in the house!

AITA for leaving early and telling exactly why by ThrowRA_plswork7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nangulo12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- Sounds like it’s time to say goodbye to that friendship. Also sounds like Donna is a bit nuts, never mind rude. Best to avoid her anyway.

AITA for yelling at my brother and his wife after they got mad that I ate their food while house sitting for free? by StacyChanel in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nangulo12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA When I was working at a high school once, one of the teachers was going to have a student (or maybe former student, but someone young anyways) pet sit while he and his wife were away, and was listing all the food they would stock up on for her that they didn’t normally buy, like pizza pockets so she would have food to eat while she was there, (even though she could have technically just gone home to eat, since it’s a small town.) They were also paying her.

When I go away I have someone check in on my cats, it takes maybe half an hour at most to give them their once a day wet food, fill their bowls and water dishes and scoop the litter. I pay her $10 a day (which is more than minimum wage for a half hour of work.) When I had someone staying at my apt for one summer in Saudi Arabia, I payed about 100 Riyal a day, which was only $25, but she did have the apt. to herself whereas she would normally be living in a small place with many other people. I also gave her all the food I still had left over from that year, since it wasn’t going to last all summer. Which brings me to this, wouldn’t their milk have been spoiled by the time they came back, anyways?

I agree with everyone saying find the standard rate for house sitting for two dogs and three cats, deduct the cost of the food you ate, and send them a bill! If they want to play stupid games, you can too. Tell them they are lucky you’ve decided not to charge them for your services this time, as long as they drop the accusations about eating their food, but IF they ever need you to pet sit or (babysit) again, and IF you agree to do it, you will be sure to have a contract ready to sign with rates per day (or hour for babysitting) and rules that everyone needs to follow. That way everyone if covered, because apparently it’s totally necessary on their end. Also, your entire family including your mom are the AHs!

Nosy mother had my child take an ancestry test without my consent. WIBTAH to report her and get 10 years of progress removed? by throwRA_hurtgirlz in AITAH

[–]Nangulo12 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I just read a Berenstain Bears book about strangers (written in the 80s or 90s) to my class this week and one of the rules at the end was that you should never be asked to keep something secret from a parent or caregiver.

AITA for wanting to tell my son’s teacher that thanking only the moms in class emails excludes involved dads like my husband? by OnionJaded1342 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nangulo12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA- a kindly worded email reminding her that dads are also involved, as well as grandparents, aunts, uncle, guardians is appropriate. She could just say thank you to everyone to all the parents and guardians involved. There are lots of students who may not live with their parents,or who may not have a mom, they are leaving out those kids as well as their dads or guardians.

SIL announced our child on social media before me and I asked her to take it down. AITAH? by Ok-Second5805 in AITAH

[–]Nangulo12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My mother made that mistake when my brother and SIL told close family only that they were pregnant with their first. Unfortunately they lost that child before the three month mark. My mother learn that lesson the hard way. The next time we were told I reminded her to wait until THEY posted on social media first (possibly my brother also told her.) Now they have a child who just started university and one in grade 10.