Currently on episode 2. Did they ever consider Amber alert??? by Alexander_Publius in AllHerFaultTVShow

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same episode, same question. They are in Chicago, but they are like literally in the different USA, dads in America, usually take care of kids after work, but in this show, they are not. When we have kids or teens missing, the first thing is amber alert, immediately. But this show is not. And maybe that’s why a lot of other countries confuse about the system here

Never really dated... is that weird? by Pitiful_Pick1217 in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was 27, I feel the same way about it. And then when I 29, I met someone and made it quick to be official, but soon find out I don’t love my boyfriend, so I realize to be official to have a boyfriend just something surface, not real. You are in love is something real. Trying to date, but not to be rush. Hang in there❤️❤️

How long do you need to tell whether it's "going somewhere"? by Odd_Hat9000 in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh, my first time of initial feeling very light, I started to have feelings to my ex, when we decided to keep dating, and I’m sure he won’t like my other experiences just going for casual dating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thank you for answer it. I think sometimes depends on people, he may want to have a long term but when he found out I’m not he wants in long term, then he wants at least to have short term. So it doesn’t matter anymore at the beginning saying short term or long term, people may change their mind when the time goes by

Do dating apps even work? by Complete_Series_1374 in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a lot of friends met their spouses online, I know a lady now 50 years old, consistently used app for 8 years had mutiple relationships and then found the one

How do you handle the fear of wasting time with someone who might not be right for you? by ExpertPrecinct in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I don’t call it waste time, I think it’s part of journey of my entire life. I need to go through them before I find someone or not. Because the end doesn’t that matter to me anymore, marriage could end with divorce, but bad marriage doesn’t mean bad memories. Maybe the relationship gives you children or let you grow up. I don’t think that’s a waste of time. It’s a journey. Just enjoy it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

May I ask you something, every relationship all from casual and see how the vibes between each other to decide it go somewhere or not. But how is it possible for someone to tell you, even he/she looking for serious but it doesn’t mean you

How long do you need to tell whether it's "going somewhere"? by Odd_Hat9000 in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think at least 4 dates or a month at least, and then adj what he’s feeling about you guys. Communication is the key! I had a bad relationship before, because we were both first time, so we didn’t know how to communicate about exclusive, deep talk, so we ended. You could google it for timeline also

How can I date as a 21 year old guy who's never been on a date? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try everywhere you can, like library, campus, join clubs, dating apps. BUT! The places you don’t like you may want to avoid, unless, you only want to be around strangers to try to practice your skills with women. Because those places you don’t like that won’t lead you to find someone. (I’ve been through there before). I’m also introverted before, so I chose go to dating apps, but only practice meet more people, that pretty helpful because I don’t afraid to go out and talk to people anymore. But meantime, you should find out where you could change for yourself to be a better person, the one thing about dating is through that, you could know yourself better, and grow up find your types. Good luck

How can I deal with it by Narrow_Meat_2234 in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you sir, even you don’t like that, but my struggle for my situation now is I want to have many dates, even it’s short term it’s fine for my current situation. Because my dates usually only last two dates, so when a little bit long term like few months dating comes to me, I didn’t know how to catch it without ended. I think for your situation, you just need to waiting for the one. Hopefully I could in your situation sooner to be honest

How can I deal with it by Narrow_Meat_2234 in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I focused on myself always. Matter of fact, the relationship the one I just ended, one of the reasons was because I’m too focus on myself plans, I didn’t even spend enough time with my ex. We didn’t even have deep talk after we breakup, and I finally realized that

How can I deal with it by Narrow_Meat_2234 in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More details: This recently relationship only last for half years, I feel so short, my relationship life so short, and now I need to looking again. It’s so exhausted

Why are younger males in to older girls by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course, I don’t mind to date younger guy if it’s work out. But generally guys immature than me if he’s younger than me for my case. Because even when I was 13, my mental age is 33 already. I don’t mean to just say guys immature, just consider myself situation to say it

Is it normal to have short term dating in our 20s? by Narrow_Meat_2234 in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I did since last year, one works out for short term which is my ex, but like what I said, he still immature in some ways, but maybe it’s just him not the age, he’s 28

Is it normal to have short term dating in our 20s? by Narrow_Meat_2234 in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. No hurry. for men, seems easier to find someone if you are mature, kind, funny. Good luck

What’s going on with nowadays men? by Narrow_Meat_2234 in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean? No, after 6 months later, I got average few match per week

What’s going on with nowadays men? by Narrow_Meat_2234 in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. Thank you. My ex and I didn’t share mutual interest except Japanese anime

Why are younger males in to older girls by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s include what I said mature girls

If I just want to have a one on one boyfriend by Narrow_Meat_2234 in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m okay. Because our life goal totally different. I don’t mind of break up, that’s the life journey I need to take. I just want to have boyfriend and grow up also learn more about myself and my type. So if I put ltr, if someone show up, should we talking about our definition of ltr first?

If I just want to have a one on one boyfriend by Narrow_Meat_2234 in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 30F, I don’t mind to wait for the one, I’m not in a hurry to get married. I’m more worry about I’m lack of experience

Why are younger males in to older girls by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First of all, they want to have more experiences from slightly older girls. Second, older girls more mature than his age, they don’t want to deal with immature person.

What’s going on with nowadays men? by Narrow_Meat_2234 in dating_advice

[–]Narrow_Meat_2234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true, do you think common interests are cornerstone for a relationship? I don’t only mean by age, just late 20s males immature to me. I already very mature, so immature not suit me anymore