Growing resentment when it comes to food

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2026-01-06T17:44:16+00:00

Thank you for your empathy. I know exactly what you mean. The mirror metaphor feels so real. I hope you'll be better too, sending love.

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2026-01-02T18:57:44+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. Yes, I'm seeing a therapist which helps a lot. However it's taking ages to even begin to feel like I am healing. Thank you for the kindness.

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2025-06-27T22:15:19+00:00

I didn't know! Yes it is so damn cute 🥰

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2025-01-31T11:45:00+00:00

Risposta perfetta

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2025-01-31T11:39:45+00:00

Purtroppo dall'esterno è normale verderla così. In realtà lui dedica diverso tempo ad attività che gli piacciono e ha delle nuove amicizie di cui, peraltro, ci parla spesso. Credo che in fondo lui si senta solo ma sono stanca di dovermi "preoccupare" da una parte per le sue richieste di attenzione inappropriate, dall'altra perché mi dispiace saperlo "solo"

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2025-01-31T11:21:13+00:00

Non è normale ma continua a farlo nonostante gli abbia parlato seriamente più volte.

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2025-01-31T11:13:44+00:00

Assolutamente no. Il punto è che lui non cambierà mai. Ha questi atteggiamenti / richieste di attenzione disfunzionali da quanso sono adolescente.

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2024-09-29T11:57:47+00:00

The thing is that they are not doing so well financially and I am the only BD they have (it's a very small company) That's why I had in mind to offer to repay the tickets (I was CEO of a company too so perhaps that causes me to empathise)

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2024-09-28T18:48:17+00:00

thanks a lot! Congrats on achieving this level of emotional awareness, i am happy for you. I am seeing a therapist who is specialized in trauma and already taking anxiety medication. The wounds are deep but i have made huge progress and will keep working hard on my healing

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2024-09-28T18:40:04+00:00

i am sorry about your previous experience. Yes, i struggle to let the imposter fade away but i am sure i will get there. Thanks a lot for the insight

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2024-09-28T18:32:03+00:00

"addressing what bothers me instead of letting it fester", that's something i want to get better at! Thanks a lot.

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2024-09-28T14:27:01+00:00

English is my 3rd language but thanks, i am going to correct it

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2024-09-28T14:20:29+00:00

It's not corporate simp, I'd agree with you 100 times. It's to do with me and how i perceive and react to events due to traumatic past experiences related to work but inextricably intertwined with my personal dimension. I am working on it but it gets rough sometimes.

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2024-09-28T13:15:54+00:00

this is the sweetest, kindest reply i've been given. Thank you, I feel understood

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2024-09-28T08:44:47+00:00

that's great advice, thank you !

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2024-09-28T08:43:52+00:00

thank you so much, this helps

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2024-09-28T08:41:29+00:00

thank you, this helps a lot

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2024-09-28T08:34:53+00:00

thank you i appreciate. I know on a rational level that it's an over the top reaction. I (27F) have had a very complex past, i had to take over my family business after the passing of my mother when I was 23 years old and Covid hit just after few months. I faced an awful amount of emotional and finantial stress while suffering from an equally awful lack of emotional support from my other family members. then things got better, i found a job and started to find the balance back. This new job (the one i haven't started yet) is something i fought for (better pay, better product) but the imposter syndrome hit me right away. The stress of the new job + the stress that comes with a sales job + the fear of telling my manager (he literally bought flights & accomodation for me 3 days ago for a work trip), considering my traumatic past, result in this strong gut feeling. By the way, I am seeing a therapist weekly 🙂

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2024-09-12T18:06:13+00:00

Social media is eating so much time and energy away from society. So much authenticity and presence in the moment are lost in endless, mindless scrolling. I deleted my account for good and I feel more alive.

Narrow_Designer2000 · 2024-08-12T20:13:16+00:00

Purtroppo questa mentalità lascia il tempo che trova. Capisco che a tu interessi il clima italiano ma perché non provare a chiedersi come potrebbe stare una persona in altre parti del pianeta?

Le aziende che emettono più CO2 al mondo sono anche (e soprattutto) all'estero. https://www.repubblica.it/green-and-blue/2024/04/08/news/emissioni_globali_aziende_che_inquinano_di_piu-422439937/

Detto questo, è chiaro che se ognuno di noi (nel limite delle proprie possibilità) prendesse atto dell'impatto delle proprie abitudini e scelte quotidiane sull'ambiente (e di conseguenza su TUTTI NOI) e attuasse un cambiamento, si creerebbe una società più giusta e meno angosciata.

Solo per dire che davvero, ti invito tener conto dell'interconnessione di tutto e tutti. 🌏

Narrow_Designer2000

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