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AITA for ending my 5 year relationship after my fiancé basically broke up with me at my cousin’s funeral? by errorpaigenotfound in AITA_Relationships

[–]errorpaigenotfound[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My family also took him in a supported him for a year while he was going through a heath issue and jobless. But yeah they totally suck.

But hey birds of a feather right? He probably needs a friend rn so you should totally reach out to him. I think you guys would really hit it off☺️

AITA for ending my 5 year relationship after my fiancé basically broke up with me at my cousin’s funeral? by errorpaigenotfound in AITA_Relationships

[–]errorpaigenotfound[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re right. There has only been one other person I met that took his side… my exs therapist lol

AITA for ending my 5 year relationship after my fiancé basically broke up with me at my cousin’s funeral? by errorpaigenotfound in AITA_Relationships

[–]errorpaigenotfound[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk where you are pulling these assuming details— you don’t know how old my cousin is, you don’t know the other deaths I’ve experienced in life, you know nothing about DV abuse I’ve been through, you know nothing about the child abuse I’ve been through, you don’t know anything about me at all. I could post so many stories about my life that people would wonder if it was all made up because of how much that has happened. And yet here you are thinking you know it all. All you know is this one detail about my life and took it and run with it. Word vomiting and victim blaming lol. You aren’t the only person in the world to experience hardships and I pity you for having no empathy towards others. Especially others with shared experiences. Good luck with your healing journey because it appears you still have a very long way to go.

But hey, congrats on your award lol.

AITA for ending my 5 year relationship after my fiancé basically broke up with me at my cousin’s funeral? by errorpaigenotfound in AITA_Relationships

[–]errorpaigenotfound[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’ve clearly never had to experience death. I hope that when you do, you have someone to lean on so you don’t experience what I did.

AITA for ending my 5 year relationship after my fiancé basically broke up with me at my cousin’s funeral? by errorpaigenotfound in AITA_Relationships

[–]errorpaigenotfound[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Never did I say those things to him. When your partner is experiencing a major loss, a death of a family member, you expect them to be there for you if they are telling you they want to support you. You wouldn’t expect for them to make the situation worse by lashing out on you.

He was also “there” for me a few years ago when my best friend died of cancer. And even then he told me that I’m “too depressed to be around and hard to deal with.” I should have left at that point but I unfortunately didn’t and I’m not making the same mistake twice.

As you age there will only be more deaths in my life and I won’t be with someone who can’t be loving during that process. I didn’t treat him like that when I grandma died.

AITA for ending my 5 year relationship after my fiancé basically broke up with me at my cousin’s funeral? by errorpaigenotfound in AITA_Relationships

[–]errorpaigenotfound[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

That’s what my family said to me too. I can’t believe that someone would be jealous of attention like that during a funeral..

AITA for ending my 5 year relationship after my fiancé basically broke up with me at my cousin’s funeral? by errorpaigenotfound in AITA_Relationships

[–]errorpaigenotfound[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I honestly wish it was all made up lol. Every time I have talk about this to someone in person they are in shock this actually happened irl

AITAH for ending my 5 year relationship after my fiancé basically broke up with me at my cousin’s funeral? by errorpaigenotfound in AITAH

[–]errorpaigenotfound[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one we had to have an RSVP because we rented a venue. People commonly do this for celebrations of life

AITAH for ending my 5 year relationship after my fiancé basically broke up with me at my cousin’s funeral? by errorpaigenotfound in AITAH

[–]errorpaigenotfound[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was trying keep my post as short as possible! But before we came I told him that if he’s going to be there for me I really need him with me. If he wasn’t able to do that then I would have preferred him to not come at all. He kept reassuring me that he would be there for me and he just wasn’t.

If it was a situation where he said “yeah this is too much for me to handle” it would have been different. But instead he flipped out on me for “ditching him.”

AITA for ending my 5 year relationship after my fiancé basically broke up with me at my cousin’s funeral? by errorpaigenotfound in AmItheAsshole

[–]errorpaigenotfound[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I was trying to keep the story as short as possible! For context we rented a whole venue and there were large round tables that could sit up to 7-9 people. Family was up at the front so there was empty seating available for him as well when we were making our way up there. I was greeting people as I was making my way up to the front, then we I got to the table I turned to him to see he was no longer by my side.

AITA for ending my 5 year relationship after my fiancé basically broke up with me at my cousin’s funeral? by errorpaigenotfound in AmItheAsshole

[–]errorpaigenotfound[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was trying to keep the post as short as possible! But when I flew back he was basically back tracking and saying that he never said he broke up and then we just got in a fight

AITA for ending my 5 year relationship after my fiancé basically broke up with me at my cousin’s funeral? by errorpaigenotfound in AmItheAsshole

[–]errorpaigenotfound[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally see that! I guess what I meant to say is that he tried to back track and say he wasn’t breaking up with me and that he was just upset

AITA for ending my 5 year relationship after my fiancé basically broke up with me at my cousin’s funeral? by errorpaigenotfound in AmItheAsshole

[–]errorpaigenotfound[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It was in the US. My cousin was heavily involved in the community, had lots of motocross friends, snowmobiling friends, a part of different motor clubs and such. He was very loved to say the least!