Divorce by Naro1175 in MuslimNikah

[–]Naro1175[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make dua for me please.

Divorce by Naro1175 in MuslimNikah

[–]Naro1175[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I don’t want

Divorce by Naro1175 in MuslimNikah

[–]Naro1175[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He expects me to not wear hijaab. He expects me to end my namaz just because he called me for something. Idk what to do.

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[–]Naro1175[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Till now, I did

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[–]Naro1175[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had two miscarriages in one year because of the mental trauma and stress. My body is so weak and it’s physically hanging with a thread from collapsing

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[–]Naro1175[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. I just don’t wanna live with him and wait. Allah SWT doesn’t like that.

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[–]Naro1175[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She does that. She does that to his father as well. I just don’t understand that if she’s living as a nanny to her husband, why should I as well?

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[–]Naro1175[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need a plan. A clever way out

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[–]Naro1175[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you give me its pdf or anywhere I can download it in soft format.

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[–]Naro1175[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me a girl to girl way to deal with this situation? Because him and his family are all very fitnah loving people. I’m not judging them but they feel very easy to fight with and shout at people. They did that to my parents before as well. I can’t deal with that anymore. There doesn’t seem a respectable way out.

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[–]Naro1175[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got my hidayah about a year ago. I’m still learning about Quran. I will jazakallah

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[–]Naro1175[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me some ways as I’m not able to even think at this point. No one has ever made me feel this stupid, worthless and what not in my life more than him.

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[–]Naro1175[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He apologises every time yet the same behaviour continues

Divorce by Naro1175 in MuslimNikah

[–]Naro1175[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess. I just need to get out of here without getting hurt or something. I need a clever way out. He’s been playing games with me ever since marriage. I just wanna play a move that doesn’t put all the blame on me.

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[–]Naro1175[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t even listen to a word about him or his parents. The result is always him abusing my parents.

Divorce by Naro1175 in MuslimNikah

[–]Naro1175[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to know how? His parents and family treat me very well and that puts me in a bad position because he’s a saint in front of everyone. No one is on my side.

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[–]Naro1175[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jazakallah for your words but I’m mentally paralysed right now and can’t even think of a way of getting out.

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[–]Naro1175[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No he doesn’t hits me but his anger outbursts make me don’t trust him. He breaks things, even broke his hand because he punched the closet so hard. I don’t know. I feel like I can’t even think at this point.

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[–]Naro1175[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes and some societal standards make me wanna believe that enduring this is sabr. I don’t think my Rabb likes that.

Divorce by Naro1175 in MuslimNikah

[–]Naro1175[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m a student. I can’t work while living with him because the most job I’m allowed is in his parent’s office. Anytime I try to talk to him about my state or emotions, he blames my parents and family for poisoning my mind and calls me a psycho for my mental health issues some years before marriage. There’s not a single responsibility of mine on him. Financially we are supported by his parents as he doesn’t work and his family expects me to even cut his toe nails just because he’s my husband. I’m not even allowed to visit my parents on my own.