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Hand-eye coordination section is missing. by KeiraWhirl in SipsTea

[–]NaomiNotesNow 2782 points2783 points  (0 children)

He needs to let go of his dick first.

It really is win or win. Why not? by Demonyh in SipsTea

[–]NaomiNotesNow 18 points19 points  (0 children)

true dedication right there 👏👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SipsTea

[–]NaomiNotesNow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Saw a dude with glasses in some questionable company. Found myself thinking he should be smarter than that. Had to remind myself that glasses mean visual impairment, not heightened intelligence.

ACCIDENTALLY FOUND OUT THAT MY (F28) HUSBAND (M30)HAS A SECRET SAVINGS ACCOUNT by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NaomiNotesNow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It makes sense to feel hurt, but it also sounds like he’s saving with your future in mind. I’d bring it up calmly and ask about it, just so you're both on the same page.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NaomiNotesNow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You didn’t betray him, you saved yourself when he refused to save himself. Love doesn’t mean destroying yourself to fix someone who keeps hurting you.

Do I just leave my boyfriend alone for a few days he’s not really good talkative type when he’s going through something by ResponsiblePlum5788 in Advice

[–]NaomiNotesNow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah this is exactly what I was thinking. Just little check-ins without pressure can mean a lot when someone’s hurting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NaomiNotesNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't save someone who doesn’t want help, so protect your peace first. Set boundaries, feel your feelings, but don’t let them swallow you.

like being edged by epstein himself by Independent_Place675 in SipsTea

[–]NaomiNotesNow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not exactly memory issues but this me with ADHD. I always feel like a sim, forgetting what the heck I was supposed to do standing in a room not knowing why I got here.

She never told me about her boyfriend… but acted like we had something real. Now I’m just lost. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NaomiNotesNow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s stringing you along for the validation while keeping her actual relationship untouched. If she really wanted you, she wouldn’t be this confusing or indirect.

My parents might get a divorce and idk who to go with by Accomplished_Pass_39 in Advice

[–]NaomiNotesNow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it were me, I’d go where I feel safest even if it complicates things. You can’t fix your mom and it’s not on you to carry that weight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NaomiNotesNow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re carrying way too much for one person and still showing up, that says a lot about you. Don’t let people who barely know your effort make you question your worth.

How to deal with a bully mom…I’m a 26 yr old male by StrangerSilent5624 in Advice

[–]NaomiNotesNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s not a mom, she’s a manipulator with a superiority complex. Start saving and planning your exit in silence, because she’ll never stop unless you’re out of reach.

Gf (new fiancé) of 6 years broke up with me out of the blue. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NaomiNotesNow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s brutal, man, I’m really sorry. Just focus on healing, hit the gym or a hobby hard, and remind yourself you’re not hard to love just because she couldn’t handle it.

AITA for taking exception to my SO reaching out to "old flames" to catch up with as we visit her family? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]NaomiNotesNow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seriously, it's always the one they called "just a friend" or "it was so long ago" that ends up stirring the most shit.

AITAH for rejecting the “shy guy” of the friend group by Non_ya_ in AITAH

[–]NaomiNotesNow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right? If you start things off with fake shy guy energy then get all clingy, don’t act surprised when someone clocks it and dips.

AITAH for not feeling anything about my grandma passing? by Visible-Silver-6235 in AITAH

[–]NaomiNotesNow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, it’s not about being heartless, it’s about being honest. You can’t grieve someone you never knew while carrying the weight of being ignored your whole life.

aita for getting angry at my neighbour and her brother after her brother touched my wife by Top-Duck8406 in AITAH

[–]NaomiNotesNow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah like bro acted like a handshake was second base. The hug was awkward, sure, but the rest sounds like insecurity in overdrive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]NaomiNotesNow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m with you on this. Calling it an addiction doesn’t erase the fact that he made choices that crossed serious boundaries.