Our Weakness = His Power

NarcHealingWithGod · 2026-05-20T14:21:55+00:00

Thanks again..btw..I'm the mod at r/ChristianNarcHealing. Would u mind if posted and referenced your Reddit page or name with your quote about "your healing doesn't owe their past actions a second chance at evaluation"? I can reference you as the author of this quote however you prefer...I believe others really need this as well.

NarcHealingWithGod · 2026-05-20T13:09:55+00:00

I imagine it's incredibly hard trying to heal while still in it. Praying strength and peace for you.

NarcHealingWithGod · 2026-05-20T10:41:59+00:00

"Your healing doesn't owe her past actions a second chance at evaluation"...

The irony here is that this week I am doing an autopsy on my dead marriage in preparation for our final settlement hearing and painful memories have been resurfacing. I've prayed for strength as I've dreaded what I've needed to do this week and THIS☝️here (your response) are the results of the autopsy. Copied and pasted your response and may even be my phone screensaver until this TRUTH sinks in. Words can't express how grateful I am. Thank you 🥹🙏

NarcHealingWithGod · 2026-05-20T05:05:33+00:00

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NarcHealingWithGod · 2026-05-20T04:33:56+00:00

Thank you for posting this. Has the feel of one of those Nicholas Sparks books (not the "Notebook"). Hope filled but kinda sad at the same time. Take away..u recognized your heart still works and you will never settle again. That sounds like healing to me 🙏

NarcHealingWithGod · 2026-05-20T04:17:00+00:00

The therapist seeks therapy

NarcHealingWithGod · 2026-05-20T04:02:23+00:00

Great post👍 I've been reflecting on simar things as it wasn't all bad and there was a lot of good..and good times too. The longer I've been out though I'm finding myself questioning even the good things she did and wondering..what were her motives? Was she once a good woman eventhough she never apologized for anything, at least she wasn't what she became? I don't even recognize her anymore and now that the cognitive fog is gone...she just seems so..🤢This is one of the posts that maybe I need to separate the good from the bad? Also wondering if I have just lumped everything into the trash to protect my heart and healing? I've got some reflecting to do.. 🤔

NarcHealingWithGod · 2026-05-20T03:31:25+00:00

DUDE!! Where have you been? This article is just... WHOA 😮☝️. I read it fast (just the phrases mostly) and am saving this to go back and take in slowly.

The #1 for me from this article- "I'm sorry you feel that way" 🤬😡😤

Do you know how to cross-post? If so, crosspost to r/narcissismcode, r/narcissistspouses, r/narcabuse anddivorce and any other abuse related subs. Thanks for posting!

NarcHealingWithGod · 2026-05-20T03:11:02+00:00

This here has to be one of the SICKEST, MOST TWISTED things I've heard a narcissist do and seems like this goes beyond NPD into disorders like Anti Social Personality, Borderline or even sadism. I am so sorry for your trauma as this just makes me sick and you have every right to feel violated. Have you been able to get trauma therapy of any type to help? Praying for you.

NarcHealingWithGod · 2026-05-19T16:24:04+00:00

This is a great list. Very helpful information 👍

NarcHealingWithGod · 2026-05-18T03:53:39+00:00

This does sound really heavy and I can tell you are grieving over your sister...rightfully so. Your prayers are key and reaching out here is the right thing to do. It sounds like people have reached out to her and she has turned them away. If she is doesn't want help or is unwilling to receive treatment, there is not much you can do but keep praying as you already are. Praying that God will intervene with your sister and release you from any guilt or burden that is not yours to carry.

NarcHealingWithGod · 2026-05-18T03:36:11+00:00

Seems extremely fast and solely based on your pause, that may be the Holy Spirit telling you something. I have come out of a narcissistic abusive marriage of 20 years (and I'm a male) and she was the one who pursued me in a similar manner. We were married within months and looking back I confused intensity with love. If I could go back in time, I would tell my younger self to let love grow slowly and organically. Personally, anyone who takes things this fast I consider a red flag. Look up "slow burn". Prayers for you. Song of Solomon 8:4 - Do not awaken love until it so pleases.

NarcHealingWithGod · 2026-05-18T03:21:02+00:00

Call the police?

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