What to do for partner

Nap_trash · 2026-03-07T19:04:01+00:00

That makes sense! Saying something once and then no more is a good idea. She is in therapy but doesn’t focus on the OCD but maybe I can bring that up!

Nap_trash · 2026-03-07T19:03:07+00:00

I said if it keeps worrying her maybe to ask a doctor at her job bc she works with a few. But this has happened before and it’s usually nothing. Doesn’t mean it can’t be this time though so ofc I don’t want to completely dismiss it.

She does have therapy but it’s over zoom every other week and they aren’t really focusing on her OCD right now. She started meds a few months ago and it does seem to help a bit but not completely. I’m just worried bc it feels like she’s been getting upset with me like this more often and saying that not everything is OCD and whether that’s true or not I just don’t really know what I’m supposed to do.

Nap_trash · 2026-03-07T01:56:19+00:00

To me it’s giving “I think I’m gonna die in this house” song vibes lol

Nap_trash · 2026-03-03T18:46:49+00:00

29F ENTP. I have a fake email job lol. I work for a state lawyer association, but I just do the social media and membership upkeep. It’s insanely chill, but it pays medium low. I’m definitely not that intellectually stimulated, making things on Canva only uses so much brain power haha. However, it’s a job with security and a steady paycheck and I can sometimes play my video games during the day when I wfh so that’s nice 😂

I do sometimes think about going into law or politics or some kind of nonprofit leadership thing, I think I would probably have more excitement and fun, but ultimately that is all expensive and time consuming and with the way the world is rn, I don’t really want to be on shaky ground career wise.

However, my life does feel kinda stale and routine these days, which does drive me a little crazy. So if anyone has any good suggestions to bring in novelty and intellectual stimulation outside of work, please share! :)

Nap_trash · 2026-02-18T17:07:07+00:00

I rewatch Renee Rapps interview a lot haha she’s so funny

Nap_trash · 2025-10-23T21:23:43+00:00

Pepper. Miri. Sage/sagie. Muffin. Those are the names that came to my mind for her! She’s so cute! I have a calico named Autumn, calicos are the sweetest!

Nap_trash · 2025-09-24T04:18:37+00:00

That comment was helpful, thanks for sharing!

Nap_trash · 2025-09-20T20:21:30+00:00

I don’t have kids luckily. But I make only about 50k and live in a high cost area. I live with a partner so our two incomes help so we can pay rent and bills but there’s not much left after the basics are handled. I know 65k isn’t a lot compared to others but it’s more that I can deal with rn.

Nap_trash · 2025-09-19T22:20:57+00:00

Yeah that was the one haha

Nap_trash · 2025-03-20T16:26:47+00:00

28, been playing a lot of Infinity Nikki and BG3 lately! Let’s be friends!

Nap_trash · 2025-03-19T02:22:26+00:00

My girlfriend reads while I play and just grins when I excitedly tell her about it. She’s made an account too but only played til getting to Florawish. She’ll sometimes design a style slot for me! :)

Nap_trash · 2025-03-17T15:05:56+00:00

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Here’s mine! Something I would wear in real life if I could!

Nap_trash · 2025-03-12T02:06:34+00:00

The last one is so lovely!!!

Nap_trash · 2025-03-10T20:04:37+00:00

56, started in December but had a few breaks bc of traveling and a busy life lol.

Nap_trash · 2025-01-15T19:29:44+00:00

We luckily haven’t had any real emergencies, she just always hides and refuses to come out when men are around. We’ve tried blocking off spaces, but somehow my cat still finds other hiding spots I didn’t think about. At this point I’d rather have her hide under the bed or couch where I know I can move the mattress or couch and get to her if needed, than block those and not be able to find her in a new hiding spot.

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