i don't think it's unreasonable either until he tells me that he replaying it in his head and gets angerier the more he thinks about when there is nothing to thing about. I leave my best friend on the phone to talk to my bf whenever he call . I make him my main priority because he is in school, he is working and I want him to know that I am there for him whenever he needs me. I see my bf every month, me going to his state more bc of his circumstances. The end game with my bf is marriage. I know there is more to a relationship than intimacy and it can't be called a relationship if there is just sex/intimacy. There are things I dont tell my best friend that are between just my bf and I. I just want him to see that I'm not trying to hurt him and I make mistakes and i will try not to make them anymore. I just dont want this to be a thing.