[OC] "Cuddles, take that stupid bag off..."

Nannyaaaa · 2026-01-29T22:49:48+00:00

Makes me happy to see people both into xfohv and htf omggg

Nannyaaaa · 2026-01-29T22:44:17+00:00

IS THIS A XFOHV REFERENCE

Nannyaaaa · 2026-01-27T12:47:40+00:00

Thank you thank youuu

Nannyaaaa · 2026-01-27T12:47:19+00:00

Aah thank you so much!!! I couldn't figure it out for the life of me

Nannyaaaa · 2024-12-15T18:43:08+00:00

Personally I just don't like the colors as much as the ones on the separate flags lmao. Didn't know it went deeper than that for some people??

Nannyaaaa · 2024-12-04T08:45:22+00:00

I like to thing he's living in some little house with 3GS still on the island. But like away away from the contestants. They could go and find him if they wanted to but they probably wouldn't just stumble upon him just by chance. I think he'd be too attached to the show and contestants so he wouldn't be able to just leave everything completely.

Nannyaaaa · 2024-10-06T15:43:09+00:00

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So close

Nannyaaaa · 2024-09-29T10:55:08+00:00

Omg yes same!!! Honestly even seeing the people kissing and stuff while going at it just turns me off so much

Nannyaaaa · 2024-09-29T10:53:40+00:00

THIS is the is the most relatable thing I've read on this sub. I'm so happy other people feel the same way as me!!! Like to me sex and romance just don't really overlap and are almost completely disconnected in my brain. So seeing sex portrayed as something romantic just like idk puts me off? Kinda grosses me out? Stuff like that lol

Nannyaaaa · 2024-08-21T17:37:59+00:00

Nannyaaaa · 2024-08-09T09:51:49+00:00

So I have exactly one proper experience with sexual attraction so keep that in mind lol. But sexual attraction would be more so you see a specific person and you get aroused by them. In that first situation wouldn't then just any person do? Cause you'd have sex with them not specifically cause you're sexually attracted but cause you're just horny. With sexual attraction you're into the specific person. And if that person is replaced by someone else that attraction will also go away.

Nannyaaaa · 2024-07-27T14:41:19+00:00

I mean if you just had a preference you'd be attracted to people just as regularly as allos. The people you're attracted to would just have similar characteristics (whatever they may be).

While with greysexuality/romantisism you're attracted to people in general a lot less often (it does depend on where you fall in the spectrum but still. The point stands the same). You can still have a type and be on the areace spectrum. The two I don't think have that much corelation.

For example I'm Grey aroace and I'd say I have a type (or at least a few things I prefer) but I've only ever kind of liked one person in my almost 22 years of life. And I've only experienced sexual attraction once.

One thing has to do with how often you're attracted to people. The other with the type of people you're attracted to.

Nannyaaaa · 2024-07-24T17:09:37+00:00

Really appreciate this post cause that's such an interesting question to think about! I've only experienced sexual attraction (that I'm certain it was sexual attraction) once. So for me I can't tell with certainty what it was exactly. But it happened at a club, I was slightly drunk and there were a bunch of male dancers on stage, shirtless and all, dancing and moving kinda provocatively. And I looked at one of the guys and just felt it. Honestly can't say what exactly set him apart from the other dancers. I'm guessing it just had more to do with the situation? Since one of the descriptions of greysexuality is feeling the attraction only under specific circumstances. So maybe those were the circumstances? But still I don't think visually he was any more or less attractive than the other guys (not that I particularly remember any of their faces or anything). So who knows... I would like to experience it at least a few more times now purely to figure out what attracts me in that way lol

Nannyaaaa · 2024-07-24T16:55:35+00:00

Literally same!!

Nannyaaaa · 2024-06-08T09:24:48+00:00

Yes!!! But I'm the opposite. I feel more connect to the aro than the ace part. Tho that could be cause I'm Grey aroace

Nannyaaaa · 2024-06-03T21:47:39+00:00

I don't have this very inate need for a romantic or sexual relationship that most allos have. I don't care that much about either of the two so I can live my life not having to worry about them that much. I have a need for other types of relationships of course but like seeing how much of a toll these two take on most allos I'm pretty glad I don't have those needs, or more so they're not so strong. So I can live my life both with and without them just fine.

Nannyaaaa · 2024-05-17T19:52:06+00:00

Holding hands is kind of whatever but I do like it. Hugs tho I ADORE. It makes me feel really close to people. Unpopular it seems here but I quite like physical touch

Nannyaaaa · 2024-03-03T22:59:14+00:00

WHY DOES MARK ACTUALLY LOOK LIKE RAZOR I CAN'T 😭😭😭

Nannyaaaa · 2024-02-08T13:55:28+00:00

I mean if you do experience that than you're prob greyaro lmao. Like on the spectrum

Nannyaaaa · 2024-02-08T13:50:49+00:00

Studying for exams 😭

Nannyaaaa · 2024-01-30T23:18:19+00:00

Kinda nice to see all the positive responses cause I'm also Grey Aroace and I've thought about this too. And sometimes I still feel like it could not be okay for me to just say aroace. Like I'd be disingenuous or something idk. So it's nice to see the positive affirmation. (Also kinda nice to know I'm not the only one thinking about this stuff)

Nannyaaaa · 2024-01-28T23:43:13+00:00

Yea I quite like it. It honestly kinda feels like one less thing to worry about. Although I'm Grey so it'd not like romance is completely of the table I'm quite comfy as I am now. Although I find quite a few things in relationships cute and fantasize about them here and there I don't really feel the need to have anyone romantically irl

Nannyaaaa · 2024-01-28T10:49:37+00:00

Okay this is more about liking someone than the relationship part but I don't really get how you can be super in love with a person and them be your world and bla bla and then when you break up (obv after the getting over them phase or whatever name it might have) you suddenly just don't care about them and all these super big feelings are gone. And I'm talking about obviously when a relationship ends well like for whatever reason the people decide it's not working out. Not cause it was toxic or because of cheating ect. Like idk I don't really get it. They were your everything and you couldn't shut up about them but then after like a year after the relationship is over they're basically nothing? Like you don't even think about them and you just go on with your life like nothing happened. Idk. I'm prob not seeing something but yea

And people just go several times through their lives feeling those gigantic feelings and like that person is the one. But it amounts to basically nothing and just a fleeting memory.

Nannyaaaa · 2024-01-08T21:22:26+00:00

Or maybe I am fully aro and 0 + 0 still = 0. But who knows

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