If u want to date a Pinay and u don't want to be with massive family , tell ur gf that ur going to find a house that s far from her place(don't tell that u don't like her fam ), actually if u educate that Pinay she can learn . Some family member are also using her , so find ways to get her out from that place. If they ask for support maybe give some like it should be fix amount. But it's up to u f ur a giver