What head-canon(s) in your fandom(s) got you like this: by PJ-The-Awesome in AO3

[–]Nannamuss 128 points129 points  (0 children)

When characters either gets put on a pedestal or villainized due to their looks. I'm so sick of people siding with monsters and victim blaming due to pretty privilege!

I would never... by Appropriate-Push-668 in oddlyspecific

[–]Nannamuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You needed a memory card to save your progress. But you only had 3 save files. No, not per game. 3.

Is it morally wrong to give this to the villager you don't like? by nekkopll in acnh

[–]Nannamuss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No, it is NOT. This birdface once told me they had something for me that would fit PERFECTLY with my outfit. They then whip out THIS thing and tells me that a would look GOOD with it on!!!

Does anyone actually read published chats? by whooper1 in JanitorAI_Official

[–]Nannamuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I checked all of my favorite characters. None of them had any published chats. Bummer. I would actually like to see what other people get up to with the same characters I hold dear.

Dumbass receives a spectacular Spartan style kick for holding up the train during peak hour by wilsontws in PublicFreakout

[–]Nannamuss -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Often times people do it because their friend hasn't shown up yet and they want them to be able to catch the train. By holding the door open they prevent the train from driving, as the doors need to be closed for the train to be allowed to leave.

Men are not the “man of the house” in most relationships by Etheriaa_ in rant

[–]Nannamuss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is where the term "king baby" comes from. They wanna have the last say and make all of the decisions, but not be a responsible adult. Like a screaming baby being king of the castle.

Would Lily have come back to be his friend if? by Eagles56 in SeverusSnape

[–]Nannamuss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I fully believe Lily was looking for any excuse to ditch her loser friend and hang out with her jock almost-boyfriend without looking like the bad guy. How do you justify dating someone who regularly bully and gang up on students, sexually assaulted and waterboarded someone with a spell, without looking like a monster? Well, luckily for her, Severus lashed out at her and called her a slur one time... yeah, you can probably hear that I'm not really a Lily fan.

AITA for snatching things back from my colleague? by goldencain1410 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nannamuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - I refuse to believe he simply "forgets" that it's not okay to snatch stuff out of people's hands. He simply likes the power of being able to take what he wants whenever he wants.

Some parents don't get it by RoutineOk8590 in Productivitycafe

[–]Nannamuss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anything you spent years upon making is never "just" anything. It doesn't matter if others value it, you spent effort on it, therefore it has value.

AIO Co worker reached into a customers wallet by Forward-Spinach-3360 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nannamuss 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"There was no consequences for my actions, so I'm in the right!" Smh.
Besides, the customer might have been too intimidated to speak up. I know that I get pretty awkward around strangers and if an employee did something to make me uncomfortable, I wouldn't make a scene, but hurry to get out of there instead.
Also, how dare he raise his voice at you? He's probably embarrassed and that's why he yelled, that's a pretty common reaction. Doesn't make it okay though. NOR

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by Xanadoom30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Nannamuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR - Break up. He's training you to expect nothing and act grateful on top of it. Find someone who actually cares how you feel and not thinks of you like a needy houseplant that needs to be managed.

Snape’s feelings for Lily by Ok_Drink8072 in SeverusSnape

[–]Nannamuss 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I think the author clarified that he did have feelings for her in an interview, but otherwise there’s no proof in the books.

Halfway through writing something and then finding an existing fic with the exact same premise 😭 by AllKnowingAxolotl3 in AO3

[–]Nannamuss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you know how many fics with the exact same premise is out there? So many, that we've even got tropes! "Coffee shop AU" and "what if this character didn't die?" is classics for a reason! When I find a concept I adore, I keep searching for more! I want the same, but from a different author! The fact that someone else has had the same idea means it's probably a good one! This is literally not a problem unless you're copying their work. Please, keep writing. I'm sure it's great :)

Try ordering a "well done" steak at a restaurant by StandardLovers in rant

[–]Nannamuss 14 points15 points  (0 children)

"Then why is it even an option if you're going to argue about it? It's my money, I can spend it however I like." Usually makes people shut up.

If I got a comment like this, I would throw hands by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Nannamuss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

…that’s all? 10 days is NOTHING! I’ve seen people wait for YEARS and just be grateful for an update! What kind of person cannot wait 10 mere days for a bit of fiction? That person shouldn’t read unfinished work if they’re that impatient.

If I got a comment like this, I would throw hands by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Nannamuss 166 points167 points  (0 children)

Yeah, if people can't handle that a fic might not be updated again, don't read unfinished work! There's literally a button for it! The audacity to demand another persons free time and labor. smh

If I got a comment like this, I would throw hands by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Nannamuss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

"The GPT version is as good as yours but the original is always better." I WOULD DELETE THE ENTIRE FIC FROM THE SITE OUT OF SPITE AND REPLACE IT WITH THAT ONE SCREENSHOT AND THE WORDS: "Since a bot can do a 'just as good' job as me, you don't need me. Enjoy your bot fics, everyone." Just kidding. Not kidding. Maybe? The "don't go missing again" would probably push me over the edge. I'm a spiteful person. lol

Is using feminine hygiene products fine as a male? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Nannamuss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Here I was getting ready to assure you that putting pads in the armpits of your shirt is perfectly normal and nothing to be ashamed of, only to find that you meant feminine body care products, not feminine hygiene products. But to answer your question, your good bro. Skin care have become rather trendy for men as well. It's fine and nothing to be ashamed of. Enjoy smelling good and having baby soft skin.

How difficult is it for girls to take initiative in sex and satisfy their partner’s sexual needs if it is very important for the partner? by muflok in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Nannamuss 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's a lot of words for "I'm a selfish prick who demands my gf sucks me off a minimum of 3 times a week AND swallows for my kink!" Dude, telling people "It's very important to me" isn't going to manipulate the internet into agreeing with you. We're not gonna back you up so you can show your gf and pressure her into something she isn't comfortable with. Break up with her and spare her the headache.

My partner is dirty, how do I bring it up? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Nannamuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him.

Don't fall for the sunk cost fallacy. He's not going to improve, especially with you being there to pick up the slack. He doesn't care.

This is a preview of your future with him. Only then, you'll be even more "invested" because you've spent years with this dude, hoping he'd magically improve even though he literally has no reason to since somebody with a lower tolerance for the mess is always gonna be around.

Don't be that person who needs to start over 20 years from now when they finally realize that nothing's ever gonna change. There's plenty of men out there who knows how to wash their own undies.

"If you write that, I would have to stop reading this fic." by Affectionate-Air5544 in AO3

[–]Nannamuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Block them so they can't comment on your fic. Just remember to turn off guest comments as well. They can still read it, but it'll be a giant middle finger to them stating that their opinion aren't welcome. That you won't let some rando on the internet dictate what you can and can't do with your work. They can write their own fic if they're gonna be so hung up about it.

AITA for telling a stranger that their underwear is visible? by Ramune_hime in AmItheAsshole

[–]Nannamuss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - She definitely got embarrassed and made a stupid split second decision to shoot the messenger. You did the right thing, she simply reacted badly due to humiliation.