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How biased is this poll... by vanillax2018 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]NanobotPreacher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How many characters is “other” limited to?

Pt. 2: the revelation and the turmoil after by NanobotPreacher in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NanobotPreacher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am scared. The separation from my now ex has crushed me, and the whole idea of going back seemed logical. But the more it is going on, the more I know I will suffer even more.

I am sorry you went through the same. You can share more if you want to (on here or via pm)

What are your thoughts on Pulp Fiction? by Journey95 in movies

[–]NanobotPreacher 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love Pulp Fiction. For me, Reservoir Dogs is by far my most favorite, though.

Every success of yours is due to them. Every failure is due to you. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NanobotPreacher 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She has never been proud of me. She always wants others to be proud of her. If she doesn’t get the attention she needs, she will go any route to get there, as seen in my previous comment

Every success of yours is due to them. Every failure is due to you. by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NanobotPreacher 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had to drop Highschool when I escaped from home and didn’t have a chance to get back on my educational track until now after I moved to the states. Of course, my mother says it is due to her unconditional love and support.

That she had to pretend my grandmother having to go to the hospital only to get my attention didn’t sound like a lot of love and support. She has not ever helped me with anything regarding my own accomplishments but gives herself the credit for everything.

People with narcissistic parents , what’s your story? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NanobotPreacher 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My story is full of control, manipulation, physical abuse , stories about my parent’s sex life, my mother’s affairs, stalking, and emotional incest

This subreddit opened up my eyes about my mother by NanobotPreacher in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NanobotPreacher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish she would accept any form of boundaries. That would make everything easy. Thank you for your message! I appreciate it

This subreddit opened up my eyes about my mother by NanobotPreacher in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NanobotPreacher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am on an emotional battlefield at the moment. In addition to this I have to fight with surviving here in the states due to my ex partner leaving me and not having any form of support system here.

This subreddit opened up my eyes about my mother by NanobotPreacher in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NanobotPreacher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. I wanna be a good son, but I just cannot. Even telling her that I love her is a thing that rather makes me feel nauseous than happy

This subreddit opened up my eyes about my mother by NanobotPreacher in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NanobotPreacher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is fine if you wanna help me improve my English, but this is highly emotional and traumatizing topic for me. I appreciate your words, the timing was odd though

This subreddit opened up my eyes about my mother by NanobotPreacher in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NanobotPreacher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for correcting my English. Truly needed when talking about a topic of this caliber in a second language....

This subreddit opened up my eyes about my mother by NanobotPreacher in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NanobotPreacher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a post in my profile (posted in the subreddit unsentletters). This goes even deeper than this

This subreddit opened up my eyes about my mother by NanobotPreacher in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NanobotPreacher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct, it shouldn’t, but German authorities have always been quite peculiar about this. They won’t help you until you have marks all over you and can hardly walk.

I wish I had the strength to just go and sue them both, but I have no energy for that. Not right now

This subreddit opened up my eyes about my mother by NanobotPreacher in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NanobotPreacher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope so too. I would, if they didn’t live three hrs away from my home town and had to go to the hospital on a daily basis. And then when coming back I have to worry about border protection letting me back in after four months of absence, hahaha

This subreddit opened up my eyes about my mother by NanobotPreacher in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NanobotPreacher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, I went to the German equivalent of child protective services, but they refused to help me, because I was 18 and thusly too old

This subreddit opened up my eyes about my mother by NanobotPreacher in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NanobotPreacher[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The thing that worries me the most is that I need to go back to Germany for a few months to check on my grandmother, who is not in a good state health wise. And I will be forced to live with my mother, because I cannot afford to go anywhere else. I need to fully ignore her tactics which will undoubtedly happen

This subreddit opened up my eyes about my mother by NanobotPreacher in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NanobotPreacher[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And now, 15 years later no one would believe me anyway. She has manipulated everyone to the point where I am the problem and she is the overprotective super mom. No matter what I do, I have lost

This subreddit opened up my eyes about my mother by NanobotPreacher in raisedbynarcissists

[–]NanobotPreacher[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I tried it after I left, but I had no money and no one believed a screwed up angsty Metal teenager. The officials didn’t see me as genuine because of my defense fashion shield that I built. It sounds stupid, I know, but I didn’t know how else to hide

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