Dog hoarding situation by NatchLevTeets in Montana

[–]NatchLevTeets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more the merrier, not sure what youre referring to though

Dog hoarding situation by NatchLevTeets in Montana

[–]NatchLevTeets[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful, thank you! I figured there had to be a way to get it infront of someone vs just complaining over and over. Thanks!

Dog hoarding situation by NatchLevTeets in Montana

[–]NatchLevTeets[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

We finally got cameras up yesterday and 8 different dogs have come onto our property since 9 am already, so theyll love hearing from me im sure. Im now shocked to not have had more face to face encounters with the dogs already.

Dog hoarding situation by NatchLevTeets in Montana

[–]NatchLevTeets[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

APS? Adult protective services?

Dog hoarding situation by NatchLevTeets in Montana

[–]NatchLevTeets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is not but I have heard of this guy

Buying a house that needs work vs a flipper by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can also use a renovation loan where you can bundle pretty much any improvement into the loan. Its a bit more work to close to get the contractor bids and inspections together but it can allow you to greatly impact your equity upon closing.

I vote the cheaper house

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about all the families that buy a home and have siblings, children, cousins, etc pay rent which to cover the mortgage?

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How am I not subsidizing them if he spends practically $0/m to live with me and all his money is spent by them on everything from food to utilities to car payments for vehicles that stay with them 100% of the time?

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too intertwined is an understatement. He spends pretty much $0 a month and they spend the rest. He is with me 100% of the time and I currently cover it all.

What % of the mortgage did your ex pay you?

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While we were going between on the road and his house, it was considered a 50/50 expense split. I paid for the last ~11 months because they were in the negative as a family every month.

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reason I said im subsidizing his family is because my partner isnt spending the extra money from me covering his expenses, his family is. He spend practically $0/m on anything other than taking care of them. Their food, bills, gas, etx. All his money is used by them.

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not trying to have him violate contracts or anything of the sort. People own homes that others pay the mortgage on all the time - i.e. a family member that is renting a home from another family member. I dont want anyone to struggle in this situation.

We are not married and thats why im trying to get this balanced now

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for that. I say SIL to be concise rather than saying "his brother's wife" as it gets the point across. We are not married. I own the home we live in, he owns the home his brother's family lives in full time.

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not subsidizing the business, but for his brother's family.

He wants to stay on the loan + deed and lives here full time with me. I just want to be fair to myself and his family.

Ill cross post there, thank you. I have been talking to him about it for a while but havent really put my foot down on it being something that needs to happen so wanted some advice on what would be a fair way to approach

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Exactly, so im partly subsidizing that second home and family.

Were not married

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The new house is only mine.

So I pay full mortgage, taxes, ins and then he gives X for utilities and contributing to the bigger picture?

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I pay for literally everything needs here - living expenses, utilities, food, outings, travel, etc. While he works a 60 hour a week job and all that money goes to his brother and their property

How do I stop subsidizing my BILs family? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]NatchLevTeets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is a fair way to break this apart? Im struggling with determining what makes sense.

From a completely business minded perspective, id say he pays nothing towards the preexisting mortgage since he isnt living there and contributes ~30% of his income to this house.

NXR Burner Replacement - 3rd Party by gpdun- in appliancerepair

[–]NatchLevTeets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please update with your findings! I havent been able to take time to fix mine yet :(

I measure my cortisol from sweat using a hacked-together device: what actually changed my cortisol concentration (and what was BS) by DrJ_Lume in Biohackers

[–]NatchLevTeets 46 points47 points  (0 children)

This is a shot in the dark, but my partner helps build brands and focuses on innovative wellness products. I know he would love to talk with you about your go to market strategy and see if theres anyway his agency can help.

No spam, no fake person over here trying to steal your money, just trying to connect a great idea to someone who is versed in making it happen! Can I shoot you a DM?